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Advice that will put you on the path to success; tips, tricks and nuggets of wisdom from trusted experts and motivational mentors.
Success is not hard work but good habits
Every successful person must be a positive and autonomous person. Being proactive is the catalyst for people to change. It allows you to abandon the passive victim role, and let you not blame the gods and let them play the unique talents of human beings - consciousness, conscience, imagination and Self-awareness, change from the heart, create all kinds of opportunities, and face everything positively. They do not make decisions based on emotions or external circumstances, but on principles and values, as well as their usual habits.
By Horn Smith4 years ago in Motivation
6 Strategies To Becoming More Confident
Here are six ways to be confident: 1. Remember your strengths. 2. Be kind to yourself. 3. Be true to who you are. 4. Turn up the charm with a smile and a bit of flirtation. 5. Recognize that everyone is human and imperfect, including you 6 Become an expert at something Identify your insecurities One of the best ways to become more confident is to identify your insecurities. Once you know what your insecurities are, you can start to work on addressing them. There are a few different ways that you can identify your insecurities. One way is to think about times when you have felt insecure or lacked confidence. Another way is to ask friends and family members what they think your insecurities are. Once you have identified your insecurities, you can start to work on addressing them. One way to do this is to set goals for yourself and work towards overcoming your insecurities. Another way is to talk to a therapist or counselor who can help you work through your insecurities. Identifying your insecurities is an important first step in becoming more confident. Once you know what your insecurities are, you can start taking steps to address them. Face your fears One of the best ways to become more confident is to face your fears. If there is something that you are afraid of doing, try to do it. This can be anything from giving a presentation at work to going on a date. By facing your fears, you will realize that they are not as big as you thought they were. This will help to increase your confidence. Another way to become more confident is to set small goals and achieve them. If you have a goal that seems too big or impossible, break it down into smaller goals. Once you achieve these smaller goals, you will feel more confident and capable. You can then start working towards your bigger goal. Lastly, try to surround yourself with positive people. Being around positive people will help to increase your own confidence. Practice confidence with the help of a friend 1. Practice confidence with the help of a friend: One great way to become more confident is to practice with a friend. This can be someone you know well or even just a casual acquaintance. The important thing is that they are someone you feel comfortable around. Start by practicing making eye contact and smiling. Then, move on to talking about things you are passionate about. As you get more comfortable, you can start speaking up more in group settings and sharing your opinions. 2. Set small goals: Another great way to build confidence is to set small goals for yourself and then accomplish them. These goals can be anything from learning a new skill to speaking up more in meetings at work. Start by setting a goal that you know you can accomplish. Then, take small steps each day to reach that goal. As you start ticking items off your list, you will begin to feel more confident in your abilities. 3. Fake it ‘til you make it: If all else fails, remember that you can always fake it ‘til you make it. This means acting confident even if you don’t necessarily feel it at first. Just act like the person you want to be and Visualize yourself being confident 1. One way to become more confident is to visualize yourself being confident in various situations. See yourself succeeding in whatever it is you’re trying to do. Picture yourself being calm and collected in challenging situations. This will help to increase your confidence and self-belief. 2. Another strategy for becoming more confident is to take small steps outside of your comfort zone.Challenging yourself on a regular basis will help you to become more comfortable with new situations and increase your confidence overall. Start with something small, like talking to a stranger, and work your way up to bigger challenges. 3. It’s also important to focus on positive self-talk when trying to become more confident. Telling yourself that you can do something and that you’re capable of success is a great way to increase your confidence levels. Make sure to avoid negative self-talk, as this will only hold you back. 4. Finally, one of the best ways to become more confident is simply by practicing what you want to be confident in. If you want to be confident in public speaking, for example, then make sure to practice speaking in front of others as often as possible. Do something that makes you uncomfortable but does not cause harm 1. Do something that makes you uncomfortable but does not cause harm: This is a great way to increase your confidence because it forces you to step outside of your comfort zone. By doing something that makes you a little bit uncomfortable, you are pushing yourself to grow and develop. However, it is important to make sure that whatever you are doing does not cause harm to yourself or others. 2. Set small goals for yourself and then achieve them: This is a great way to build up your confidence slowly but surely. Once you start achieving these goals, you will begin to feel more confident in your abilities. You can then start setting bigger and bigger goals as your confidence grows. 3. Surround yourself with positive people: This is a great way to stay motivated and upbeat. When you are around people who are positive and supportive, it rubs off on you and helps you to see the good in situations. This can help increase your confidence levels as well. Keep doing what you love even if it scares you 1. Keep doing what you love even if it scares you The best way to become more confident is to keep doing the things you love, even if they scare you. It might seem counterintuitive, but facing your fears is actually a great way to build confidence. Every time you do something that scares you, you’re proving to yourself that you can handle whatever comes your way. And as you become more comfortable with taking risks, your confidence will grow. 2. Surround yourself with positive people Another way to boost your confidence is to surround yourself with positive people. When you’re around people who believe in you and support your goals, it’s easier to believe in yourself. These people can provide encouragement and motivation when you’re feeling down. So seek out relationships with positive people who will help you reach your full potential. 3. Believe in yourself Ultimately, the key to becoming more confident is to believe in yourself. You have to trust that you have the strength and ability to reach your goals. So don’t be afraid to dream big and go after what you want in life.
By Ayesha Amjad4 years ago in Motivation
Life After 60 Whilst Living in Paris
I turned 61 this past Wednesday. I’m still trying to process it. I’m in that weird place in life now. Somewhere between middle aged and senior. Also known as the invisible years. Perhaps its easier living in Paris although I am not completely sure that this is categorically true . This age is probably difficult anywhere if you are a woman.
