Anger and Pride will defeat your life

No matter how intelligent you are, have a degree from the world's biggest university, work in the world's biggest company, have wealth and happiness, but once pride and anger enter your mind and your mind, everything crumbles and leaves you.

Your pride and your anger may be momentary but the consequences will surely be long-lasting.

Anger and pride rob your life as well as your family's happiness and peace.

One decision taken in anger can undo years of hard work.

I will talk about how to calm your anger and pride, avoid making wrong decisions and how to get out of it.

1) Never take quick decisions in anger

Anger is a temporary guest within man. But if a person takes a wrong decision in that moment, he will regret it for the rest of his life.

Do not take any decision in a hurry and in anger. Even if the decision is delayed but for a few moments and for a few moments avoid making a decision.

2) Assume silence

There are times when we get angry when we hear bad things from others or when we are told to say no by others.

The fault may not be yours but still you get angry and take out your anger on some other place.

Keep silent in such a situation. When the fire within you has subsided, start speaking.

3) Maintain peace at home

Sometimes it happens that the boss is angry with us at the office, there is a clash with someone on the road, when the payment for a party is not received, in such a situation, we vent our anger on our wife, mother and sister or children at home.

In such a situation, we are harmed on both sides, we can afford to be harmed outside, but if conflict arises at home, then it cannot be afforded.

So never let the anger of outsiders in our house and stay calm in the house as if nothing happened.

4) Be a child

When does a man become proud when he has suspicion of money and wealth, power or position etc.

If you never live as a big man but as a little child, you will not be proud.

Don't hesitate to learn from those younger than you and respect others and pride will never come.

5) Give priority

Before getting angry or arrogant, you need to think about whether it is more important than your life, family and happiness or not.

Anger should be done only if it is more important than your life otherwise think for two hours how it will affect my life and family and then get angry at someone else.

6) Don't be too greedy

There are times when the result is less than what we expect and sometimes the result is good and the temptation is too much.

Having too many temptations in life means that you are digging your own grave in life.

In excessive temptation a man loses even what he has and then vents his anger on family and society.

In such a situation, one has to suffer damages.

7) Reading good books or favorite activities

As a saying goes, books are man's best friends. Books have changed many people's lives. When angry, go to a quiet place, read books or listen to music.

Doing your favorite activity will distract your mind and calm you down.

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