humanity
For better or for worse, relationships reveal the core of the human condition.
The Psychology of 'Main Character Energy'—Is It Self-Care or Narcissism?
“Main character energy” has become a popular term online, especially on social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram. It describes the mindset of living your life as if you are the protagonist of your own story—taking control, prioritizing yourself, and seeking experiences that make your life feel cinematic. But as this concept spreads, a question emerges: is embracing main character energy a form of self-care, or does it slide into narcissism?
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
I Communicated Only Through Writing With My Partner for a Week. It Fixed Our Biggest Fight.
Fights in relationships can feel endless. Words get tangled with emotion, frustration builds, and even the simplest issue can explode. My partner and I had been stuck in a recurring argument for months, and no amount of talking seemed to fix it. Then I tried something unusual: we agreed to communicate only through writing for an entire week. The results were surprising—and transformative.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
The One Question That Predicts Long-Term Relationship Success, According to Therapists.
Subtitle: Than Years of Dating Romantic advice is everywhere. Articles, books, and social media tell you how to date, communicate, and “make it work.” Yet therapists who work with couples consistently point to one deceptively simple question that predicts long-term relationship success more than any checklist of shared interests, hobbies, or even values.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
Anthropology of the Group Chat: The Unspoken Rules That Govern Our Digital Tribes.
Group chats are everywhere. From WhatsApp and Telegram to Slack and Discord, digital communication has created new social spaces where friendships, work relationships, and communities thrive. On the surface, group chats might seem casual or trivial, but if you look closely, they reveal complex social structures and unspoken rules that govern human behavior. Understanding these patterns is the key to thriving in our modern “digital tribes.”
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
The Math Behind Retiring Early in a Small Town vs. Struggling in a Major City.
Retirement planning is often framed around income, savings rate, and investment growth. Few people consider how much location shapes financial outcomes. Living in a small town versus a major city can drastically affect your ability to retire early, not because of lifestyle alone, but because of the numbers. Let’s break it down.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
As a Hiring Manager, I Immediately Reject Resumes With These 3 Phrases.
Every hiring manager has a mental checklist when scanning resumes. In the first 10–15 seconds, we assess whether a candidate is clear, confident, and professional. Many resumes fail not because of lack of experience, but because of careless phrasing. Over the years, I’ve noticed three specific phrases that instantly make me hit the “reject” button. They’re subtle, but they communicate the wrong things about you.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
My $100 to $10,000 Flipping Challenge: The 5 Rules That Actually Worked.
Flipping is one of the oldest ways to make money, yet few people approach it with a plan. I started with just $100 and a simple goal: turn it into $10,000. Over six months, I learned that success wasn’t about luck or finding rare items. It was about systems, discipline, and following rules that most beginners ignore. After experimenting, failing, and refining my approach, I discovered five rules that consistently worked.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
The 'Lazy Girl Job' Concept Is Genius, But Everyone Is Misinterpreting It.
You’ve probably seen the phrase circulating on TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter: “lazy girl job.” The concept seems simple at first glance. People assume it’s about being lazy, avoiding hard work, or finding the easiest gig possible. The reality is much more strategic, and most of the chatter online misses the point entirely.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
I Reverse-Engineered 100 'Day in the Life' TikToks. Here's the Lie They're All Selling.
Scrolling through TikTok, it’s easy to believe some people have it all. Perfect mornings, tidy homes, flawless outfits, and a seemingly endless flow of achievements. “Day in the life” videos promise authenticity, a window into someone else’s routine. But after analyzing over 100 of these videos, I noticed a pattern: most of what you see is carefully curated storytelling designed to sell an idea—not reality.
By Wilson Igbasi6 days ago in Humans
Insomnia: Self Hypnosis for Sleep. Content Warning. AI-Generated.
Mrs Ericson’s Induction A Simple Self-Hypnosis Exercise to Help You Sleep Falling asleep can feel difficult when your mind is busy or your body feels tense. Thoughts may keep looping, or you may feel restless even when you are tired. This simple self-hypnosis exercise is designed to gently calm your mind and body by guiding your attention step by step. It uses focused awareness of what you can see, hear, and feel to bring you fully into the present moment. With practice, many people find it helps them relax deeply and drift into sleep more easily.
By Overcoming Pain6 days ago in Humans
