friendship
C.S Lewis got it right: friendship is born when one person says to another: "What! You too? I thought I was the only one!"
What is the secret obsession of a man
1. Gentility Feminity is characterized by close to home, supporting, delicate, defenseless and exotic qualities. It's the total inverse of manliness, which is characterized by rationale, initiative, groundedness, contest and hostility.
By Gaurang Raut3 years ago in Humans
Mistakes To Avoid in a Relationship: 8 Dating Tips
Mistakes To Keep away from in a Relationship: What is the meaning of a relationship? As far as some might be concerned, it is a leisure activity or the significance of life, yet truly, it is everyday work. Be that as it may, you won't be named worker of the month until you figure out how to forestall the most well-known bumbles.
By Onyekachi Emenalo3 years ago in Humans
Incels: Stop Doing This if You Want to Get Laid
One thing I keep hearing more and more lately that I was unfamiliar with until recently is the term “Incel”. I first heard it when my kids laughing about it, as it related to some funny meme they were cracking up about.
By The Mouthy Renegade Writer3 years ago in Humans
Angel Of Mine
Not long ago I worked the night shift at a retirement home from eleven at night to seven in the morning Well ofcourse the amtosphere of being in a nursing home is a bit sad itself Knowing that these men and women had fought in wars ,were nurses and had families .Basically just waiting for jesus to take them home .This one particular morning I talked to a woman name Mrs.Rogers. I will never forget it .She was from Long Island , New York .In her 90s and had the sqeakiest softest little voice .She was very sweet . That morning we had talked about her life and some of her experiences .She was feeling down and I didn't like seeing her sad . She had told me she had been married fifty years until her husband died .She wasnt able to have children so she adopted them and had lots of dogs . She had told me She had even went to go see Frank Sinatra in concert . That excited me even more because I favored him so much I had asked her how did she know her husband was the one . She smiled as if she was trying to keep from crying and said he was always a friend first. He had followed me across the country Thats how i knew . Little did she know we had helped each other .I was holding onto a toxic relationship for six years .I thought he was the one .When she said thats when I realized I had deserved much better. She had told me her children sold her house and her car .Thats why she was feeling down. All I could do was apologise .I gave her a little bit of encouragement that every thing is going to be okay . She said to me "One more thing ,I would be ever so grateful if you would open the blinds for me ." She said in her thick northern accent . I fixed her shoes and walked over to the window to open the blinds. After that I clocked out and two weeks later it was around thanksgiving .I was off the day of thanksgiving but when I came back .I went to do my daily rounds and I asked the head nurse why there was a grey lock on her door knob . I was looking forward to our little talks . She had told me Mrs Rogers died from a respitory infection . I stopped in my tracks and my heart broke into a million peices . I cried so bad but I still had to work. Thats one of the hardest things Ive had to do in life . The pain in my heart ,throat. and eyes was so unbearable . The next day I was sitting on the couch at work . I mumbled under my breath I need a hug . All of sudden I felt this cold presence wrapped their arm around my shoulder . It was comforting and frightening at the same time because no one was around me .I knew it was her , and then it went away . It couldn't have been a coincedence I mean the doors were closed and it was warm inside . I had learned a valuable lesson .That God is real and angels are real . Make the best out of the life experiences he gives you . Most importantly be kind .You never kow when it's your time to go or if your story can have an impact on those around you. Thats when I knew she is in a better place and most likely at a Frank Sinatra concert reunited with her husband in heaven . She is at peace now . Knowing that makes my soul smile .
By Anasia Mosley3 years ago in Humans
Dear Santa
Dear Santa, I know that you love delivering millions of presents to children and adults across the world, and I love you for that, thank you. However, this year, I have many wishes; though I do not wish for Christmas presents. Christmas presents are nice, but my heart is bigger than 'just being nice.
By Carol Ann Townend3 years ago in Humans
What Is A Muse?
Introduction This is my own personal interpretation of what a Muse is to me, others may and do see the interpretation differently. I am slightly worried that I have touched this subject several times before but I think it is always good to revisit the things that inspire you to create things.
By Mike Singleton 💜 Mikeydred 3 years ago in Humans
Welcome to my mind- Is there hope ... or am I being too hopeful?
