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How to Manifest your Desires and Dreams
A manifest is a technique that visualizes what you need and believes it already exists. It can be used to reveal your desires, dreams, or your destiny. In this article, we'll explore the benefits of manifestation and how it can help you create a better life.
By Jobelle Angeles4 years ago in Motivation
Love is Not Easy
I cannot put into words the thoughts I have about love. Love is like a congealed space that I can’t get out of. You can call it a roller coaster because it is exactly what it is. It is hard for females to find “the right one” or their one “true love.” A lot of females can compare with this kind of feeling because it happens with us. I’ve heard it from countless of women that they can’t find the right one to settle down with and when they settle down, they find themselves stuck in a whirlwind. I was once in this whirlwind. I just got out of it, he showed me that he could support me emotionally, physically, and I thought financially. I guess that was the honeymoon phase of our relationship. As months gone by, he became distant and when you become distant emotionally, you become distant sexually. People always tell me that sex is very important in a strong relationship. I never knew what they meant by that until I went into a relationship. Our sex was good and he was very selfless in bed and got off on pleasing me. When things started getting distant with us was when the sex got distant. It was more of him gaining dominance than it was pleasing. It did please me but for the wrong reasons. Our relationship became very distant to where he was sleeping on the floor rather than sleep near me. The question I had to ask myself was: if it was really worth it? My best friend had told me to end it before it gets worse. I didn’t listen to her. I should’ve listened to her advice long time ago. Adults are like kids at times, when we were little, we were told to do something and then we do the opposite. That was what I did, my best friend gave me the advice that was on point and I did the opposite. I had to learn from my mistake, I guess. When I was in this relationship, I didn’t see my beauty. Not just my appearance but my inner beauty. My lavender flower was close to deteriorating. It takes a while to deal with heartbreaks. You find someone who is far better than the last and wonder if you want to pursue something with them, I’d say no.
By Nikki Say it Now4 years ago in Motivation
Imposture Syndrome
Infinite scrolling for inspiration - I'll get a spark, right? I'm not gonna lie, I think I spend more time looking at what other people have created than creating my own art. Writing this, I question how willing I am to even call myself an artist versus just a slightly more nuanced online art viewer. At one point, I even did daily writing for over a year, which I even posted. Now, sometimes I'll find myself in that spiral of drawing the same 3/4 face and watching that little line blink on an empty white Word document.
By 'Toto' (Aleksina Teto)4 years ago in Motivation
May You Never Forget and Always Remember
Here I am after almost a year of not writing... anything... This one is for me. And no one else. Dear Nia, You've done well. You've done good. Look at how far you have come. No, this is not where you want to be, who you want to be, who you want to be with, BUT you made it this far.
By Nia Wheat4 years ago in Motivation
Dare to be DIFFERENT!
Unapologetic authenticity blurs lines, pushes boundaries, overlooks rules, and dares to be different! Beginning in infancy; Society and culture (among many other influences) inundate our psyches to breed conformity, fear, judgment, drive obedience and suppress individuality. Masterly conditioned to fit inside and within a box. In turn, we evolve to understand that we are bound to that box by insecurities, guilt, fear, and low self-esteem. We then enter adulthood believing that our overall value is measured and determined by another's version of right-and-wrong. Thinking, choices, actions, and communications are both publicly (and even more concerning) personally altered to "suit" someone else's narrative. Internally branded souls that live in anguish chastised by needing approval/acceptance and misaligned from inner truth.
By Amanda Marks4 years ago in Motivation
10 Crucial Things You Should Never Tell Your Kids About Your Finances
Whether you’ve made a few too many irresponsible purchases or you are sitting on an unending pile of debt, there are some things which should never be discussed with your children. Whether they’re aware of it or not and chances are they aren’t your kids have to live in the same world as you. They’re going to see your money mistakes in a few years, and they’ll have to live with them.
By Phong OG 4 years ago in Motivation
Reset
If you could hit the reset button in one area of your life, what area would you start all over? Would it be in the area of finances, love, lost, career, school. At the age and point in my life I can't help but sit and mentally review the place I'm at. I should be much further than I am currently. The truth of the matter is, I have made bad choices in all relationships outside of your common ones. How do I define common relationship? Glad you asked. I define common as a relationship with a family member, coworker, a neighbor.
By Ditra Graves4 years ago in Motivation
Women of the Pandemic
It's difficult to put into words what I have felt all this time. It almost feels as if I had been poked and prodded at, swatting away their advances, stepping backwards little by little and having slipped off the edge of a cliff. Although, a prepared dive off a cliff with a parachute would feel more freeing than how I feel at this very moment. In absolute free fall there is nothing to grab onto. You are falling deeper and deeper into the abyss. The years rewind in a terrifying review until you end up at the bottom. It is the past. We are at the beginning. The speed of the fall has taken us down and left us nowhere to go.
By B4 years ago in Motivation
