I'm a boy, and I've never been in this situation, but there are two things.

I'm a boy, and I've never been in this situation, but there are two things. First of all, I will put myself in the shoes of some things, so when I saw your post, I also wanted to come for a long time. And also try to see things from a girl's point of view. (Why don't you really smile) Number two. I have a good friend of the opposite sex. He also experienced this kind of thing. When we were in senior one, there was a boy who had some conflicts with her and quarreled with her. That day on the night of self-study, self-study in the middle of the class has 10 minutes to rest time, and then the boy, he was about to apologize in a stairwell, the gift has been bought. However, my original intention to apologize was not successful. After that, the girl felt very afraid because of some things, and from then on, the two of them changed from good friends to almost strangers. Afterward I asked the boy, that boy's character is to express, particularly poor straight men sometimes true, and then I asked him, then he said, he didn't want to in front the classmate to get this thing, he also sounded very embarrassed, and he just about in the corridor ready to apologize, and said the results self-defeating, but he didn't want to know something. And then they became strangers. To tell you the truth, I felt really stupid about my friend afterwards. After it happened, I spent half an hour trying to talk to that girl, and I tried to talk to her for a while after that, um... Girls are nice and cheerful now. But I know in my own mind that it must have left a mark on him, but what I can help him with is that I have enlightened him and made him feel a little better. It didn't hurt my friend that much. In fact, the guy in your situation has good intentions, but the methods are too extreme, and he doesn't really consider your feelings. Guys get better from the beginning. To the end to hit you. In fact, this matter, I say a bad word, the first boy's quality to the back of the actually has become bad, I think you should refuse to refuse, the use of strong means to use strong means, do not leave him affection. Second, it is because this boy, if he still really like you, then he will not move you, he will not use that special extreme way, and many times in this extreme way to find you, and also climb over the wall this let people feel very afraid of things. This kind of love is not love, this kind of feeling is not feeling, this kind of feeling has been broken, this kind of boy he now first his thought is not correct, he now uses an extreme way to save you. The guy may have good intentions, he wants to get you back, and he doesn't want to end the relationship that has been maintained for a long time, but the guy doesn't really think about empathy and uses the way too extreme. If he really knew in his heart that it would make you feel scared, anxious, and sad, if he really liked you, if he really liked you deep down, then he wouldn't do it. If he is totally considerate of you, then he will not use such extreme ways to get you back over and over again. In fact, sometimes we are hurt by feelings, sometimes really will stay up all night. Sometimes it's nice to be cold. A quick solution is always better than a vague one. He was afraid of killing decision met the lingering affection, met the change of mind this world, the bitter is spoony. I hope my answer can give you some help and hope to be more and more sunny and cheerful in the days to come. Come on, get out early