Don't complain about anyone, don't complain about anything, others can't hurt you if you are strong

Insight into people's hearts, to be a harmonious person

The world is big, and there are all kinds of surprises. At home, you are your parents' heart and soul. Your parents dote on you, take care of you, and prevent you from being wronged.

When danger comes, it is always the first to stand in front of you, to isolate the danger, to ensure that you are safe, and to maintain a pure and simple beautiful view of the world.

But with the increase of age, you grow up slowly and have to leave the arms of your parents to travel and fly alone, you begin to come into contact with a more complex world, and you have to integrate into a society with fierce competition and the first interests In the flood.

At first, you will inevitably not be able to read people's hearts, see things through, often suffer losses, and cry silently, but after a long time, you will understand the rules of the game in this world.

Begin to observe carefully, learn to distinguish between right and wrong, and begin to understand the complexity of human nature and the unpredictability of the human heart.

You will find that it is really important to be good at understanding people's hearts, which not only allows you to avoid disadvantages, but also makes it easier for you to seize opportunities and then ride the train of success.

Insight into people's heart, better protect yourself

We can't control what other people are like and how they behave, the only one we can do well is ourselves.

Excessive demands on others, even the most intimate friends, will easily arouse his resentment and dissatisfaction over time. This is really a thankless thing, why should we be so "bad people"?

Don't complain about the sinister nature of people's hearts, because people's hearts are unpredictable and uncontrollable. Everyone is not a simple black-and-white individual. In many cases, the boundaries between good people and bad people are not so clear, and more are mixed with gray areas.

In fact, everyone has evil and dark thoughts in their hearts. It is just to see if they can suppress them or not erupt. We are always more tolerant of ourselves, especially in the dead of night, when there is no one around and our willpower is weak. "Pandora's Box" opened.

Those sinister and bad thoughts appear in the heart, and some evil morals cannot be restrained, so the law is needed.

However, insight into people’s hearts allows us to better understand human nature, guard against others, and at the same time protect ourselves further, so as to prevent ourselves from being on the verge of danger or falling into the abyss, becoming a tool used by others and being helplessly controlled by others.

So how do we gain insight into people’s hearts and understand human nature?

Usually, we judge whether a person is the same as the inside and outside, and we all look at whether what he says and what he does are consistent.

If a person only speaks and does not act, only rhetoric and never takes actual action, we will think that he is a person full of lies and untrustworthy.

Insight into the human heart is a skill. It requires us to observe more in our daily life, develop the habit of being good at observing and thinking more about everything, not be confused by some appearances, but be able to see through the appearance of things through their essence, Then form your own independent judgment.

Don't follow others' opinions, don't blindly follow the trend, always look at people with your heart, gain insight into his inner thoughts, understand his needs, and be able to guess his actions, and further guide the direction to the level that is beneficial to you, so as to better preserve self.

Insight into people's hearts, better seize opportunities

We always say that "noble people are hard to find" and "Bole is not often found", you know that if you want to let nobles or Bole know and notice you, you need to make some efforts from your own level.

Even if you are talented and smart, if you are ashamed to show it and hide it, the noble person will not appear, and Bole will turn around and leave when he meets you.

Learn to penetrate people's hearts and figure out the psychology behind people's behaviors. You will have a better understanding of human nature, and understand the weaknesses and inferiority of human nature, so that you can be calm and face unexpected situations with ease.

Even if you encounter danger suddenly, you can keep calm, think calmly, think repeatedly, think of countermeasures, and better eliminate danger and turn danger into danger.

People who know how to see people know that they need to show different faces on different occasions in order to better engage in the environment and seize those fleeting opportunities.

Insight into people's hearts is to analyze people's behavior and see the psychological logic behind their behavior.

Insight into people’s hearts requires us to exercise our ability to empathize, to think in a different position, and to put ourselves into the role of others to feel and experience.

If you learn to understand people's hearts, you will master the password of communication. You can find topics through observation and others, and open up the communication situation at once, without embarrassment and coldness, but also give people a kind of feeling of being cordial and seeing each other late. People unconsciously want to talk to you.

It has to be said that this is the best way to accumulate contacts. We are in the world, and it is impossible to reach the peak of success by "going alone". You have to learn to accept this and seek help when appropriate.

Don't exaggerate and overestimate yourself. A person's ability is limited. Only by learning to cooperate with others can we achieve a win-win situation and achieve things that are difficult to do with our own strength alone.

The so-called insight into people's hearts is similar to buying people's hearts. It is a way for us to remove obstacles on the road of life, and it is also a coup for us to open up a new situation in life.

There is no need to complain about the injustice of fate and the sinister human heart, because the key is in your hands, and your destiny and future are like the lines of your palm, always in your own hands.

The road is under your feet, you walk by yourself;

If someone helps, it is luck; if no one helps, it is a test.

The setting sun soothed the tiredness of his body, and Xinghui massaged his sore shoulders.

When you come out of suffering, you will find that you already have the power to fly!