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⚡ The Motivation Mirage

Why waiting to feel inspired is a trap—and how to move anyway

By Ahmet Kıvanç DemirkıranPublished 10 months ago 3 min read
“While one version of you waits for a spark, the other is already running toward the fire.”

What If Motivation Is a Lie?

We treat motivation like a magical moment that descends from the sky.

That perfect morning when you wake up energized, clear-minded, focused.

That golden spark that suddenly makes everything—gym, study, work, dreams—feel possible.

We think, “As soon as I feel motivated, I’ll start.”

But here’s the truth: that moment rarely comes. And when it does, it disappears quickly.

Motivation isn’t a beginning—it’s a reward.

A side effect. A result.

1️⃣ The Great Waiting Room of Motivation

Think about how many hours we spend waiting:

• Waiting for the right mood

• Waiting for Monday

• Waiting for a better version of ourselves

• Waiting for inspiration to strike

We scroll through social media, saving motivational quotes.

We watch TED Talks and YouTube videos.

We plan, re-plan, and perfect without ever doing.

“I’ll start when I feel ready,” we tell ourselves.

But “ready” never arrives.

Because readiness isn’t something you wait for—it’s something you build.

And the truth is: most people aren’t lazy. They’re just stuck in the motivation trap.

2️⃣ The Biology of Action and Momentum

Here’s where science enters the story.

When you take even the smallest action, your brain responds.

A chemical called dopamine is released. It feels good. Satisfying. Rewarding.

That’s not because you did something amazing. It’s because you did something at all.

Your brain begins to associate effort with pleasure.

And before you know it, that tiny action becomes a spark.

This is the momentum loop:

Action → Dopamine → Motivation → More Action

And it starts with doing—not waiting.

Even a single step—cleaning one corner of a room, opening your laptop, putting on your shoes—can shift your mental state.

3️⃣ The Myth of the Perfect Moment

We love the fantasy of “the right time.”

The Monday. The New Year. The start of the month.

When everything aligns and the motivation fairy taps us with a wand.

But every accomplished person you admire started at an inconvenient time.

They wrote their first chapter while exhausted.

They trained on days they didn’t want to.

They showed up scared, unsure, and definitely not motivated.

“I don’t feel ready” is not a reason—it’s a symptom of fear.

Fear of failure. Fear of success. Fear of not being enough.

But confidence is built by doing, not by waiting.

4️⃣ The Motivation Myth and the Action-First Formula

Here’s the false model most people follow:

Motivation → Action → Results

But in real life, the successful model looks like this:

Action → Clarity → Motivation → Results

Clarity comes from engagement.

Motivation comes from momentum.

The formula is simple but powerful:

• Move before you’re ready.

• Start with small steps.

• Let results chase you.

Don’t wait to feel inspired to move.

Move, and let the inspiration follow.

5️⃣ The 5-Minute Rule That Changes Everything

If you’re stuck, try this today:

Commit to just 5 minutes.

• Five minutes of reading

• Five minutes of writing

• Five minutes of exercise

• Five minutes of decluttering

No pressure. No expectations. No goals to meet.

Just move.

More often than not, those five minutes turn into ten… into thirty… into something powerful.

6️⃣ Real Stories of Ordinary People Who Didn’t Wait

• A writer committed to just 100 words a day. That tiny habit led to a bestselling novel.

• A woman struggling with burnout started meditating for 3 minutes each morning. It changed her brain.

• A student built a thriving YouTube channel during lunch breaks, posting raw, imperfect videos that eventually went viral.

• A man who hated the gym went just to walk for ten minutes. Today, he runs marathons.

None of them were motivated when they started.

They were tired, doubtful, afraid.

But they showed up. And that’s the secret.

7️⃣ Why Discipline Wins Every Time

Motivation is a feeling.

Discipline is a decision.

Motivation is a wave.

Discipline is the surfboard.

When you build discipline, you don’t need to chase motivation.

Because you’ve trained yourself to act regardless of how you feel.

Discipline is brushing your teeth even when you’re tired.

It’s writing one sentence even when you’re blocked.

It’s doing the right thing, again and again, until it becomes who you are.

8️⃣ Final Thoughts: Stop Worshiping Motivation. Start Moving.

Let’s stop romanticizing the perfect moment.

Let’s stop waiting for a spark.

Instead—light your own match.

✔ Stop chasing motivation.

✔ Start chasing momentum.

✔ Show up first, and the feeling will follow.

💡 Final Thought:

⚡ The spark doesn’t start the fire—movement does.

top worshiping motivation.

✔ Start building momentum.

✔ Show up first, and the feeling will follow.

💡 Final Thought:

⚡ The spark doesn’t start the fire—movement does.

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About the Creator

Ahmet Kıvanç Demirkıran

As a technology and innovation enthusiast, I aim to bring fresh perspectives to my readers, drawing from my experience.

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  • Rohitha Lanka8 months ago

    Beautiful story!!!

  • Test10 months ago

    I appreciate how well this article can demystify waiting-for-motivation with the helpful flip of perspective. I enjoyed the recommendation that "Motivation isn't a beginning—it's a reward" was phenomenally perceptive and explanatory. It places action in the driver's seat, providing an empowering and actionable bite of information.🌞

  • Marie381Uk 10 months ago

    Nice story♦️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️♦️

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