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These Life Lessons Are Requirements In Life, Not Choices

DON'T LET PEOPLE INFLUENCE YOUR FUTURE

By FRESHKING VIVIAN Published about a year ago 17 min read
These Life Lessons Are Requirements In Life, Not Choices
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Never go back to the past for joy, explanations, or justifications. Success is not final, failure is not deadly, and what matters is the willingness to keep going. The world is what it is, and you are what you are. Tomorrow will worry about itself, so don't worry about it.

Every day is difficult enough with all the liars in the world, but sometimes our own anxieties are the hardest. You don't need to burn books to destroy a culture; you can just encourage people to stop reading them. Don't ruin what you have by desiring what you have and forgetting that what you have now was once among the things you only wished for. Avoid looking back because you are not Going that way, practise self-compassion because we are all human and everyone makes mistakes.

If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything. Make and maintain friendships with the people you want to be like, not the ones you believe will accept you the most. These people will influence your future. Start saving money instead of spending it on homes, expensive cars, and excessive credit card use. In the end, you'll be much happier. There are two paths you can take, but there's still You There are only three things that happen in a man's life: birth, life, and death.

He is not aware of his birth; he dies in agony; and he forgets to live and control his mood because if it does not obey, it [music] commands. In order to understand the world, one must occasionally turn away from it; if it is wrong, do not do it; if it is not true, do not say it. The world is a tragedy to those who feel it, but a comedy to those who believe that thinking is the hardest task there is, which is likely why so few people engage in it. Love life is like a book; some chapters are cheerful, some are sad, but they are all essential to the overall plot of .

Take care of your health because without it, nothing matters and no amount of money can make you happy if you're in pain [music]. Always go in your own direction, not in accordance with society, friends, or family. What other people think of you is none of your business. Discipline leads to freedom to know your enemy; you must become your enemy. Children learn by an adult's example, not by their words.

Never overlook contempt when someone treats you with disdain and acts as though you are beneath them. probably cause you harm. Life is far from done, but it's also extremely short. If you want to do anything, don't put it off, but don't give up what you want for what you want, whether that person is removed from your life physically, socially, or in a relationship. [Music] The best thing I ever did was to stop sharing my life with others and instead be proud of how hard I'm trying.

When you're at your lowest, you realise that no one is too busy; it just comes down to priorities. Never force yourself to do anything, don't beg, don't chase, and learn how to change a flat tyre on your car. If you don't value your time, neither will anyone else. Others, don't put off necessary medical examinations since the suffering you endure today will become your strength tomorrow.

There are many people who don't deserve your time, so you can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending if you don't ask. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. Time heals almost everything. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn, and if it keeps you happy, keep it quiet. If no one helps you, do it alone. Whoever lacks the guts to take chances will succeed. Nothing in life ever assumes responsibility that is not rightfully its.

You should be selective about who you allow into your life, set clear boundaries, and purchase any property you can . Your life will be happier and less burdened if you can afford to have fewer possessions. Don't leave someone else to teach you a lesson; you learnt yours. When in doubt, just take the next small step. Be cautious about who you marry and even more cautious about who you have children with. Slow down and realise that mistakes are necessary to learn anything.

Get yourself together before you get older because it's harder to change as you get older. Only your family cares, so keep busy. It's the least expensive kind of medicine on the planet. When your friend's issues become your problems, that's the finest. When you were born, you cried and everyone else cheered. Live your life such that when you pass away, everyone else cries and you rejoice.

The smaller your circle, the less you have to deal with. A negative stage of your life could begin at any time. Nothing makes you happier than having a small amount of money saved each week or month. Genius is 1% skill and 99% hard work. It is the noblest thing that God has ever done. Contrary to popular belief, happiness is something you create for the [music] and not something you put off for later.

Life in the present happens really quickly, therefore if you don't pause to observe your surroundings, you could miss it, the things you consider impact the state of your mind, try your hardest, and Have faith in the process; the more you put in, the fortunate you will be. Your head will safely lead you there, and your heart will tell you where to go. If you utilise one without the other, you'll get lost.

If you want to live a happy life, attach it to a goal rather than people or things. Get rid of your anxieties when you take off your clothing at night since often the lies that are thought to be true turn out to be the truth. Never give up on anything you truly desire. It's hard to wait, but it's harder to regret. If you're preoccupied with small things, you can't accomplish large things. Let go of what you cannot control and focus on what you can. A smart person avoids problems, whereas a clever person finds solutions to them.

