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The Lie of “New Year, New Me”
Every year, on the first morning of January, the world wakes up pretending to be reborn. Gyms overflow. Journals open on fresh pages. Promises are declared loudly and confidently: This is my year. New year, new me. The words feel powerful... until they don’t. Until motivation fades, routines collapse, and February quietly becomes a graveyard of abandoned resolutions.
By MIGrowth44 minutes ago in Humans
10 Reasons Not to Sleep With Him If You Want Real Love
Real love is built with intention, clarity, and emotional safety. Physical intimacy holds power. When it occurs too quickly or for the wrong reasons, it can cloud judgment and silently obstruct the future you desire. On the Bloom Boldly platform, we speak with women who value self-respect, depth, and long-term connection. Here are ten reasons not to sleep with him if your goal is genuine love, not confusion or regret.
By Bloom Boldlyabout an hour ago in Humans
Amber Glenn’s Quiet Rise Through Pressure, Pain, and Perseverance
Amber Glenn is not the loudest name in figure skating, but her presence lingers long after she leaves the ice. Her career has been shaped by moments of promise, heartbreak, resilience, and steady growth that rarely follows a straight line. For years, she stood on the edge of major breakthroughs while carrying pressure few could see. Amber Glenn’s story is not about overnight success. It is about staying when leaving would have been easier. It is about learning to trust her body again, believing in her place in the sport, and showing up even when the spotlight felt heavy. To understand Amber Glenn today, you have to look beyond scores and medals and into the quiet determination that defines her journey.
By Muqadas khanabout 3 hours ago in Humans
You can not control the world . Content Warning.
. You can not control the world . And if you are the sort of person who wants to control, - Then you the exact sort of person that should not control anything.
By Ross E Fortune Lombardiabout 3 hours ago in Humans
How to Recognize Manipulation and Protect Yourself in Relationships
People often use manipulation in relationships, and if you’re not attentive, you can fall for it easily. This doesn’t happen because you’re not intelligent or aware enough. It happens because some people are so subtle and sound so credible that you may dismiss red flags and even doubt yourself.
By Nadia Cardosoabout 13 hours ago in Humans
Are Fat People Disabled or Are Disabled People Fat?
There is a question people ask quietly, sometimes without even realising they are asking it. It lives in looks, assumptions, and comments muttered under breath. It sounds like concern, but it is actually judgement. It goes something like this: why are so many fat people in pain? Why are so many fat people using mobility aids? Why are so many fat people struggling to move?
By No One’s Daughterabout 14 hours ago in Humans
The Quiet Power of a Homily
The church bell rang with a sound that seemed older than the town itself—deep, steady, and patient. It echoed through narrow streets, over small houses with worn roofs, and into the hearts of people who had learned to measure their weeks by its call. On this Sunday morning, the bell did not know that something unusual was about to happen. It rang as it always had, faithful and unchanged.
By Farhadiabout 15 hours ago in Humans
The Connection Between Unforgiveness and Weight
It might not be your slow metabolism or your genes that keep you from losing weight. It might not even be what you are eating. Furthermore, it might be what's eating you. If you have tried every diet and nothing worked, it could be your inability to forgive that's keeping you fat.
By Margaret Minnicksabout 19 hours ago in Humans
We Stood at the Edge and Pretended It Was Beautiful
We stood at the edge and called it beautiful, because calling it dangerous would have meant admitting how close we were to falling.
By Imran Ali Shahabout 23 hours ago in Humans
The Day You Understand No One Is Coming to Save You — Everything Changes
There’s a moment in every person’s life — a quiet, heavy moment — when you finally understand something that changes you forever: no one is coming to save you.
By mikea day ago in Humans
How Fear Kills Dreams — And How to Rise Above It Before It’s Too Late
Fear is one of the most powerful forces in a human life. It doesn’t attack loudly. It doesn’t knock on your door screaming. Fear works quietly. Silently. Slowly. It chips away at your confidence, your ambition, your potential, and your belief in what you could become.
By mike2 days ago in Humans
The Slavery We Don’t Talk About — Because It Lives Inside Us
People think slavery only exists in history books. They think it’s something brutal, obvious, physical — something you can see. But the truth is, the deepest kind of slavery doesn’t need chains, cages, or masters. The strongest prisons are the ones we build around ourselves. The ones we walk into willingly. The ones we defend without realizing we’re defending our own limits.
By mike2 days ago in Humans