relationships
Trace the link between feminism and relationships from outdated norms to modern conventions including chivalry, working mothers, splitting the bill and beyond.
My Pride And Joy
To my beautiful daughter Emily, From the moment you were born, I knew you were going to grow up to be an amazing woman and do great things in life. I knew I would be proud of you but I really had no idea just how much that pride would grow on a daily basis.
By Jody Kuperavage5 years ago in Viva
Dear Victoria
Dear Victoria, Life must seem pretty good for you now. You’re almost 10! That is a big number for you. I know most of your friends have already reached those double digits but you are almost there! Does it seem like those friends are starting to meet other people and spend more of their time with them instead of you? Are they moving away and mom has to drive you to see them?
By Vicky DiMichele5 years ago in Viva
Dream On
Sophie swore to herself that she'd never go back to online dating. She had amassed enough tragic stories of dates gone so badly that people raised an eyebrow of doubt anytime she recounted them. They were so horrific that she figured there couldn't possibly be many people who had suffered worse dating tragedies. Yet, here she was again putting on a pretty dress and perfecting her makeup in nervous anticipation. Her cab was outside, waiting to deliver her to yet another online dating adventure, or disaster. Whatever the case may be, it was too late to bail without ghosting the poor guy.
By Wendy Sanders5 years ago in Viva
All in the Presentation
Standing by that Photo of Fallen Trees, the one by that famous wilderness photographer. You know the one, at least you’ll recognize the image. It’s on display at the far back of the gallery, but you can see it when you are looking down the main hallway. There, under that very photo, your date awaits in a brown leather jacket, dark hair and holding a glass of wine. It will be merlot.
By KateC Gaston5 years ago in Viva
The Invitation
Lily was terrified. They had been talking for nearly a year and finally she had worked up the courage to suggest a real “date.” The suggestion, much to her surprise, was accepted and to make the whole situation even more stressful, she’d suggested her place. What the hell was she thinking? It’s one thing to text back and forth, or talk for a bit on the phone. It’s also fairly easy to banter at the coffee shop. There are escape routes, dammit. You can hang up, have to go to the bathroom, or just leave. But no, you had to go and make it weird and inescapable by having it at your place. What are you going to do? Run out of the apartment and hope for the best? Girl, you are an idiot.
By Joyce R. Carter5 years ago in Viva
From here to home
I meet the little black notebook on my normal train. It’s not a date per se. Instead, fate brings us together on the 17:58 express from here to home, and although the carriage is mostly empty, the notebook has chosen my favourite seat, my only seat, to lay itself down and wait.
By Hejira Convery5 years ago in Viva
How it feels to be in a relationship with a toxic person
Sometimes, it’s easier to deny than to accept and apologize. People are always going to be imperfect and flawed; the first thought to cross your mind after being accused of something will always be to deny and question the accusation. Most of the time, people think through just what they’ve been accused of, and reason whether or not to admit to their faults.
By Sadie Haynes5 years ago in Viva
She Was My Good Friend, Until She Tried To Seduce My Husband
My husband and I met Lorraine* and her sister Chloe* (names changed) through a volunteer arts organization several years ago. They were both physically tiny, perhaps five feet and a hundred pounds, and although they were both in their twenties, physically they looked about fourteen. Their voices were childlike too, high and piping, prone to girlish squeals and nervous, tittering laughter. Indeed, they both seemed so young in manner and appearance that I sometimes forgot that they were adult women with college degrees and jobs. They were terribly enthusiastic once they joined up with our arts group, wanting to be a part of everything and be in every committee.
By Deborah Moran5 years ago in Viva
