Increase your Positive Energy

What is it that you guys want from your life? For something delightful to happen that increases your positive energy or something grotesque, that takes away the energy? Well, definitely the former(hopefully).

It means it's our very basic nature to experience something bona fide in our lives. The natural human tendency is to increase their positive energy to make them better at whatever they do.

You would feel more than awesome to listen to praises instead of someone belittling you or pinpointing your fly in the ointment.

Everyone loves a compliment. Everyone loves 'LOVE'. Everyone loves encouragement instead of criticization.

When you achieve something, then you want people to push you forward instead of picking out your shortcomings. If people become happy in your happiness then you feel good and relish it.

If you make a mistake, then how would you like the other person to behave? Forgive you or beat you to death for the rest of your life(physically or mentally)?

Do you want them to forget about your mistake or would you rather them keep reminding you and undermine you forever?

So, what's really happening here, we want one thing to happen but unfortunately, it's not what we would supposedly get all the time.

WE want to be forgiven if we make a mistake, but now try turning the tables.

Can you be 100% sure that you would have done the same?

It's so simple to understand if we look at it this way; we have established the fact that we want to be loved, we want freedom, we want to be forgiven, we don't want any kind of jealousy, hatred, enviousness, or fury from anyone.

Now look closely, isn't that what everyone wants ultimately?

Everyone wants a positive and peaceful life.

The day you really understand the above statement, not just for show but actually from deep within, then that would mean that you have actually embarked on the spiritual journey.

This basic understanding that you gotta stop doing anything and everything, right from your level of thought to the physical/material level, that you wouldn't want to happen to yourself.

Start treating others the same way you would like to be treated yourself.

If you want to be loved, first start loving yourself; if you want to be forgiven, start forgiving those who did something wrong to you (including yourself); if you want to be peaceful, stop getting into futile arguments with your loved ones.

This is the real essence of moral science, good karma, and bad karma.

Once you start understanding this way of life, something really wonderful starts happening.

You may have trouble adjusting in the short term, but the long term is gonna be full of sunshine and rainbows.

I will give you a short example.

A while back, we had some relatives at our house. Now the problem with me is that I prefer to be really straightforward instead of running around the bush.

So what happened was that they were with my parents and were backbiting some of their other close relatives.

Now as I was listening to them, I started smiling broadly (in a mischievous manner), which drew everyone's attention towards me. They asked me curiously that why I was smiling.

So I just asked a simple question to my parents that if they can badmouth some of their own close relatives in front of us, then what would they be talking about us behind our backs?

And everyone got dumbstruck! Of course, I was controlling my laughter.

Then starts the justification process but who cares about that!

So, got the point? If you behave stupidly then you can't possibly expect to be peaceful.

Some people think if I do something bad to someone, then one day or the other it will come in a full circle to me as well.

Well, it's incomplete truth or what you may call Karma.

It doesn't take that long to happen. If you so much as think something evil about someone, then it already starts then and there, the same thing happening to you.

If I start thinking bad about a relative of mine, my mind is already corrupted, period. The mind that was peaceful a moment ago has lost its purity starting the very second I went down this path.

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