Most so-called failures are merely temporary setbacks. Life is about making who you are, not about discovering who you are. What matters is how you respond to the things that happen to you. Nothing in life costs as much as illness, and ignoring an illness is only fantasy. Intuition is something that comes before accurate understanding, and one may always be compassionate to those they care about. Your life improves via change, not by accident. Remain resilient in the face of adversity. Start to crumble, but don't give up; I'd much rather be a herd of pigs. better understood by pigs than a poet misinterpreted by men You will never regret telling someone you love them, so do it before it's too late.

You can learn more about a person from what he says about others than you can from what others say about him. Getting married means doubling your responsibilities and halving your rights, and you will be pulled down out of jealousy. The majority of the time, you have to learn to grow up on your own, trust intelligently, and not blindly. Don't be startled; this is natural. For a short while, a fool is recognised by his words, and a wise man by his quiet.

Never take anything personally; what other people say and do is a projection of their own reality. The more you are interested in other people, the more interesting they find you to be. The only time you should ever look back is to see how far you've come. One day is worth two tomorrows. Our thoughts shape who we are.

The difficulties show what men are. The life of the dead is set in the memory of the [music] living. believes that a leader is a dealer in Tres, the antithesis of indifference, when someone shows their true self to you. I hope that when you work for someone, you share your bravery with others while keeping your anxieties to yourself. Otherwise, you have the right to work and not to reap the rewards of your labour.

True love does not start when you expect anything in return. Instead, read a quote and ask yourself, "How can I relate this to my life better 50% now than 100%?" Never fix anything that isn't broken since you will always be judged, so be yourself. Like seawater, wealth makes us thirstier the more we drink it, and the same is true of fame; what Paul says about Peter reveals more about Paul than about Peter. Troubles fortify the mind, just as labour strengthens the body.

The truth is that everyone will try to harm you. Simply put, you have to decide who is worth suffering for, be faithful to, or simply say no when you're upset. When you work for someone else, you have the right only to work and not to enjoy the fruits of your labour. Children make so much noise that you can't think, but when they leave the house forever, the silence is unbearable.

You don't have to win every argument; you can agree to disagree. Eventually, you'll realise that no one else has any say in your life unless you allow them to. No matter how thin you cut it, nonviolence is a weapon of the powerful. will always have two sides: everything you do is science, and everything you dream is fiction.

Human history is nothing more than science [music] fiction. No wind is favourable if a man does not know the port he is sailing to. Live each day as if it were your last as only those who can afford to tell the truth will be free in the future. The greatest risk is not taking any action; a pound of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

Give without expecting anything in return. You must break the habit of doubting yourself and waiting for change without taking any action since it is like waiting for The train at a bus We have two lives, and the second one starts when we realise we only have. Stop a blind guy is a bad guide till it gets dark. One, you cannot wait for inspiration; you must pursue it with a club. It's not your fault that things are the way they are.

Think about it: if you can't explain it to a six-year-old, you don't understand it yourself. Life only comes around once, so do what makes you happy; people who are hardest to love deserve it. You dreamed about being where you are five years ago. The principles of physics are what one individual refers to as God. Hatred is a curse that only poisons the hater, who then vents their resentment as though it were poison. Never share your plans with your pals; don't place too much faith in them; and keep your plans a secret until is finished.

Time always reveals what you really mean to someone. Be honest with everyone, be gregarious with many people near to the elect buddy, and be afraid not to . live Anger indicates that a woman is not only incorrect, but also aware of it. Time always reveals what you really mean to someone, even if the best swarrow is submerged in salt water.

If someone is attempting to bring you down, they are already under you. eventually rust. Not everyone wants to be your friend, and that's okay; you don't want everyone as a friend. In any case, what we do now will last forever. Do the difficult tasks first; the simple ones will take care of themselves. If you can survive your own thoughts, you can survive anything. Love your enemies because they point out your flaws, but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

It is procrastination that steals time. One day, when you look back on the years of hardship, you will find that they were the most beautiful. History teaches us that nobody learns from [music]. history Who Dares Needs Nothing Failure is a bruise, so learn to move on without letting everyone know. Not a tattoo Be cautious about who you put your trust in because money is really a tool, not the end aim.

