Life is not a miracle, but a desperate effort

Seeing some people have a career at a young age, some people genuinely praise, and there are people who falsely flatter.

One mouth says: "You're awesome!" But behind the scenes, they are speculating whether this success is mixed with water behind.

And the so-called doubt from their own, think they can not do things, how others may do, but do not think about how much effort behind the success of others.

Life is full of variety, no one is luckier than anyone else, each has its suffering, each has its own choice, you choose to indulge yourself, he chose to deepen their own.

The world where there are so many "miracles", but it is only the cumulative efforts of the day.

1, when things, brave face

Kundera said: "Never think we can escape, every step we take determines the outcome."

Some things can escape the first day, but not the 15th.

If you want to escape, you will only intensify the difficulty of life, making the already difficult road even more difficult to walk.

The first is that you can't say goodbye to your ex-father-in-law, and the second is that you can't do anything about it.

The idea is that escape can solve the problem, but in reality, it is in vain to add unnecessary trouble.

The more you escape, the harder the road becomes, and finally, there is no way out, trapping yourself.

The wall, rather than the obstacle given by life, is the obstacle given by yourself.

It's not like you can't get through, but yourself.

When life is not as good as you think, choosing to escape will only make life a mess, rather than rely on their efforts to change the current predicament.

"My life is up to me," sitting on the sidelines, rather than taking the initiative to face the situation by themselves to change the situation, by efforts to control the dominant.

2、How the future, by themselves

The road of life, relying on their step by step to go, can protect you, is your own life choices.

No one in this world is luckier than anyone else, only one who works harder than anyone else.

Most people's luck is unremitting efforts piled up, and each step is really, behind the pain and tired than you can see with the naked eye, but those who swallowed the bitterness of life, continue to work silently.

They, too, have not complained about life, but they understand that the key to solving the problem is to continue to work hard and deepen themselves than complain meaninglessly.

Relying on others is better than relying on yourself, how hard you work now, and how lucky you will be in the future.

The only person who can pull you out of the abyss is yourself. Sitting on the sidelines or escaping from reality will only bring about failure in life.

In "Robinson Crusoe" the protagonist Robinson is stranded on an island, forced to accept the unexpected ordeal if he did not know how to save himself, but only to wait for rescue, he is afraid of not waiting for rescue and first starved himself to death.

The story would have ended before it began.

From the moment he was stranded on the island, fate gave him a choice of "life, or death?" To live, he tried his best to build his own "house", to collect things from the dead, to drill wood for a fire like primitive people ...... lived, unlike his old self.

If not for this kind of effort, he was afraid that it would be difficult to live until the time of rescue.

This shows that a person's potential is unlimited, you think you have reached the limit you have not been forced to the end of the road.

Your future, not in how others say, but in how you do it yourself.

How hard you work now to improve yourself, the future road can go farther, time will not let down anyone who works hard.

So, how about a lifetime, not by luck, but by yourself?