⏳ The Myth of Waiting for the ‘Right Time’: Why You’ll Never Feel Ready
📌 How to Stop Postponing Your Dreams and Take Action Despite Uncertainty

📌 The Illusion of the “Perfect Moment”
✔ “I’ll start when I have more time.”
✔ “I just need to feel more confident first.”
✔ “I’ll wait until everything is perfect before I begin.”
Sound familiar?
📌 We’ve all been guilty of waiting for the “right time” to start something important.
• Whether it’s launching a business, switching careers, moving to a new city, or even something small like going to the gym—we convince ourselves that someday will be better than today.
• But here’s the truth: The perfect time will never come.
🚀 The most successful people aren’t the ones who wait for the right moment—they’re the ones who start before they feel ready.
💡 This article will explore:
✔ Why we procrastinate and wait for the “right time.”
✔ The psychology behind why we fear starting.
✔ How to take action NOW—even when you don’t feel ready.
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1️⃣ Why We Keep Waiting for the “Right Time”
📌 Our brains trick us into thinking the future will be easier—but it never is.
We delay action for three main reasons:
🔹 1. The Fear of Imperfection
• We believe we need the perfect plan, the perfect skills, and the perfect mindset before we begin.
• This is a form of perfectionism disguised as preparation.
🚀 Example:
• You want to start a YouTube channel, but instead of filming, you keep researching the “best” camera.
• Reality? You don’t need the best equipment—you need to start.
🔥 The truth? Action leads to improvement, not the other way around.
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🔹 2. The Fear of Failure
• We assume that if we start too soon, we’ll fail.
• But waiting doesn’t make failure disappear—it only delays the lesson.
🚀 Example:
• You want to apply for your dream job, but you wait until you feel “qualified enough.”
• Reality? The best way to learn is by trying—even if you’re not perfect yet.
🔥 The truth? The only way to succeed is to risk failure.
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🔹 3. The Illusion of “More Time”
• We convince ourselves that “later” will be easier—but life only gets busier.
• If you don’t make time now, you won’t make time later.
🚀 Example:
• “I’ll start working out when I have more free time.”
• Reality? You’ll always be busy—the key is to start small and build momentum.
🔥 The truth? The best time to start is always now.
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2️⃣ The Psychology Behind Why We Never Feel Ready
📌 Your brain is wired to resist change—it wants comfort, not growth.
🔹 1. Your Brain Protects You From Uncertainty
• The unknown feels risky, so your brain creates excuses to keep you safe.
• This is called the “status quo bias”—your brain prefers what’s familiar, even if it’s not what you want.
🚀 Try This:
• Instead of asking, “What if I fail?” ask, “What if I succeed?”
🔥 The truth? Your brain isn’t trying to help you grow—it’s trying to keep you comfortable. Ignore it.
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🔹 2. The Motivation Myth (Why You Won’t Feel Inspired Before You Start)
• People think they need motivation first, then action.
• But studies show that action creates motivation, not the other way around.
🚀 Try This:
• If you don’t feel motivated, do something small.
• Start with 5 minutes of effort—momentum will take care of the rest.
🔥 The truth? You don’t need motivation to start—you need action to create motivation.
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🔹 3. The “Someday” Illusion (Why We Romanticize the Future)
• We imagine future us as more disciplined, focused, and ready.
• But future you is just you, with the same fears and doubts.
🚀 Try This:
• Instead of saying, “I’ll start tomorrow,” say, “I’ll do something today, no matter how small.”
🔥 The truth? Future you isn’t more ready than present you—so start now.
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3️⃣ How to Start NOW (Even If You Don’t Feel Ready)
📌 Success isn’t about having the perfect plan—it’s about taking the first step.
✅ 1. The 5-Second Rule (Beat Hesitation Instantly)
✔ Instead of: “I’ll do it later.”
✔ Think: “I’ll count down from 5 and do it NOW.”
🚀 Try This:
• 5…4…3…2…1—Take action before your brain talks you out of it.
🔥 The truth? The longer you wait, the more excuses your brain will create.
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✅ 2. The 80% Rule (Done is Better Than Perfect)
✔ Instead of: “I need to be 100% ready.”
✔ Think: “80% ready is good enough.”
🚀 Try This:
• If you wait for perfection, you’ll never start.
• Launch at 80%, then improve as you go.
🔥 The truth? Progress is better than perfection.
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✅ 3. The 5-Minute Action Trick
✔ Instead of: “I’ll start tomorrow.”
✔ Think: “I’ll do 5 minutes right now.”
🚀 Try This:
• Want to write a book? Write one sentence.
• Want to exercise? Do 5 jumping jacks.
• Want to learn a skill? Watch a 5-minute tutorial.
🔥 The truth? The hardest part is starting—after 5 minutes, you’ll keep going.
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📌 Final Thoughts: Stop Waiting, Start Moving
✔ You’ll never feel completely ready—start anyway.
✔ Your brain will try to stop you—act before it can.
✔ Small actions lead to big results—just take the first step.
💡 Final Thought:
🚀 The perfect time is a myth. The right time is now.
About the Creator
Ahmet Kıvanç Demirkıran
As a technology and innovation enthusiast, I aim to bring fresh perspectives to my readers, drawing from my experience.




Comments (2)
This is Gooood! My takeaway for today: Instead of asking, “What if I fail?” ask, “What if I succeed?”
A very nice topic and well developed. Books have been written on this subject with great success. ☀️🌞🌅🌻✨