Dating
I'm a boy, and I've never been in this situation, but there are two things.
I'm a boy, and I've never been in this situation, but there are two things. First of all, I will put myself in the shoes of some things, so when I saw your post, I also wanted to come for a long time. And also try to see things from a girl's point of view. (Why don't you really smile) Number two. I have a good friend of the opposite sex. He also experienced this kind of thing. When we were in senior one, there was a boy who had some conflicts with her and quarreled with her. That day on the night of self-study, self-study in the middle of the class has 10 minutes to rest time, and then the boy, he was about to apologize in a stairwell, the gift has been bought. However, my original intention to apologize was not successful. After that, the girl felt very afraid because of some things, and from then on, the two of them changed from good friends to almost strangers. Afterward I asked the boy, that boy's character is to express, particularly poor straight men sometimes true, and then I asked him, then he said, he didn't want to in front the classmate to get this thing, he also sounded very embarrassed, and he just about in the corridor ready to apologize, and said the results self-defeating, but he didn't want to know something. And then they became strangers. To tell you the truth, I felt really stupid about my friend afterwards. After it happened, I spent half an hour trying to talk to that girl, and I tried to talk to her for a while after that, um... Girls are nice and cheerful now. But I know in my own mind that it must have left a mark on him, but what I can help him with is that I have enlightened him and made him feel a little better. It didn't hurt my friend that much. In fact, the guy in your situation has good intentions, but the methods are too extreme, and he doesn't really consider your feelings. Guys get better from the beginning. To the end to hit you. In fact, this matter, I say a bad word, the first boy's quality to the back of the actually has become bad, I think you should refuse to refuse, the use of strong means to use strong means, do not leave him affection. Second, it is because this boy, if he still really like you, then he will not move you, he will not use that special extreme way, and many times in this extreme way to find you, and also climb over the wall this let people feel very afraid of things. This kind of love is not love, this kind of feeling is not feeling, this kind of feeling has been broken, this kind of boy he now first his thought is not correct, he now uses an extreme way to save you. The guy may have good intentions, he wants to get you back, and he doesn't want to end the relationship that has been maintained for a long time, but the guy doesn't really think about empathy and uses the way too extreme. If he really knew in his heart that it would make you feel scared, anxious, and sad, if he really liked you, if he really liked you deep down, then he wouldn't do it. If he is totally considerate of you, then he will not use such extreme ways to get you back over and over again. In fact, sometimes we are hurt by feelings, sometimes really will stay up all night. Sometimes it's nice to be cold. A quick solution is always better than a vague one. He was afraid of killing decision met the lingering affection, met the change of mind this world, the bitter is spoony. I hope my answer can give you some help and hope to be more and more sunny and cheerful in the days to come. Come on, get out early
By 邱前程3 years ago in Confessions
Love that seems to have existed and never existed
Watching movies and TV dramas love is always male two, every time was abused crazy tears. Sometimes, male two love is not shallow than male one, but because of various reasons to the end most choose to endure. Do you think the deep heart of the two men must be worth mentioning as a foil?
By pomfret wise3 years ago in Confessions
I lost the boy I loved
He was 21 and I was 17. The story begins in October 2018 and ends at 18:24 on March 26, 2021. He is 25 and I am 21. Before we were together, we were good friends who talked to each other. Of course, most of them were me talking and he was listening. We were together not because of love, but because I was tired of living alone and wanted to experience the feeling of living together.
By pomfret wise3 years ago in Confessions
Love At First Floss. Top Story - August 2022.
* Please note that due to privacy reasons, this is for educational purposes only. While this may be based off of real circumstances in my life, the person involved is an amazing dentist who deserves to keep their career intact. Due to this I will not be sharing his identifying information, but hopefully you can learn something through my experiences the next time you to sit in the chair.
By Kayla Lindley3 years ago in Confessions
Seeking the mystery woman who messaged me on Words with Friends
You know people are always so quick to think the worst. How many times do we walk on the other side of the street when we see someone walking towards us that we think looks a bit dodgy? Or maybe we hear an offer and repeat “Well if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is”?
