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I was born in Argentina. I grew up during the military dictatorship in a country where chaos and uncertainty were usual.
Like many of us, my childhood was challenging and traumatic. And, like many of us who have suffered abandonment, betrayal, and deep trauma, I spent my life looking for external validation and I put on many masks, played many roles, bent over backward to fit into a society that I did not understand, and little by little, I disconnect from my true self.
But life is wise and, sooner or later, shakes you so that you wake up.
Have you always done everything to meet others people's needs?
To feel accepted and loved?
To accept the unacceptable for fear of abandonment?
After looking for answers in traditional medicine, and feeling tired and hopeless I discovered functional medicine, yoga , meditation, and many ancestral techniques of healing that start healing me deeply and truly.
And the magic of these transformation processes is that there is no turning back once you start. So I decided, consciously, to work on myself from the root of problems and rebirth.
Was it fun? No, it was excruciating. But it was worth every second and every tear because when you dare to feel and face your fears, you discover your infinite potential and authentic Self.
I felt compassion for my condition and myself. My perspective changed: from extreme despair to deep faith that there was a better way.
And I began to realize that I was destined for something much bigger than a lifetime of suffering and pain.
So I decided to commit myself more to my happiness than my suffering. As a result, today, I live a life where I genuinely enjoy every experience.
“The way to maintain one’s connection to the wild is to ask yourself what it is that you want. This is the sorting of the seed from the dirt. One of the most important discriminations we can make in this matter is the difference between things that beckon to us and things that call from our souls.
Nowhere can this be seen more clearly than in the choice of mates and lovers. A lover cannot be chosen a la smorgasbord. A lover has to be chosen from soul-craving. To choose just because something mouthwatering stands before you will never satisfy the hunger of the soul-self. And that is what the intuition is for; it is the direct messenger of the soul.” — Clarissa Pinkola
Once a beautiful soul taught me two magic words, in a very ancient language, that changed my life forever:
SAT NAAM
Sat means truth, the reality of one's existence.
Naam means identity.
It is a bij (or seed) mantra
Inside the seed is contained all the knowledge of the tree entirely developed. So chanting this mantra awakens the soul and gives you your destiny. Since then I have started my way back to my true home, and identity and today I give it to you as a gift.
With love,
Gabriela Ana
Holistic Health Coach
About the Creator
Gabriela Ana / Luz Infinita
I am an Holistic Health Coach. I emphasizes the mind-body-spirit connection for overall well-being through personalized Health plans, including healthy habits, stress management, and holistic practices.
https://www.iamgabrielaana.com/en
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One of the teachers who has most inspired and accompanied me on my spiritual and healing path has been Thich Nhat Hanh. One of the first books I read was “The Art of Caring for Your Inner Child” and this little book was the beginning of a journey to the depths of my being. Very gently it led me to understand the deepest wounds of my childhood. It gave me real tools to heal traumatic experiences.
By Gabriela Ana / Luz Infinita2 years ago in Motivation
The Power Within the Mind
In the quiet town of Riverbend lived a young man named Adam who believed his greatest enemy lived inside his own head. From the outside, his life looked ordinary—he worked at a small printing shop, greeted customers politely, and returned each evening to a modest apartment overlooking the river. But inside Adam’s mind, there was constant noise: worries about the future, regrets about the past, and a steady stream of negative thoughts that told him he was never good enough. Adam’s thoughts controlled his emotions, and his emotions controlled his actions. When he thought he would fail, he avoided trying. When he imagined rejection, he withdrew from people. Slowly, his world became smaller—not because of circumstances, but because of the thoughts he allowed to rule him. One rainy afternoon, while delivering a stack of printed flyers, Adam took shelter in an old bookstore he had passed many times but never entered. The bell above the door chimed softly as he stepped inside. The smell of aged paper and ink filled the air, strangely comforting. Behind the counter sat an elderly man with calm eyes and silver hair, reading as though time itself had paused. “Looking for something?” the man asked gently. “I’m just waiting for the rain to stop,” Adam replied. The old man smiled. “Sometimes we walk into places for reasons we don’t yet understand.” Adam wandered through the narrow aisles until one book caught his attention. Its cover was plain, with a single line written across it: You Are Not Your Thoughts. Curious, Adam brought it to the counter. “That one finds the reader,” the old man said. “Not the other way around.” Adam hesitated. “What does that even mean?” “It means thoughts are like clouds,” the man replied. “They pass through the sky of your mind, but they are not the sky.” Adam bought the book and left as the rain eased. That night, he opened it expecting complex theories, but the writing was simple and clear. It spoke about awareness, about observing thoughts instead of obeying them, and about the hidden power that comes from choosing where to place attention. One line struck him deeply: You cannot always control what appears in your mind, but you can control what you believe and act upon. The next morning, Adam decided to experiment. As he prepared for work, a familiar thought appeared: You’ll mess up today. Normally, he would accept it as truth. This time, he paused. “That’s just a thought,” he said quietly. It felt strange, almost uncomfortable, but also freeing. The thought lost some of its weight. At work, when a customer complained, Adam noticed his mind shouting, You’re useless. Instead of reacting, he took a breath and watched the thought pass. He responded calmly, solved the issue, and realized something remarkable—his day didn’t collapse because he didn’t let his thoughts control his actions. Days turned into weeks, and Adam practiced daily. Not perfectly—some days the old patterns returned strongly—but he was learning. He began to understand that the mind was like a wild horse. If left unchecked, it would run anywhere. But with patience and practice, it could be guided. One evening, Adam returned to the bookstore to thank the old man, but the shop was gone. In its place stood an empty building with a “For Rent” sign. Confused, Adam asked a nearby shopkeeper. “That bookstore?” the shopkeeper said. “Closed years ago.” Adam felt a chill, but instead of fear, he felt clarity. The lesson mattered more than the messenger. As Adam’s control over his thoughts grew, so did his life. He applied for a better position at work—something he would have never dared before. When fear whispered, You’re not ready, he answered, I can learn. When doubt said, You’ll fail, he replied, Maybe—but I’ll try. He didn’t eliminate negative thoughts; he changed his relationship with them. They became signals, not commands. Adam also noticed how his thoughts shaped his relationships. When he assumed others judged him, he acted distant, which pushed people away. When he chose thoughts of openness and curiosity instead, connections formed naturally. His world expanded again. One day, Adam met a young boy sitting alone by the river, staring into the water with heavy eyes. “What are you thinking about?” Adam asked. The boy shrugged. “That I’m not smart. My teacher said I’m slow.” Adam sat beside him. “Thoughts can lie,” he said gently. “Just because a thought shows up doesn’t mean it’s true.” The boy looked up, surprised. “Really?” “Really,” Adam said, smiling. As the sun set, Adam realized how far he had come. The power he once searched for outside—confidence, peace, control—had always been within him. It was hidden behind layers of unchecked thoughts, waiting to be discovered. He understood now that controlling thoughts didn’t mean fighting them or forcing positivity. It meant awareness. Choice. Direction. And in that quiet awareness, Adam found freedom—not from thoughts, but from being ruled by them. From that day on, whenever life felt heavy, Adam returned to one simple truth: I am the thinker, not the thought. And that made all the difference.
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Reclaimed! Well written!