How can a boy be considered mature?（2）

Never procrastinate, never make decisions.

Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today. Be able to do whatever you decide to do with your heart and soul. When it comes to making decisions, it's also possible to be proactive and unproactive

On the way to compete with yourself, become stronger and stronger.

I began to give up the comparison with others, to improve myself comprehensively, just to be stronger than my past self. He knows that there are people out there, there are people out there, and even if you win one person, there will be a group of people, and then the comparison with others will never end.

No matter who it is, it will never win them all. You are, I am, everyone is like that. So he stopped comparing himself to others and began to look at himself. He took every opportunity he could to learn and become better and stronger with the compounding of time.

No longer beg for the result of everything, but will enjoy the process of going all out for one thing.

I used to expect the best in everything I did, especially when I put my best effort into it. Later, I found out that the more you worry about the outcome of something, the less it works out for you.

In fact, when you are entangled in the outcome, your enthusiasm for doing things is slowly exhausted, and finally let you lose interest, the result of failure is also obvious things.

But when you put your heart and soul into a process, the results will be exactly what you want. Because we don't know which things we do now will compound over time in the future, just like what we learned and experienced in the past that we inadvertently used later. Therefore, a mature boy, will gradually understand the benefits of enjoying the process.

No more sensitive fragile, began to become confident.

He began to understand that the words of others could not make him lose or gain anything, pleasing others is just that he is not strong enough, and also know that love and being loved is built on the basis of fairness.

He understood that only by making himself stronger can he not be afraid of losing or being abandoned. He knew that he could only be more confident if he was rich inside. He knows that only when he becomes confident will he attract a good mate.

Know "shame" and brave.

Begin to look inside out at your weaknesses and your strengths. Start thinking about what you can do, what you can't do, what you haven't thought through, and how you can think from the inside out to make a difference. He can hold his temper and keep his ambition for things he hasn't realized yet. .

Can prepare for a rainy day, take the initiative to shoulder the responsibility.

He understands that the road ahead is very long, and the speed at which he can make money will exceed that of his parents when they get old. Therefore, he works harder than others, puts down face earlier and makes money harder.

He knew that maybe his responsibility was more important than his dream. As a result, he matures, recognizes social realities and prepares for life earlier than the average person.

Finally, I hope every boy can go through thousands of sails and return is still a teenager.

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