Jay LeTron Dobbins
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Casual writer! Love to express in print! Tell people how you feel and love life to the fullest with no regrets. Try to say something good about a person when they can hear it, and not when they are gone! Love like no tomorrow.
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The Valentine's Day Massacre
I am a hopeless romantic by all means! I'm the first guy to purchase a gift or send flowers on "just because" terms. As the New Yorkers would say, I got receipts! However, I am not the one to ever get caught up into holiday spending. No, far from cheap, I just like for my coins to be spent in a sensible manner. I could be far off the radar, but the emotional chip needs to be put in check when it comes to this day. In the past, I made the effort to buy flowers, plan dates and I thought to myself! What makes Valentine's Day different from any other day when I am doing the same process. I am always buy flowers and planning dates! Is this not the man's role when he is in courting mode, and in relationship mode? So after all these years, what sets Valentine's Day special from any other day? Lets try to look at how this day got started!
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
Why are Black Men Loving Less?
What kind of men are loving the women of tomorrow. I joke with my nieces a great deal about not being able to date until their mid 30s and with the quality of men coming out, I'm starting to joke less about the subject and want them to focus on themselves first. I have two sons and I ask them about girls in school and I ask my daughter about the boys. Yes, they are fairly young and I even started late due to my shyness. My first girlfriend wasn't until my Sr, Year of high school. Yes I was shy, but I'm concerned of this group of men we have today and the ones that are coming up.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
The Level of Mental Minimum
I Know, I know, the dating pool has pee in it. Well hopefully after this chlorine, maybe someday we all can get back in and maybe this time with some mental floaties that will prevent us from drowning. I was sitting down with my sister, and we were toying with some thoughts that should be into consideration. So what is the bare minimum one should have when considering jumping in the dating pool? There are so many thoughts that came out of this conversation, so will only cover a few. The most we thought a person should have the bare minimum not to do the following while on a dinner date.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
My Funny Valentine
I'm probably the furthest thought on your mind. There is no absolute rational method to what I'm about to say, that I'm sure you would consider. Well, expressing myself to a true Southern Belle, I would hope that my presentation touch you in a gentle way.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
Don't Ask My Social Media
Can we really find out about a person's true character by what he or she post on social media? Me personally, my number one slogan is never to follow me on social media, it might stress the follower out. Granted people use social media for various reasons from dating to business. However, can anyone gather a full understanding of an individual be just reviewing a social media page? This is a very debatable subject, but I beg to differ that there is a clear understand about anyone by just reviewing a few posts or tweets. I have been dismissed or misquoted more than enough times than I can remember and that was truly her loss, and at some times, I dodged a major bullet.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
The Incredible way
One exciting Saturday afternoon, the guys and I decided to play flag football and after what started to appear to be a simple soft touch game of flag football, turned out to be rough and muddy game as the light rain turned into a sudden down pour. We had plans to catch open mic but a trip back to Conyers was too far, and I was sure to miss the opening if I wanted to change clothes. I had some shorts and a shirt in the car and there was a laundry center, which appeared to have light traffic for a Saturday. I saw my opportunity and maybe I could start a quick load, and wash up real fast at the Crusty 8 Motel next door.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
If Beauty Froze Time
The power of a women that could clam a storm in a man! The smell of her ways that can coax his desires in the palm of her hand. The gentle breeze by the sound of her voice could make him move mountains. if she plays her cards right, her groove could convince the common man to bring her fountains.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
Her Success is your Success
I lived on both sides of the coin when comes to building relationships that fail due to financial infidelity. I have seen my sisters play the role of the breadwinner and have their dreams demolished by a complete knucklehead. I have personally supported an ungrateful woman, to whom I supported and carried through school, to have her choose which she thought was a better man after she was established in her career. I appreciate the story of Judge Lynn Toler because not only it is a story we all could learn from, but it is also on the success level that most pay attention to and cannot debate. The summary of their story was that her marriage with her husband was supportive and comfortable in himself to have take a sacrifice in his business, for her success to blossom. For the complete details of their story, please look it up.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
Throw the Whole Damn Text Away!
Sending a quick SMS or DM letting a friend or love one know you are late, or an address to an event is OK and accepted in my standards. However, this method of communication should be only used for minimum reasons. Stop texting people at work! Let them earn a living so they can pay some bills! Women, you cannot wonder why he is not communicating with you during work hours. Simple, he is working! I'm going to give two good reason why data messaging should be eliminated from "normal" communication and this should be a standard that demands someone speak on the phone as much as possible.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
The Unfair Life of Natural Glasses.
To understand the skill set for operating a semi, is to understand the beauty of life. We can be very judgmental and compartmentalize people and fit them into our perception based on image. It has nothing to do with strength or rights of passage, but everything to do with determination and proper mindset. The difficult process of driving a manual transmission vehicle has to be one of the most difficult task in our daily lives. Now imagine driving a multi-ton vehicle at the same time of managing weight load from not shifting and causing the semi to roll in the middle of traffic. Now in most cases, the common thought is that no woman can accomplish parallel parking while driving a small vehicle. However, there are a great deal of women that can drive better than some men.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
Would You have stayed if You knew the Truth?
Here it is! I don't think that I will get much agreement from the audience, but I am not a firm believer that you are what you attract. Take a moment and let this sink in. Could a person in their right mind, meet an individual and this individual says that I am cheater, abuser, user, and the pit-of-the-Earth and after hearing this; this person would remain in the relationship or continue to get to know this individual? I don't think there is a level of desperation that could be so low. Yes, we see couples on the back end, with both men and women slumber to a codependent level and unfortunately develop a horrible misconception that the abuser is the best situation for them. However, there is light at the end of the tunnel.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins3 years ago in Humans