The Saints are the Sinners who never give up, so keep your cool, you've been through this before, you'll get through it again, learn to say no without giving an explanation, and believe just half of what you see. Above all, respect [music] Do what no one else can do and you will become what no one else can become. Value experiences over material belongings because memories are the true treasures of life.

Give back, even if it's just giving a dollar bill to someone less fortunate or donating the leftovers from your tag sale. It will make you feel good. Good women should be loved, not understood. They should lead from the rear and give the impression that they are in the forefront. Love is an unquenchable yearning, and if you don't prepare, you're setting yourself up for failure. The individual who lacks brains cannot see it; do yourself a favour. Become wealthy because money, not music, makes life simpler. If they don't value you, they don't deserve you.

To avoid disappointment, don't anticipate anything from anyone, and avoid gossip at all costs because it's mentally poisonous. Attachment tension is the source of all misery, but the lessons you learn from it can last a lifetime. Although money isn't everything in life, it can be used to solve many issues The future arrives gradually. The greatest victory is victory over oneself; if you are not falling down sometimes, you are simply coasting and forgetting what it taught you .

The only way to live like a king is to work like a slave; everyone eventually sits down to a banquet of consequences; you entered this vast world alone and will leave it alone, so you can accomplish anything by yourself. You only appear weak when you are strong, and when you are weak, seek wisdom rather than knowledge. If you give a guy power in the future, you will discover who he is.

You are in charge of your own happiness; if you look to other people to make you happy, you will always be let down. You don't always need to be doing and being; it's perfectly acceptable to just relax. The person in charge of the past is in charge of the future, the person in charge of the present is in charge of the past, the intelligent people learn from everything, and the average people learn from their experiences, the stupid people already know all the answers.

Above all, never be afraid; the person who makes you retreat is scared of you at that very moment. Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be remembered. end in order for greater things to [Music] start. If you want to forget anything right away, make a note that it's [Music]. Those who wait could recall things, but only those who [music] leave behind things The most effective weapon you can use to change the world is hustle knowledge.

You should have at least one person in your life who is honest with you. Be a kind person, but don't waste time demonstrating it. All of your actions, even if they were your final ones, are done for a cause; whoever betrays trust once loses it forever. Mastering others is strength; mastering oneself is ultimate power. He suffers more than Who must endure suffering before it is required? If a man knows more than others, he becomes lonely. Life is like riding a bicycle; you have to keep moving to keep your balance.

Success is stumbling from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm. Nothing is particularly difficult if you divide it up into small jobs. Your fear of dying rises in direct proportion to your wealth. Your enemies can kill you, but only your friends can hurt you. Just as the water pitcher is built drop by drop, so too is the wise man. bit by bit, he fills himself with nice things, and if you want to be trusted, everything you need will arrive at the right time.

Sincerely, those who claim it is impossible shouldn't stop those who are doing it. A goal without a plan is only a wish, and we suffer more in our imagination than in ; prosperity is not found in having many possessions. reality He Who Seldom Walks Straight Drops Life will separate you from your friends, so cherish every moment you spend with them.

Women elevate men to a higher level of sophistication. Don't strive for happiness; instead, prepare for the worst. Good things do come to those who wait and suffer; it may take time and be a long and difficult journey, but it will be well worth it when you look back. with far greater sorrow for the things you chose not to do than for the things you did. First and foremost, a career should be an act of love rather than a convenience marriage. Better times are on the horizon, and you won't constantly wake up depressed.

The man who does more than he is paid for will soon be paid more than he does, so don't react and cut them off quietly. Worrying doesn't solve tomorrow's problems; it only takes away today's tranquilly. A genius's mind is aware of its limitations. Your mind is your greatest strength and biggest enemy; practise it effectively so that you treat others the way you want to be treated in . Anyone you love could pass away at any time, so treasure them. Money is time.

Building trust is simple, but it can be destroyed in an instant. The brave are accompanied by fortune; the more time you waste dwelling on the past, the less probable it is that your future will be any better. The attainment of perfection He who has a purpose in life can endure nearly anything, not when there is nothing more to add but when there is nothing left to take away. The two are the Art of Living Well and the Art of Dying Well.

