Wilson Igbasi
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Hi, I'm Wilson Igbasi — a passionate writer, researcher, and tech enthusiast. I love exploring topics at the intersection of technology, personal growth, and spirituality.
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What Your 'For You' Page Says About Your Unconscious Desires and Fears.
If you scroll through social media long enough, patterns emerge. Your 'For You' page on platforms like TikTok or Instagram is not random. Every video, reel, or post reflects the quiet workings of your mind. These algorithms track what you linger on, what you skip, and what sparks an emotional reaction. The result is a digital mirror, showing not just your conscious interests but also your deeper desires and hidden fears.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
The 'Grey Rock' Method Saved Me From a Toxic Family Member
Family relationships are complicated. Boundaries are often blurry, and emotions run deep. But what happens when a family member becomes consistently toxic? When criticism, manipulation, or emotional abuse is constant, the usual advice—confrontation, reasoning, or avoidance—sometimes fails. That’s where the “Grey Rock” method changed my life.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
I Interviewed 100 People About Their 'One That Got Away.' The Patterns Were Haunting
Love is universal, but loss is inevitable. We all have a story of someone who slipped through our fingers—the one who lingered in memory, even when life moved on. I interviewed 100 people about their “one that got away” to uncover patterns in heartbreak, regret, and longing. What emerged was haunting, yet oddly enlightening.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Journal
The Psychology of 'Main Character Energy'—Is It Self-Care or Narcissism?
“Main character energy” has become a popular term online, especially on social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram. It describes the mindset of living your life as if you are the protagonist of your own story—taking control, prioritizing yourself, and seeking experiences that make your life feel cinematic. But as this concept spreads, a question emerges: is embracing main character energy a form of self-care, or does it slide into narcissism?
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
I Communicated Only Through Writing With My Partner for a Week. It Fixed Our Biggest Fight.
Fights in relationships can feel endless. Words get tangled with emotion, frustration builds, and even the simplest issue can explode. My partner and I had been stuck in a recurring argument for months, and no amount of talking seemed to fix it. Then I tried something unusual: we agreed to communicate only through writing for an entire week. The results were surprising—and transformative.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
The One Question That Predicts Long-Term Relationship Success, According to Therapists.
Subtitle: Than Years of Dating Romantic advice is everywhere. Articles, books, and social media tell you how to date, communicate, and “make it work.” Yet therapists who work with couples consistently point to one deceptively simple question that predicts long-term relationship success more than any checklist of shared interests, hobbies, or even values.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
The 'Nostalgia Industrial Complex' Is Robbing Us of Our Actual Memories.
Every decade, it seems like something old becomes suddenly “new again.” Movies, TV shows, toys, and fashion trends from our childhoods are repackaged and sold back to us. The term “nostalgia industrial complex” describes this phenomenon: a system where corporations, media companies, and marketers capitalize on longing for the past. But the problem isn’t just commercialization—it’s how this cycle distorts our actual memories.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Journal
Anthropology of the Group Chat: The Unspoken Rules That Govern Our Digital Tribes.
Group chats are everywhere. From WhatsApp and Telegram to Slack and Discord, digital communication has created new social spaces where friendships, work relationships, and communities thrive. On the surface, group chats might seem casual or trivial, but if you look closely, they reveal complex social structures and unspoken rules that govern human behavior. Understanding these patterns is the key to thriving in our modern “digital tribes.”
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
The Math Behind Retiring Early in a Small Town vs. Struggling in a Major City.
Retirement planning is often framed around income, savings rate, and investment growth. Few people consider how much location shapes financial outcomes. Living in a small town versus a major city can drastically affect your ability to retire early, not because of lifestyle alone, but because of the numbers. Let’s break it down.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
As a Hiring Manager, I Immediately Reject Resumes With These 3 Phrases.
Every hiring manager has a mental checklist when scanning resumes. In the first 10–15 seconds, we assess whether a candidate is clear, confident, and professional. Many resumes fail not because of lack of experience, but because of careless phrasing. Over the years, I’ve noticed three specific phrases that instantly make me hit the “reject” button. They’re subtle, but they communicate the wrong things about you.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
My $100 to $10,000 Flipping Challenge: The 5 Rules That Actually Worked.
Flipping is one of the oldest ways to make money, yet few people approach it with a plan. I started with just $100 and a simple goal: turn it into $10,000. Over six months, I learned that success wasn’t about luck or finding rare items. It was about systems, discipline, and following rules that most beginners ignore. After experimenting, failing, and refining my approach, I discovered five rules that consistently worked.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
The 'Lazy Girl Job' Concept Is Genius, But Everyone Is Misinterpreting It.
You’ve probably seen the phrase circulating on TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter: “lazy girl job.” The concept seems simple at first glance. People assume it’s about being lazy, avoiding hard work, or finding the easiest gig possible. The reality is much more strategic, and most of the chatter online misses the point entirely.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
