How to be Happy?

• There is one thing is common in this world that all living beings search for, that is the happiness. we all like to be happy. we all seek happiness in this world.
• That all living being likes to be happy and they seek the happiness. we are in a never-ending journey of pursuing happiness which means, we are pursuing happiness, we are chasing and we are seeking for happiness but yet not found it.
• So what is the reason for this not finding happiness why we don't find happiness in our life. we are seeking it. we fighting for it but we don't find it.

what is the reason?

we are finding or we are seeking this happiness from a source that the happiness does not exist. Because we are seeking happiness external world. we are seeking happiness from this materialistic things. Well when you seek happiness from materialistic things or external world you get pleasure but that is not happiness. pleasure is something temporary and it gives you this instant gratification but in happiness the happiness is long-lasting.

• The happiness will follow him like a shadow following a man which means, the happiness and the sadness entirely depends on the purity and the impurity of our mind.
• I am share with you few things that can give you the happiness in your life that you can find the happiness in your life fasting.

1)Accepting the reality of life will give you the happiness.

• you know life is full of ups and downs. sometimes we have good days sometimes we have bad days sometimes we have beautiful memories sometimes we also have miserable memories.
• so life is not something that is going equally every day. Sometimes good sometimes bad when you realize this reality. You can face this situation successfully.
• always this bad situation makes us frustrated it is our reaction towards this bad experience makes us frustrated.

Whenever you get a bad experience or situation you have two choices either you can focus on the pain and feel miserable about that situation or you can focus on the lesson that bad situation teaches us and learn from it and start growing life.

• so if you accept the reality of life it is not temporary sometimes the people around us are not in our control we cannot control their opinions. when you realize these situations you can face these situation successfully.

2) Generosity(Dhana) - that means you have to give without expecting anything in return .

I will share with you three great advice for a happy and peaceful life forever.

There are the three advices following us,

1) Always speak the truth.

2) Do not get angry.

3) Give even if you little

1) Always speak the truth

• If someone speaks the truth in his life, they can live a peaceful life. Now, telling lies is an easy thing to do.
• When you are in a problem, when you are in a difficult situation you can tell a lie and just escape from that problem but remember you are Escaping from that Bad karma, Bad action you can't Escape from the results of those Bad actions.
• So, telling lies is a thing that we should not do in our life. Whatever difficult situation comes up in our lives. Whatever disadvantage you get from telling the truth you have to say that, because" Bitter truth is better than sweet lies."

2) Do not get Angry

• It is easy to get angry with someone. It is easy to do evil things which bring unhappiness and suffering to as well as to others.
• Always do what is good.
• Being patient and not getting anger into your mind is very hard we have to admit that. If you maintain a peaceful mind without anger then you can be happy with your life.

3) Give even if you have little

• For example, if you have thousand dollars and you were to spend one dollar it is very easy, but what will happen if you have one dollar you have and you were to spend that dollar for someone you were to donate that dollar for someone can you do that it is very hard.
• But if someone becomes generous even if he has little with him that is the worthiest gift that is the maximum point of generosity which means to give even when we have a little bit, because if we were to give when we have a little we are struggling with our ego in our mind. we are struggling with the cravings in our minds.
• Because people do like very much for money and the things around us. They don't have to give them. They feel very hard to be generous but if a person can live if you can live with generosity if you can give and donate and give arms to people even when you have little then you are being generous and you practice generosity which brings happiness to your life forever.