Carla SofiiLove Garcia
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Writing is my passion... find me on Twitter @goddesswriter90.
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Straight Talk: Things Men Do That Women Hate
Men have this fantasy that life with a woman is supposed to revolve around the needs and wants of the flesh; women are supposed to constantly desire them or supposed to want sex all the time. Guess what, there’s things that y’all do that woman don’t like. Maybe if men took the time to ask what we accept or don’t accept, you’d know how to please us. But here are a few things that I personally don’t like, which I’m sure that I’m not the only one.
By Carla SofiiLove Garcia 5 years ago in Filthy
Touching Hearts, One At A Time.
For as long as I can remember, I have always been the person that people went up to for advice, for a listening ear, or a shoulder to lean on, but I have now noticed and asked myself, "who has been there to listen to me, and be my shoulder to lean on when I need it?". The answer is, no one. But, being a good friend sometimes means being selfless, putting others before yourself, no matter what you may be going through. Throughout my time, I have lived and learned to manage with different types of people, I have heard many stories (some heartbreaking, some joyous), and I have always been there to listen. It may not sound like a talent or a trait, but not everyone can sit there and not be ready to throw in the towel. The thing I love more than anything in the world is when someone trusts me enough, to confide in me with their deepest, most intimate stories, ask me for my opinion, and being able to provide my input or provide advice that I feel would benefit them. It makes me feel that I matter in this person's life, they value what I have to say, and they thought about me in these moments of need.
By Carla SofiiLove Garcia 5 years ago in Humans
He took my innocence from me
I went a long time wondering if there was something wrong with me if in my past life I did something so wrong that I deserved what I was going through, or I simply had been dealt a bad hand and just had to accept that. But I have been through so much in the 30 years I have been alive, that sometimes you wonder if it is worth it to keep going. I have tried to picture my life in many different scenarios, such as different parents, different circumstances, different friends, taken a different path, made different choices, but all are not my reality. I have heard from different people that G.OD. has a plan for our plans and that we just have to be patient; I got tired of being patient when I practically had my childhood and my innocence were taken away from me. What I'm about to share with you is quite disturbing, and not the thing that I pictured I would be sharing with the world, I do feel it has changed who I am and how I perceive myself; I have never really known my worth, but with this, I felt like I wasn't worth anything. I hope this doesn't seem as if I am seeking pity or empathy, it is more therapeutic, more or less helpful to those who have not had the opportunity to voice their own experiences. I hope for those of you who needed someone to be there for you, I hope you finally found what you were looking for.
By Carla SofiiLove Garcia 5 years ago in Criminal
Being with you and thinking about him
Leading a double life is not the fantasy that is shown in movies or love novels, it's hard work and very exhausting. I had always been curious what it would be like to have my partner and another man on the side... now that I've experienced it, I would never do it again. I've lost more than I bargained for, and more than I initially wanted to. I will start from the beginning, but it's a long story and I don't know if there are details I should disclose. For the integrity of the ones involved, I will be using fictional names, but the events in this confession are real.
By Carla SofiiLove Garcia 5 years ago in Confessions
The Serenity In Gardening
Gardening is my new found passion, it’s something I never thought I was good at, but I needed an outlet for when I was feeling stressed or overwhelmed. I always admired how my grandma or my mom had a good hand for gardening, and seeing how their plants would flourish. My immediate passions always were painting, writing, or baking... those are the three things I was good at above everyone else in my family, it was something that I could get lost in doing and do it all the time. Baking was a hobby as well as a thriving idea for a business for me, I was able to start a at-home business, it went well, but life came along and a lot of things changed. I experienced loss in my family, my work life became quite complex, I needed something that would make me go outside and enjoy the beauty of the world. I took on gardening, I started by buying a starter kit box of lavender and sunflower seeds to see if I was any good at it, long behold, I actually had a niche for it; who knew?! So, I started making trips to Home Depot, buying small variety of plants, and I started created other things that were opening up the possibilities for more. I discovered that I had a talent for caring and taking care of something that also required a lot of love and attention. Not like I’ve never had pets that I needed to take care of, or family, but this was something for which brought joy to my heart as well as joy to others. I’m not an expert by any means in this field, I am still learning as I go, but I would’ve never imagined myself doing this and being good at it. I started getting my friends into it, I had a coworker like seeing my succulent sitting on my desk, so I took her one, and it just picked up from there.
By Carla SofiiLove Garcia 5 years ago in Lifehack
