Vain and fainthearted

As the saying goes, "A fence is three stakes, and a good man is three helpers." A person wants to succeed in business, without the help of many people, is impossible to achieve. And to win the help of many people, the "good man" without a modest attitude is not possible to gather other "good man".

　　Open-mindedness is a valuable quality for each of us in our daily work and life. Because of the different backgrounds of knowledge and learning, experience and experience, each person has many aspects is certainly not as good as others, learning is not as good as others, knowledge is not as good as others, therefore, humble to learn from others and ask for advice, is the fastest shortcut to maturity and success. In the process of learning and asking for advice, whether one is open-minded or slack, humble or arrogant, one can see the quality and quality of a person. Open-mindedness is not only a charisma and virtue, but also a necessary element for success.

　　A business or team leader's modesty is a precious resource, which can become a spiritual well-being of the people above the wealth sharing, and can play a role in recruiting and cohesion, and can also achieve the purpose of opening up the road of speech, accepting advice and correcting bias. Therefore, always keep the virtue of open-mindedness, is always a kind of upward and good nutrition resources and value power on our life.

　　The word "modesty" in reverse is "weakness of mind". Vain heart is a person's psychological role and projection reaction, the old saying: "people do not do anything wrong, knocking on the door in the middle of the night heart is not alarmed." A person does not have a weak heart, ordinary days should not do anything wrong, as the ancients say: "not ashamed of the sky, not ashamed of people, not ashamed of the heart." Not to be ashamed is also not to lose, and not to do anything wrong is the premise of rational at all times, everywhere in the vain, not to make enemies, not to indulge in self-indulgence, and therefore will not move to do something wrong. Generally speaking, people who are vain will not be vain, but vain people sometimes pretend to be "vain", using "vain" to cover their "vain", to deceive the uninformed and do not know the details of the people In the end, they move stones to smash their own feet.

　　How to distinguish between people who are really "vain" and those who are "weak-minded"? I think there are two ways: one is linked to fame, interests, the real vain person is always the first person after himself, first big public after small private, calm and relaxed; vain people every cent, frothing at the mouth, either sound, fancy, or capricious, suffering from loss, often anxious and brutal, unreasonable; second is to look at the look, vain people have a great ambition and great wisdom, their own determination, will not dwell on small things The person with a weak heart is only interested in the near future, and will definitely be entangled in trivial matters and small profits, very irritable, talkative, confused and suspicious, like to pretend, faking, confusing. With these two significant characteristics, is a vain or weak-minded, a glance will tell.

　　The value and gain of life is largely reflected in the length and degree of faintheartedness, while the fullness and happiness of life is largely reflected in the dimension and direction of not being fainthearted, not worrying, not worrying.

　　In the long river of life, the virtue of being vain is the "spiritual passbook", which is the starting point to win the brightest moments in life, and is always worth holding, storing and holding on to; being vain is an emotional reaction of being inferior to others or losing heart, and we have to exclude this negative energy forever, and not let it consume and overdraft our inner positive energy, gnawing at Our conscience and goodwill. We should pluck and remove the "root of weakness" from our hearts and make room for healthy, upwardly mobile beliefs and the virtue of modesty and humility to be transplanted and rooted in our hearts, so that it can glow with infinite brilliance and infinite charm.