If you can make a girl laugh, you can get her to do anything. If you waste money, you can get it back if you miss the opportunity. It cannot be given back. It always appears impossible until it's done, so live life with your eyes, ears, and heart open. Don't allow the same people let you down twice. The best way to save yourself is to save money every day, which compound interest can achieve. Wonders When you're happy, keep your mouth shut. When you're sad, things don't make us happy.

The first step is to stop talking and start fighting like a real man, but you won't ever run away from it. There's truth in wine, and kids want you to succeed, but not more than themselves. Hard times will always show what's true. Friends, you should quit comparing yourself to others who started ten years ago and instead concentrate on your own journey, which is the outcome of maturity.

After forgetting what was taught in school, education is what's left. One step starts the Journey of a Thousand Miles. Learning to let go should come before learning to receive it. Speaking the truth doesn't require many words. Pick your buddies carefully. Surrounding yourself with superior people is the fastest way to improve. Don't be scared to make difficult decisions; they're often the best ones. Nothing is ever as simple as it seems; a person who doesn't make mistakes doesn't make anything at all.

Nobody has ever tried anything [music] new who has never made a mistake; the future's labour will be pressing buttons. An empty pocket is what makes a man so daring. What you do today will determine your future. It's never too late to take action and make the change you want to see in the world. Even the kindest people have their limitations, and their development doesn't diminish yours. If you punish the truth, expect to be deceived. If you can't have a loyal buddy be your own, then only the one in charge is free .

When a friend is lazy, poverty quickly catches up with him. We are never smarter than the foolishness of others. Patience is your ally; never forget who supported you at a trying period. Both pessimists and optimists contribute to society. Respect, not attention, lasts longer. Many people adore you. Don't focus on those who don't. Your vision will be fuzzy at first, but it will become clear with time. The pessimist creates the parachute, the optimist creates the aeroplane, and the LS are like cobwebs that may catch little flies but allow wasps and hornets to burst through.

He goes the fastest while travelling alone, and intelligence is in telling the tough from the easy. Finally, you are here for a cause that you might not understand, yet a falsehood can go halfway around the world while the truth is putting its shoes on. There will always be someone who doesn't perceive your value, so don't let that bother you. Life wasn't meant to make us flawless; someone who is perfect belongs in a museum. Instead, be patient and appreciate the small things in life that others take for granted. What we are aware of is a drop We don't know the ocean, so don't regret anything, just do better the next time, and before you're old, go to as many funerals as you can.

No one will discuss the accomplishments of the deceased; instead, they will only remember the kind of person you were while you were accomplishing things. Just because you miss someone doesn't mean you need them back in your life. Ignorance is the source and root of all evil; never stop your adversary when he is making a mistake. Life missing is a part of overcoming ignorance. Don't regret having a nice heart; everything positive comes back and multiplies.

Remember that health is another kind of wealth. You can't change the wind, but you can adjust your sails to go where you're going. You will never meet the right [music] if you don't let go of the wrong people. If you do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always had. Don't trust words; trust actions.

Courage isn't having the strength to go through with it. People don't feel bad about doing what's best for you. is occurring when you lack the power; nothing is more intolerable than indolence; God knows when to provide you with just what you require. No matter how difficult the past has been, you can always start over. Don't base a long-term decision on fleeting feelings because they hurt at first but later make you stronger.

A woman's guess is far more accurate than a man's certainty; he who is not content with a little is content with nothing; a question is half an answer; how many things would you try if you knew you couldn't fail you alone? Forgive your former self; you've changed; don't judge your greatness by your shadow at sunset. enough, you have nothing to prove to anyone, sometimes you have to go through the worst to get the best, don't overshare, be yourself, and people don't have to like you or care about you. Being able to forget means sanity, so free yourself from society's advice.

Most people don't know what they're doing, so it's better to offer no excuse than a bad one. Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed. The key to success is to do the ordinary things in an unusual way [music]. You're halfway there if you think you can, and the family you build is more significant than your family, and the longer you avoid having sex, the less you desire it. The path of truth is easy to follow, much like a magnificent road. The only bad thing is that people won't look for it. A man must not be shameless since having no shame is truly shamelessness.

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FRESHKING VIVIAN

Fresh-king Vivian, entrepreneur & sales / teaching expert. she crafts innovative solutions that inspire growth. Music lover, travel enthusiast, and avid researcher, Fresh-king's goal is simple: to help others succeed".

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