Solitude is the pleasure of being alone

Time is limited and precious. We divide our time between work, family, friends, and other things that don't matter, leaving too little time for ourselves. We live in a crowded, busy city, looking for a place to be alone, only to find that solitude is so scarce.

Complain about the time alone is not enough, because they do not know how to escape from the crowd, do not know how to refuse invitations, in fact, they are not important in the social circle, do not need to use meaningless social activities to prove their popularity, good character, popular.

Today's society, the most is not lack of bustling and noisy, and the most lack of a quiet world, so not so familiar with the people there is no need to pretend intimate, pretend to be familiar, in fact, everyone is very tired. As Zhou Guoping put it: "It's too tiring not to put up with the tedium of the other person, but also to try to be interesting."

The bigger the party, the duller it gets. Being alone is not lonely, the real loneliness is when you are in a busy crowd, but there is no one who really understand you, care about you!

The best color of life is not lively and prosperous, but insipid and peaceful. Choose to be alone, learn to be alone, harvest another scene, understand the true meaning of simple and safe life, is to fulfill themselves, but also to help others.

Mr. Zhou Guoping said: "The best state of life is abundant quiet, such a state can only be reached when alone." Solitude should be a wonderful moment and experience in life, a necessary space for soul growth and wisdom improvement.

Enjoy solitude, because you can spend more time with books to enrich themselves, expand the scope of knowledge, enhance cultural accomplishment, enrich the spiritual food. Meaningless entertainment is more to consume themselves, true friends do not float on the surface, even if do not eat, do not meet is also miss each other, cherish each other. We don't want to go beyond what we can do with our lives. We don't want to dream big dreams. We don't want to do things for no reason. Calm down, seriously read a book, enrich our hearts, between the gains and losses of life, look pale, look far!

Enjoy solitude, because the state of solitude is the most comfortable, the most relaxed, do not need to be careful, cater to accommodate, forced smile, you can spend more time and energy to do happy things to meet their own psychological pleasure. In Moonlight over the Lotus Pond, Zhu Ziqing wrote, "Like tonight, under the full moon all by myself, I feel I am a free man, free to think of anything or of nothing." In solitude, we can pay more attention to our own preferences and emotions, no pressure, no burden, free!

Enjoy solitude, because you can get away from distractions, you can calm down and turn your attention to your inner world, reflect on yourself, talk to yourself, examine yourself, and listen to your inner voice better. Writer Maud said, "Only in solitude can a person's soul see its own clarity and brightness, and enjoy life luxuriously and vigorously." Only by being alone, can we have a quiet dialogue with our soul, get through the thought tunnel of life, touch the depths of our spirit and soul, and keep our inner peace!

Enjoy solitude, because chewing the taste of life alone, the heart steadfast, full! As time honed, let us not easily talk to others, if relatives, friends know the hardship in our life, will worry for us, for our trouble. In the life of those earth-shaking pain, in the eyes of others is just the dust casually touched, between people's experience is different, different experience, different living environment, most people can not understand our hearts of depression and happiness. It may be a rare opportunity for us to grieve and enjoy ourselves in solitude, and it may be the best way to heal!

Schopenhauer said, "Only when a man is alone can he be fully himself." Get back to yourself, find yourself, or make a pot of tea, smell it, and relax. Or soak in the sun, close your eyes and meditate, looking for inner peace and openness; Or watch a classic movie, immersed in the wonderful plot of the movie, relax; Or read a book, listen to a ditty, write a word, poetic flavor. Solitude, is a person's qinghuan!

Time is beautiful and short, let us in the quiet time, with love life, heart feeling, let our life in solitude, simple qinghuan leisurely bloom!