Emily Chan - Life and love sharing
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Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing
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A Reserved Heart: The Wisdom of Letting Go
"It's not that I'm devoid of feelings; I simply no longer entrust myself to uncertain people." For a time, I would often panic and lose my composure over a single word, emotion, or gesture from someone. It seemed as if the slightest frown from them would crumble my world, and a sigh would make me doubt myself.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing26 days ago in Poets
Which Kind of Love is Worthy of Your Whole Heart?
A truly positive view on love is this: If you love someone, be with them and cherish the moment. Don't overthink things; focus on the present and deal with the future later. Constantly overthinking will only make things worse, and you can't control what's going to happen anyway. And don't dwell on things that haven't happened yet; it only affects your mood and doesn't benefit your relationship.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing28 days ago in Poets
Playing Your Own Hand Well
The older you get, the more clearly you understand one truth: Life isn't a fair game; everyone is dealt a different hand. You see that some people learn quickly, while others retain knowledge for a long time; some are naturally optimistic, and others possess incredible willpower; some instantly connect with everyone, and some gain trust with just a few words. You even find people who work equally hard, yet achieve vastly different results.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingabout a month ago in Poets
Choose Partner Who Makes You Alive
Truly capable people, when choosing a life partner, consider only one thing: can this person give you a sense of life? This "sense of life" isn't about romance, passion, or a willingness to spend money or be overly attentive. It's about whether being with this person makes you more vibrant, more yourself, more free, more relaxed, and even gives you that feeling of "it's good to be alive."
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingabout a month ago in Humans
Is Your Fight a 'Vicious Cycle'?
A friend once told me, "I feel like my husband and I are caught in a vicious cycle." I asked her what was wrong. She said that day it was just a small argument, but when sadness and anger welled up, it was like opening a filing cabinet in her mind—all the past grievances and disappointments came flooding back. She only wanted to talk about what happened that day, but she started recalling many unseen moments, and the more she thought about it, the angrier she became, until she couldn't help but confront her husband. The argument escalated, and he felt she was bringing up old issues, while she herself was confused: "I didn't mean to bring them up; those feelings just came flooding back."
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingabout a month ago in Humans
It is Time to Stop Being a Saint
At 35, it's time to stop playing the saint; stop feeding everyone. I gave you a bottle of water in the desert. When we got to the city, you bought me a bottle, claiming we were even. This is the harsh reality of human nature.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingabout a month ago in Poets
Choose Your Energy Wisely
Surround yourself with people who can recharge you. I’ve encountered too many people full of negativity. They habitually express their thoughts with negative emotions, and their common thread is a deep disapproval of everything in the world. They will even constantly tell you that you're not good enough.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingabout a month ago in Poets
