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Advice and tips on managing mental health, maintaining a positive outlook and becoming your happiest self.
Life is just a process
When I was young, Dad had three iron laws, and whoever violated them would have the most severe punishment. One is not to urinate in the river water, and the other is that ewes who are pregnant with lambs cannot be killed! When the elders call you, you cannot answer with a questioning tone! Once, the only time, when I urinated in the lower reaches of the river, the big dad kicked up and scolded you with the most disgusting words. That kind of momentum was especially terrible. Even a person like me who remembers eating and not hitting has never had a second time. These three iron laws have accompanied me to this day.
By Richard Zhong3 years ago in Psyche
Live life, if you can choose to smile, don't be sad
When a person is in the dust for too long, he forgets how to open himself up; when a person stays in the house for too long, he lacks the courage to face the sun; a person always covers up his true feelings, his face is expressionless, and gradually Also forget how to smile. The sun is always warm, as long as you are willing to open yourself up, a smile can release your heart and relieve some stress.
By Horn Smith3 years ago in Psyche
Twenty to thirty, drinking countless cans of chicken soup and still not really mature
When you are young, you need to struggle, and when you are young, you have the capital to try and make mistakes. After ten years of constant struggle and tempering, I have finally grown from an ignorant, sensitive and vulnerable teenager to an ignorant, sensitive and vulnerable youth. Sounds bad, doesn't it? Yes. But there is a little yearning in my heart for the blow from the waves of life, but it is as flat as me, and the sea of life has only swayed a little.
By Horn Smith3 years ago in Psyche
Where do the biggest problems in your life come from?
Some people say that the biggest confusion in life comes from not being able to let go. I don’t think it’s entirely true, because letting go of what you don’t have is not letting go. It’s easier said than done if you can let go of what you have. There are also people who have summed up the top ten confusions in life. They have always said a lot, and finally said that no matter what kind of emotional state or psychological problem it is, it will gradually change or accept with the soundness of the personality. In this process, we need to constantly strive to accept the reality. The way it should be and ourselves. After reading it, my head became more and more dizzy, and I couldn't make up my mind.
By Horn Smith3 years ago in Psyche
The happiness of eating together
Someone asked: How to express love? Another replied: "Want to eat a lot of meals with that person." Some people laughed and said he was really a foodie. right! More than half of modern young people are foodies, which is not ashamed to admit. When we miss our parents, we often get up because of the rice, and the smell of the rice can even waft across thousands of mountains and rivers. A happy family must be full of fireworks, with sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, and salty flavors!
By Horn Smith3 years ago in Psyche
Are you afraid of rejection and denial by others, or are you refusing and denying yourself?
Obviously I work very hard and do my best, why am I still afraid of rejection and denial from the outside world? We hope to gain the affirmation of others to enhance self-confidence and prove self-worth. There is always a voice of fear of rejection and denial in our hearts, which makes us miss the opportunity to show ourselves and let others know ourselves. Psychologically, I want others to know me, but I am afraid that others will deny me after knowing me.
By Horn Smith3 years ago in Psyche
What Is Spiritual Gaslighting and How to Recognize It
In these unprecedented times when millions of people are awakening, some friendly words of caution are in order for all those walking this sometimes bumpy road: beware of spiritual gaslighting. Make sure to learn what it is and how to recognize it, so you don’t get confused like many of us did.
By L'Aquila Active3 years ago in Psyche
Loneliness and success complement each other
Humans are social animals, people are naturally afraid of loneliness, and a sense of security comes from relative loneliness. Now people are redefining loneliness. Extraordinary people use loneliness to achieve themselves and fill their lives; mediocre people choose liveliness to fill their lives. I ask whether loneliness makes man, or does man's success define loneliness? Or are they perfect for each other?
By Horn Smith3 years ago in Psyche
Thinking from a different angle will bring things closer to the way things are
People most hope that the mistakes others have made will not be made again by themselves, but they still follow the path others have traveled and make the same mistakes. The experience of others is always difficult to learn and imitate. Why is this? (This piece of content is from the Internet, I think it is good and I will use it, thanks to the original god) "From the perspective of semantics and hermeneutics, after an incident occurs, many details of the incident are quickly forgotten by the parties involved. When he starts talking about it, you need to find the right words as a carrier, his memory will filter the incomplete memory again because of his emotions and likes and dislikes. We all have this experience, want to talk Or write an article, but always can't find the right way of expression or the right words. That is to say, when this matter is spoken by him, his expression may not be his original meaning. During this process It is very likely that the words do not convey the meaning of the words. Next, of course, we have to talk to the listener or the audience. When we hear the narrator, our understanding may be deviated, and our understanding of semantics may appear one way or another. When we restore the so-called "truth" based on our understanding again, the so-called "truth" has already drawn a considerable distance from the fact itself. Therefore, in this sense, everything he told , is never the way things really are."
By Horn Smith3 years ago in Psyche
