How much value do you think you have?
How to revalue yourself

Have you ever felt lost and there's no hope anymore?
Do you always feel nothing is possible?
Do you constantly feel lonely or angry about yourself and everything around you?
Do you often feel you cannot make you dreams come true and frustrated about that?
Do you always feel people around you are belittling you and you have no clue why that happens?
Successful people allow themselves higher value not because they are successful but because you're the only one that can give the value that you really deserve, and that's the only way to create the life you really want to live.
It might be very hard to see the value that you think that of your future self would have in your current self, however, only can you set your value, and people and money will follow accordingly.
Set your value and standards as high as possible. Start from the highest value you could ever ask for and go higher than what makes you feel a bit uncomfortable. You could go even higher, but if you’re too scared to go too high, start from where makes you feel slightly uncomfortable. That’s where your resistance is, and the lowest value you should ask for.
Once you’ve done this exercise, you’d regret you didn’t go higher and will be a bit more comfortable and less fearful about going the highest. You’d never want to go lower again. You will be able to feel confident enough to start from the higher than the highest value you’d like to accept because people will always try to bargain. If you start from the lowest, you will end up getting even lower than the lowest.
If you’re unsure what’s your value, then think about how much is the minimum that you’d like to be paid per hour and how much you think you deserve if someone wanted to sHave you ever felt lost and there's no hope anymore?
Do you always feel nothing is possible?
Do you constantly feel lonely or angry about yourself and everything around you?
Do you often feel you cannot make you dreams come true and frustrated about that?
Do you always feel people around you are belittling you and you have no clue why that happens?
Successful people allow themselves higher value not because they are successful but because you're the only one that can give the value that you really deserve, and that's the only way to create the life you really want to live.
It might be very hard to see the value that you think that of your future self would have in your current self, however, only can you set your value, and people and money will follow accordingly.
Set your value and standards as high as possible. Start from the highest value you could ever ask for and go higher than what makes you feel a bit uncomfortable. You could go even higher, but if you’re too scared to go too high, start from where makes you feel slightly uncomfortable. That’s where your resistance is, and the lowest value you should ask for.
Once you’ve done this exercise, you’d regret you didn’t go higher and will be a bit more comfortable and less fearful about going the highest. You’d never want to go lower again. You will be able to feel confident enough to start from the higher than the highest value you’d like to accept because people will always try to bargain. If you start from the lowest, you will end up getting even lower than the lowest.
If you’re unsure what’s your value, then think about how much is the minimum that you’d like to be paid per hour and how much you think you deserve if someone wanted to spend time with you and pay you for that.
Do you think I’m talking too shallow? Do you feel I'm too selfish?
Let's be honest. Transaction happens in everything. You must give someone something to get what you want. It’s not you’re losing anything. Only those who give first can get through to others and influence them to do to get you what you want.
Then, what should we do to get others to recognize your value?
First, you must make yourself believe that you deserve the value you want to been seen by others by any means, even if you were broke and had negative balance on your account. People can sense on their subconscious level how you treat yourself on your subconscious level.
Human beings are very interesting animal. We are attracted to powerful people. It's human nature. We’re programmed to like those who are powerful. We want protection and shelter and powerful people can offer us these. Then, how do we know if someone if powerful or not? We can detect every subtle signal from others how they see themselves, and it doesn't matter whether or not you fake it. Therefore, how you value yourself is the key to both material and emotional success.
To achieve financial success, what you need to do is to raise your existence pay. Existence pay is your wage that you could get paid without contributing to the society at all. The amount you could get paid for just your existence. This is the value you give yourself. Each and everyone of us has and this is not defined by others or the society.
The lower your existence pay is, the more you become dependent on the amount in your pay-check, the lifestyle that you're already tired of. Getting to know the value of your existence switch your perception towards money.
Successful people and rich people value their own being. You have to allow yourself to think you deserve to be paid higher amount to raise your value. What you need to do right now is not to learn how to invest money, but to value yourself higher than you do now.
The reason why many people can't make their dreams happen is because they only focus on evaluating themselves only by their salary estimated by the value that others think you have.
By raising your existence pay, you can give yourself access to your limitless potential and bring yourself indefinite positiveness.
Gary Vee said “As you push yourself to be a better human being, better things start happening for you in your actual selfish business wants and needs.”



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