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Advice and tips on managing mental health, maintaining a positive outlook and becoming your happiest self.

When the Signs Stop Showing Up
For a long time, I felt like I was in constant conversation with the universe. I would see repeating numbers—11:11, 222, 444. Songs would come on at just the right moment. A stranger’s words would echo my thoughts. Even a feather on the sidewalk felt like a wink from something bigger than me.
By Irfan Ali7 months ago in Psyche
When Meditation Made Me More Anxious
I thought meditation was supposed to save me. I had read about its magic everywhere—from wellness blogs to scientific journals. Inner peace, reduced stress, clarity, self-awareness. It sounded like the answer to all my internal chaos. So I lit a candle, closed my eyes, and tried to breathe deeply.
By Irfan Ali7 months ago in Psyche
The 'Dopamine Diet'
Your Brain on Apps: A Slot Machine in Your Pocket Every time you refresh Instagram, swipe on TikTok, or tap a YouTube short, you’re not just killing time—you’re consuming a highly engineered dopamine hit designed to be as addictive as sugar, nicotine, or even cocaine.
By MR.THOMAS7 months ago in Psyche
Why Your “Calm Era” Feels Lonely — And Why That’s a Good Sign
You wanted peace. You prayed for clarity. You begged to break the cycles. You swore you’d never go back to people who drained you.
By SHADOW-WRITES7 months ago in Psyche
The Day I Stopped Apologizing for Existing
The Day I Stopped Apologizing for Existing How I finally reclaimed my space in the world. For as long as I can remember, I’ve been apologizing.
By Straylight7 months ago in Psyche
The Quiet Magic of Choosing Peace Over Proving
There comes a moment in life when you get tired. Not just physically tired—but soul-tired. Tired of defending your choices.
By Irfan Ali7 months ago in Psyche
Why You Sabotage Good Things When You’re Used to Chaos
Let’s talk about something most people don’t say out loud: Sometimes, when life finally starts to feel calm... When someone treats you gently… When everything feels *too good* to be true…
By SHADOW-WRITES7 months ago in Psyche
The Silent Link: How Your Gut Talks to Your Brain. AI-Generated.
A Fog That Wouldn't Lift Sarah had everything most people dream of: a stable career in marketing, a warm circle of friends, and a small but cozy apartment in the heart of the city. She went to yoga twice a week, drank green smoothies, and always remembered to take her multivitamins.
By DR. Allama iqbal7 months ago in Psyche
Understanding Phobias: When Fear Becomes a Prison
Introduction Phobias are among the most common mental health conditions affecting people globally, yet they are often misunderstood or minimized. While many may use the term casually to describe aversions or dislikes, in clinical psychology, phobias represent a serious anxiety disorder with significant impact on daily functioning and quality of life.
By Siria De Simone7 months ago in Psyche
You Don’t Have to Be Healed to Be Loved
We live in a world that tells us to heal first — then love. Fix your trauma. Get your mind right. Learn to love yourself. *Then* you’ll be worthy.
By SHADOW-WRITES7 months ago in Psyche
Burnout Doesn't Mean You're Weak
When people talk about burnout, they often label it as a weakness. They might say you aren't strong enough, that you need to "try harder," or even call you lazy.
By Nikesh Lagun7 months ago in Psyche
The Importance of Counseling Competencies in the Counseling Profession
The first counseling competency that I believe is extremely crucial to develop for myself is building counselor self-awareness. Taking time to reflect on what my strengths and weaknesses are is very important in order to know what area to grow in. Everyone has some form of biases that they must become cognizant of in order to not be impaired when working in the counseling profession.
By Rowan Finley 7 months ago in Psyche