By Karolyn Denson Landrieux4 years ago in Motivation
Dreaming Big Enough
There are often so many obstacles and setbacks along the way that make it hard to continuously ‘aim high’ and never give up. Are you sharing your dream? If you’re not sharing your dream, who will? You need to get it out there if you want it to come true. But don’t stop at just sharing it with anyone who will listen. You need to share it with people who will actually help make your dream come true. That’s why it’s important to dream big enough. Find the right people to help you achieve your goals and make your dream a reality. If you’re not sharing your dream with others, then you’re not dreaming big enough. It’s time to start talking about your dreams and see what others think. The bigger your dream, the more people you’ll need to help you make it happen. So don’t be afraid to share your dream with the world. Who knows, someone out there might just have the perfect solution to help you make your dream a reality. If you’re not sharing your dream, who will? Certainly not your critics, and probably not even your closest friends and family. So it’s up to you to make sure your dream is loud and clear. The first step is to get clear on what your dream is. What are you passionate about? What are you good at? What do you want to achieve? Once you have a good understanding of your dream, the next step is to share it with others. This can be scary, especially if you’re worried about what others might think. But remember, your dream is yours and nobody can take that away from you. So don’t be afraid to share it with the world. The more people who know about your dream, the more likely it is to become a reality. So start sharing your dream today and see what amazing things can happen. How to achieve success? We all have dreams and aspirations of what we want to do with our lives. For some of us, these dreams are so big that they seem impossible. But if you’re willing to put in the hard work, anything is possible.So how to make your dreams true? One way to achieve your goals is to find someone who is already doing what you want to do and learn from them. Find a mentor who can help you grow and develop your skills. Another important step is to develop a positive mindset and surround yourself with people who support your dreams. Finally, don’t be afraid to put in the hard work required to make your dream come true. If you’re passionate about something, it won’t feel like work. So go out there and chase your dreams! Find a passion, learn about it and find the resources for it Whether you want to be a musician, an artist, a writer or anything else, the first step is always the same: find something you’re passionate about. Then, learn everything you can about it. Read books, take classes, talk to experts and immerse yourself in your chosen field. Finally, seek out the resources you need to turn your passion into reality. Whether it’s a good musical instrument, art supplies or a writing program, make sure you have what you need to pursue your dreams. Every person has a potential to do great things in life, we just have to stop dreaming small and start believing in ourselves! We all have big dreams and it is important that we do not let anyone or anything get in the way of achieving them. It is time to start dreaming big and shoot for the stars! We are the only ones who can control our destiny, so let’s make it a good one. It is important to remember that we should never give up on our dreams, no matter how hard they may seem. So let’s start believing and achieve greatness!
By Ayesha Amjad4 years ago in Motivation
If you are serious, you will not lose, you will lose if you are afraid.
"If you are serious, you will lose." It was used to ridicule people who didn't know the current affairs. It used to be a very relaxed atmosphere. Everyone was joking. If one person has to be serious and talk about one, two, three, four or five, the serious person will lose. It is probably to describe the person's low EQ; there is also a saying that when used in a relationship, two people begin to have a playful mentality, but one of them seriously wants to get married, presumably saying that the other party is delusional.
By Horn Smith4 years ago in Motivation
Dealing With Repetition In Your Life
Introduction Someone recently said I must be very bored with certain things that I do, and to be quite honest some things can be boring, there is no way of getting away from that, but I do have ways of dealing with repetitive and even boring tasks.
By Mike Singleton 💜 Mikeydred 4 years ago in Motivation
If you feel too tired to go to work, please take a look at the payslip of this delivery boy
The turning point in your life is your attitude towards work. Some time ago, a delivery boy posted his salary slip, which sparked heated discussions among millions of netizens.
By david4 years ago in Motivation
Challenge Accepted
I’ve never been one to shy away from a challenge, physical, mental, or otherwise. You might say that can’t isn’t in my vocabulary. The greatest physical and mental challenges in my life that I’ve encountered are getting sober, with scuba diving being a very close second and the isolation during the pandemic being the third. But, when life gave me lemons, not only did I make lemons, I planted the lemon tree for good measure.
By Susan Eileen 4 years ago in Motivation
How can a boy be considered mature?（2）
Never procrastinate, never make decisions. Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today. Be able to do whatever you decide to do with your heart and soul. When it comes to making decisions, it's also possible to be proactive and unproactive
By test4 years ago in Motivation
Examples of famous people, for reference only
Inspirational: Don't take the evil with the bad, don't take the good with the bad. -- Liu Bei, "Three Kingdoms"; There is no inevitable formula for success. -- Li Ka-shing; Not to be shaken by the outside, not to be moved by things, and then you can take charge of the world's great events. --Lu KunInspirational: Don't take the evil with the bad, don't take the good with the bad. -- Liu Bei, "Three Kingdoms"; There is no inevitable formula for success. -- Li Ka-shing; Not to be shaken by the outside, not to be moved by things, and then you can take charge of the world's great events. --Lu Kun
By Michael L Brown4 years ago in Motivation
Start Bullying Yourself To Become Successful
Ever since my second article titled “Why you should learn to embrace your loneliness for a better life!” became a hit on this platform, atleast for a new writer like me, the feedbacks on the work had been overwhelmingly positive. Amidst many such positive responses, I was keenly searching for a pragmatic comment which expressed disagreement from what the majority of readers were saying. Finally, I found one such which said that embracing your loneliness cannot prove as a space for success, and that it is a mere act of punishing oneself in order to cope up with your existing lack of an elaborate social life.
By Shalin Thomas4 years ago in Motivation
