Don't make a farce out of human life

Living, it is easy to say simple, it is difficult to say difficult.

If you just want to live simply, earning three meals can be, but if you want to live out of a person, it is not so simple.

You know, sometimes even if you pay beyond the normal efforts, but also live as an ordinary person.

So, a living which is so simple, most people are in the weight forward.

Although some things to see through, living will not be so tiring, but people live life sober, and how many of them?

How many people struggle in life, the more they struggle the more they are sad, and finally fall into self-hatred, trapped themselves, if they can not get out of it, I am afraid that life will stop here.

So, don't complain about life, or life will become more and more bitter.

Self-imposed worries will slowly swallow up your life, so you live more and more tired, their own lives into a tragedy.

1、Think too much

Anything can not withstand repeatedly pushed, repeatedly pushed, everything is hidden aggression.

Rather than looking for trouble hard on their own, it is better to learn to make the complex life simple to live, and not to make yourself worry.

Some things have not happened, but because of too much thought and fear, into the negative emotions, that is undoubtedly in nothing to find things, this time would be better spent on deep plowing themselves.

I have seen such a person, who always likes to think too much, speculate on the meaning behind the behavior of others: what did he mean by that sentence; how he suddenly looked at me; how he still does not return my messages ......

To complicate simple things, nothing to find things, their own hard on themselves.

Although some things think more than one step can be a rainy day, everything thinks too much, and more is going to make you uncomfortable.

It's not easy to live, but you have to find things to make yourself feel bad, why bother?

There is this time to think, rather than to do what they want to do, so that life becomes full and meaningful, no free time to think about those who have not.

2、Can't let go

Some things are in past are in the past, and a fixation on the past will only let one live in the past inexorable.

Many times, you think you can't get over things, but they are embarrassing themselves.

Because the heart of the obsession can not let go, so cling to the past, trying to make up for the regret, but did not think that the regret has become a reality, entangled in more, but only to add more regret.

Instead of living in the past to make things difficult for yourself, why not bravely move forward and let yourself go?

When you let go of the obsession in your mind, and reconciled with the past, you will find that there is nothing that can not be overcome.

The actual fame and fortune, or money and sex, are just the same, but because of the "can't get" and the obsession, only to try to force it, thinking that working hard can make up for it.

I don't know, living is hard to get perfect, forcing too much, but it's easy to let yourself be limited by this, and fall into a trap.

People live a life, there will be gains and losses, forced to lose, will only be difficult for themselves, it is better to let yourself go, be brave to face the gains and losses in life, and let nature live well in the moment.

3、I can't afford to lose

Everyone wants everything to go smoothly, but the reality is more mixed with happiness.

Even if it is a great person, there are times when life is not as good as it should be.

Imagine how many people lost badly in that financial crisis, if they feel sorry for themselves and how can they get back up?

It is not terrible to lose, what is terrible is to lose, once the failure will never get up.

In real life, there is no shortage of "sore losers", the strength is not bad, but afraid to lose, easy to win or lose, and emotional breakdown.

Thinking that life can only win, but do not know that failure is the mother of success, even if it is lost, as long as the courage to stand up, there will be a chance to start over.

A win or loss will only make you lose and not have the courage to come out of the trough.

Live, who is not easy, optimistic, look away, and then sad things will slowly pass.

Don't trap yourself, be brave and break free, live your own life, and live each day in the present.