The most important thing to live is to be true to yourself

Some people say that it is inevitable to go with the flow after coming out of society and put on a mask to disguise yourself.

However, a person disguised for a long time will remember what the real self is like.

I'm afraid I've been used to disguising, lost myself, and will only occasionally remember my former self when I wake up at midnight.

At first, I thought the life we all want is what I should choose, then I worked hard to get what I wanted, but inside I was barren, and then I realized.

What you want, you have long given up in the admonition of people around you again and again, and choose the "iron rice bowl" in the mouth of others.

I thought it was the right choice to do as I was told, but I ignored the real thoughts of my heart and said I was a winner, but not a loser.

Whenever you give up being true to yourself, the ultimate harm is to yourself.

Instead, it is better to adhere to their own choice, be true to themselves, and try to live each day in the present.

1、Know yourself

Many times, people do not know themselves, but they habit of lying to themselves.

Knowing that they have a few pounds, but still choose to believe in others, the eyes of others as their "real self".

I don't know that I can cheat myself, but I can't cheat time, and if I don't work hard today, I will be downhill tomorrow.

The wrong understanding of yourself will make your life biased and unable you to make the right choice.

Either excessive inferiority complex led to cowering, or overconfidence led to blind arrogance, a not belief that they can have any great action, think they are more powerful, the results let themselves go the wrong way, do the wrong thing, hit the head to recognize the reality.

So, a person can make the right choice in life only if he knows himself.

Really smart people will constantly dissect themselves before choosing until they have a clear perception of themselves before they start the next step so that they don't make too many detours and can find things that are worth the effort faster.

A person no matter how many strengths and weaknesses exist, only by truly knowing yourself can you make changes and achieve a better you.

2、Accept yourself

No one is perfect.

People have flaws and strengths, just a matter of how many and how few.

If a person can not accept the existence of their shortcomings, the future will be afraid to stop at the present.

After all, if a person wants to progress, you have to start from their shortcomings.

Only by constantly correcting their shortcomings can they achieve a better version of themselves.

Many times, what you are avoiding is exactly what you have to go through.

Self-existing shortcomings, there is always a day to be revealed, just to escape is a waste of time, rather than face the shortcomings, timely correction.

The shortcomings of your existence found but not timely corrected, may become a "breakthrough" for others to overcome their own.

I have a friend who is always careless in exams, reminded again and again around him, but he did not take it seriously and did not take it to heart, until in the important exams, he lost to his opponent by one point, lost the scholarship, he only found out how many points he had lost because of his carelessness.

He could have easily won over his opponent, but lost in his self-righteousness, underestimating the "power" of his shortcomings.

So, no matter how the real self, we must learn to accept, with the right attitude to face our strengths and weaknesses, only know how to constantly correct ourselves, to achieve a better self.

3、Be true to yourself

Sometimes, because the current life is not good, we will inevitably doubt our own choices, regret that we did not listen to our parents, and forget that life is not always as it should be, there will be more or less very difficult times.

A moment of discontent does not mean forever.

Instead of regretting the choice, why not try to live the moment, as long as the past, everything will slowly become better.

Don't think that pretending to go with the flow, the road of life can be a little better, to know that no matter what choice, there will be times when it's not as good as it should be, it's better to be true to yourself and try to do what you want to do, even if it fails, it doesn't matter, at least try.

Long life is not long, short is not short, even if they pretend to be themselves may not be able to get a good result, it is better to let yourself be true to yourself, for their life road you want to take struggle, may also be able to get what they want.