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I feel like my life is out of control. My dogs are not listening to me and sleeping on my side of the bed.

It sounds like you're experiencing a surge of emotions after waking up to find your dog has taken over your side of the bed. In philosophy, they teach and offer guidance on how to approach this situation from a philosophical standpoint. This may offer some guidance so when your dog is on your side of the bed, it will not make you mad. Instead, it will help to offer guidance on how to handle the emotions of losing your space.

One concept we can consider is Stoicism. Stoicism is a philosophy that teaches individuals to focus on what they can control and let go of what they can't control. In this case, you can't control the fact when things in life do not go your way, but you can control your reaction to it. Recognize that anger is a natural emotion, but it's essential to understand that you have the power to choose how you react to the situation.

Another concept we can consider is the idea of attachment. Attachment refers to the idea that we become attached to material possessions or specific outcomes and find it challenging to let them go. In this situation, losing your side of the bed has caused a sense of frustration and anger because you had expectations to be in your bed. However, practicing detachment by accepting the situation may help to reduce the feeling of anger towards whatever situation in life that happens that you may have to deal with.

Lastly, we can consider the idea of moral relativism. Moral relativism is the concept that morality varies based on individual, cultural, or societal values. While it may seem irrational to others that you're upset about little stuff, but it is still a valid reason to you. You have the personal right to be upset. It's essential to understand that while others may not feel the same way, your emotions are valid.

I hope these philosophical concepts help you navigate your emotions and better understand your reaction to this situation.

I'm hurting. I'm physically hurting.

I'm sorry to hear that you're in physical pain in addition to feeling upset about losing your side of the bed to your dog. Pain can often exacerbate our emotional reactions to situations, and it's essential to take care of yourself first.

Another concept that could be helpful to all is the idea of mindfulness. Mindfulness is about being present in the moment and fully experiencing your emotions without judgment or the need to change them. Deep breathing along with slow deep breaths can help the body. Focus on your body's physical sensations and become mindful of the pain you're experiencing. This will allow you to feel it fully without labeling it as good or bad.

It's also important to seek medical attention for your pain if it persists. Taking care of your physical health can also have a significant impact on your emotional well-being. My body is sending shocks of "Sit down!" & "Slow down, it hurts" Signals. :-(

Remember that we all experience setbacks and frustrations in life, but it's how we respond to these challenges that shape who we are as individuals. Focus on taking care of yourself first, the emotional reaction to the situation may become more manageable, and everything will fall into place. It seems I have a lot of setbacks, but looking back they are all blessings.

be gentle and be kind to your body

Being gentle and kind to your body is essential, especially when you're experiencing pain or discomfort. Listening to your body's needs and limitations can help prevent further injury or pain.

Self-care activities such as stretching, warm baths, getting enough sleep, and eating nourishing foods can also help your body heal and feel better overall. Remember that your body is the only one you have, and taking care of it should always be your top priority.