Mere~Words

'Dictionary' Words can't Hurt you:*BritBudBook Reviews, Rachel & Annie, and Cj Thanks for the 'Word.'

Whatever happened to the expression "Sticks & Stones will break your bones, but mere words will never hurt you?" At what stage do you 'Go over the Line' or do folks look for any 'interpretation' they just choose to select at the time? There are those that make a living ranting-randomly by putting their targets under a microscope. But, of course, you know that!

— Phobias~Idioms —

We all have phobias - big or small - that we often 'mask' as too embarrassing to tell anyone. Example: Fear of clowns 'Coulrophobia' perhaps your not-everyday 'Fear of Heights' or 'Closed in Elevator' issues? There was once an entire 'Seinfeld' episode that focused on Goofy-Kramer's fear of Clowns! Although a 'Biggie' with me is 'Fear of Women!'

– Doesn't everyone have some kind of phobia? Do You? –

So often many of us simply go out of our way to avoid uncomfortable situations that we just don't want to take the time to confront anymore: We all have those that we've just seemingly 'Tucked-Away'..! Sometimes the quietest hearts speak the most beautiful truths.

– Favorite Expression: Is it 'Over & What's Next' –

How can issues that, once upon a time, just be referred to as 'Stupid'–then we just moved on–go so off-base of late? It's not always about WHAT you get away with – It's HOW you get away with it!

~ A Stream of Consciousness Approach ~

This hoopla is a true indication of the more is NOT more, 'Tude! You never know how you might be perceived and, of course, we all know ‘Perception’ twists Reality" every single time. A Canadian expression, Quote: "Ya-know, we aren't 'Bout' all good, but we aren't ALL bad either." Silly Example: You see a car totally wrecked, but the rear tire is completely intact: Hence, nothing is ALL bad! I could go on but, of course, none of you would want me to!

How about the old 'Glass is 1/2 full/half empty analogy along with the stream 'Live & Let Live or Bait & Switch' my least favorite on so many levels! Expressions/Adages such as: 'No excuse for bad-behavior - Pick your Battles – He gave me a slap in the face, so just turn, don't put your face into it – No kisser damage there.' *Philosophically speaking: Kantor - Immanuel Kant = Turn the other cheek is not always workable - It Takes Two to Tango!

What did we do before agendas were over-explained to us via social media as to how everything should be.

Often to be generational - OMG Gag me with a Spoon: I know NOT a current expression, but it could be on Tik-Tok? — I do like looking at our absurd idioms and out-of-date expressions, particularly ones from our generation, that we often intertwine into our everyday colloquial conversations or currently just observed memories from Thrift Shops.

Current idioms: Reverting to 'mom-isms' cautioning not to pay too much for something just because I wanted it, especially these days! Sibling rivalry – "So, do I have to separate you two?" Remembering: Constant childish curiosities to just 'Know Things'–which I had before learning as a student became a duty instead of a Game–learning was my duty–now it's become my Game.

The one I always hated was, "Girls will be girls and boys will be boys." I always thought it was said to keep girls from competing with boys (particularly in the classroom) or currently in sports that give boys a Huge-Pass for truly bad {often demeaning to women} unfair behavior!

I wonder about the disparity between, 'Fake it until you make it and be true to yourself.' Am I being true to myself if I'm faking it? It is not what you make-of-yourself – But what others might make of you.

Do you often Feel Like a Rolling Stone~Collateral Damage uses via Sacks of Books—Penny for your thoughts? You get what you paid for — Act Stupid~But be Smart about it!

Jay Kantor, Chatsworth, California

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