By D-Donohoe3 years ago in Confessions
Signs You Are an Enabler in a Toxic Relationship
When it comes to healthy relationships, co-dependency is one of the unhealthy traits that hurt both partners. Codependency is when two people in a relationship have an over-reliance or dependence on one another - and that makes the relationship unhealthy.
By Jessey Anthony3 years ago in Confessions
My love experience
Forget it, there are 8 paragraphs in total, and it should take several times to finish! (1) First love, I met when I was working part-time after graduating from high school. I was a sophomore in a university. At that time, I was thinking how can there be such a simple and clean boy, I fell in love with him, and got together after working part-time together. But after being together for 3 days, I felt that I didn't like him anymore, and I was embarrassed to say that I broke up with him when I was a freshman. I remember he came to my school playground and waited for me all afternoon, but I didn't go out, and I felt sorry for him when I thought about it.
By Richard Zhong3 years ago in Confessions
I didn't want fall for you
The truth was I didnt want to fall for him. I had told myself no more relationship, no more falling for someone. It was time for me to focus on university and develop a career. Like many people you have had your heart hurt too many times, to the point that you stop looking for love because you have been too damage from the people that you thought loved you.
By Kim Murray3 years ago in Confessions
I don't want to have kids or get married
I need to begin this story by saying that I'm not bad mouthing anyone who has dreamed of getting married and having kids their whole lives. That's beautiful. Having kids is a selfless gesture and the most pure thing you can do. Giving up your life to raise another life is a beautiful thing. I admire those who do it. But honestly? It's not for me. I don't want it. I don't want kids or a wife or husband. I don't want to be pregnant. I don't want to make a nursery in anticipation of a little one arriving. I don't want any of that. Now to those that do, I admire you. I admire that your hearts desire is to raise another human and teach them all kinds of stuff. I admire that you want to see your kid go off to college and get married and all that. But that's not for me. I don't want to have kids. It's never been on my heart. I don't want a family of my own. At least a human family anyway. I would however love a fur family. I'd love to have a house full of dogs and cats. I'd love to let them play in my fenced in yard while I have breakfast. I'd love to snuggle with them during a thunderstorm or while watching a movie. I'd love to take my dogs on a hike or for a run. I'd love to go swimming with my dogs or camping with all my pets. That's my hearts desire. I don't want human kids. I will love each and every one of my pets the same way a mother loves her child. Unconditionally. I will love them so much and so hard. I will take joy in them and roll my eyes when they do something silly. I will mourn their death when it's time and grieve the loss for a while. I will never forget them. I will simply just try and move on. Now as far as marriage is concerned. I don't want to get married. That requires a level of closeness that I'm neither comfortable with nor ready for. All of my dating experiences have been negative or abusive. I don't believe I'll ever trust someone that deeply or love them that much ever again. I gave someone my heart and they broke it and abused it. I'm not doing that again. I don't want to pick out a wedding dress only to get hurt again potentially. I don't want to have a wedding party or a wedding. I don't want to give my life to someone. To those that do, I completely understand why you would want to do that. I'm not saying don't do it. I'm just saying it's not for me. I need to heal. I need to figure out who I am. I need to get control of my life, heart and emotions. I need to see the world. I need to learn how to be alone and how to support myself. I need to become stronger and less angry. I need to soften my heart. I need to understand what a healthy relationship is and how to treat people. I can't do that in a marriage. I can't expect someone else to wait for me either. That's not fair. I would end up hurting them as well. I need to learn to speak up. I need to learn how to be stronger in my convictions and stop thinking that all I do is mess up. I need to for all intents and purposes: heal.
By Amanda Nicole3 years ago in Confessions
Bay Area Dating Sucks
Bay Area, a notorious place for dating. It is rough out here and I should know as a speed dating host. I have gone on dates that I genuinely do enjoy but no one wants more or maybe the men I go for do not want or seek a longer term relationship with me.
By Chantel3 years ago in Confessions