Welcome to my mind : Is There Hope or… Am I Being too Hopeful…? Also December 1 2022. My mind has been at a constant race, but its also been having more calm days. This has been the roughest heartbreak. But this heartbreak, has made me learn so much. And what I have to change in myself, to be better for myself and not to keep sabotaging myself, and hopefully I’ll be better for you too, once I’m happy again and see the change. I’ve held onto so many things from the past and its blinded me in so many ways and blinded me from a love, lost a love that I’ve always wanted, and I’m hoping to regain that love one day. I’ve been learning to be a better communicator, which is one of my biggest issues. And I need to be able to communicate no matter how hard it may be. I cant keep pulling away, because I thought it was the best thing to do and to solve the situation at hand, but pulling away isn’t always the answer. I’m not used to communicating because I haven’t really done it before. For me, once I start to trust you I begin to open up to you slowly, guess I’m like a cat in that aspect. And the crazy thing is I was beginning to trust but I was broken at the same time and I felt like, it wasn’t enough, its just that I needed time and if that time was given then maybe. I was already low, when I was made to feel lower, especially by the person that I so deeply love, and that’s when I became a shell and withdrawing just taking pieces away. Feeling shattered especially by your words and my own circling in my head, I just felt that you really felt that way for me and I crumbled. Although I felt like this for the longest, since that moment somehow, some way I still deeply loved, and still do love you. I try to forget you but I can’t, I cry about us all the time, I wished many times I could show you that I still want this, us to work and I still miss you and I hope you feel the same way too. While I was mentally and emotionally battling myself while simultaneously projecting onto you all my hurt and pain, and the expectation of something bad happening, it took over and I didn’t completely see you, when you were going through your pain because I was so consumed with mine, and I was pulling away, I was also causing harm to you – with no intention to, a part of me didn’t want to make you sad by talking about it, but I could’ve been there in other ways and I wasn’t and im sorry. Just like I needed you to be there for me during my lowest, you needed me now and I wasn’t there, because I was too busy in my head. And I’m so sorry. I know this is why I have to be more vocal not just for my own sake but for you too, be more present and I wish I was because, I as hurting you and your someone that I didn’t want to hurt. This pain is so hard to focus on, one day I’m fine, the next I’m sad or bleh. I know while going through this heartbreak, I’m also healing, and healing the inner child in me. I honestly didn’t expect it to be this hard, I’m usually over things quickly, but you, I cant get over quickly. This was way to real, way to genuine and passionate of a love to just let go, and that’s why I’m fighting. I know we are both hurt, and going through this journey, I hope it really does lead us back together, I really do. I’ve felt so many things since we’ve last broken up and I wanted you back, but I couldn’t not until I was healed and you as well, because I didn’t want to end up in this pain or confusion because with you I want so many things to be right I know things aren’t perfect, I even have tattoo on me in order to remind me, and I think of us, it reminds me love isn’t prefect. I just know, that we do go well together and we just gotta work on this kink, this double knot, because there were so many good times, but we had very bad times all because of not communicating and understanding. I saw you a few days ago, and you have no idea how happy I was to see you but so nervous, because I was going to let you in, let you in emotionally, let you know I’m still in love with you, that I still want to be with you, that I never stopped wanting those things, let you know what’s wrong with me and why its so hard, but I’ve been noticing a change since we broke up, I’ve been communicating better, just the person I really had to communicate with was you, so you know how I really felt. Although I know you didn’t want to see me, you did anyway and I’m so grateful for that. And I hope you see and hear the love I still have because, I want to fight for us because I want to give you the love, you think you wont have anymore, because I do know I have the kinda love you want to have and keep in your life, if your willing to give us that chance. I know I shouldn’t have my hopes high but I do have hope, a hope for a love that will always bring me to a smile. And something for certain, that I’ve learned recently, not just from being apart from each other, but our talk helped more than I thought it would and I’m glad we were able to speak freely to one another, which could be a sign of something good to come, we really do have to talk more and understand each other, then its in the bag babe, we’d be on top and finally ourselves… Is there still hope… or am I being too hopeful?
By Pandoras Spawn3 years ago in Humans
Sewing
They met in kindergarten. Seph and Rhea were quite the pair. They were inseparable as they were different but exactly the same. The boy, Seph, was trouble prone so Rhea often spent her time lecturing and caring for him which always seemed to include sewing up his clothes.
By Calypso King 3 years ago in Humans
'Humanity' of the 'Humans'
8 Humanity is at its best when it can be fully applied to the right place. Otherwise, the real meaning of the word humanity is not revealed. Just as humanity does not exist in the heart of all, so it is not right to manifest humanity in all cases. The creation of humanity from man is again the destruction of that humanity by man. In a state of restraint, a person finds the weakest side of another person and grabs the opportunity of time and hits the extreme. At that time, even though there were hundreds of forces on human beings, both human and humanity took a violent form. In the current society, in most cases, thousands of anti-moral activities are carried out for the sake of humanity. The word that is deeply intertwined with the word humanity is selfless. Because when a person works for the welfare of the people, it is completely out of selfishness. But now it would be a bit foolish to say that people work outside of selfishness. Although there is no direct self-interest in it, there are various kinds of self-interest indirectly.
By Dr. Tulika Sarkar3 years ago in Humans
N.T.'s vs N.D.'s
Have you ever met someone odd in a way you couldn't place what was odd but knew something was there? Have you ever met someone who was called, "a walking encyclopedia"? Have you ever been the one who picked on this person for knowing things you did not? Have you ever wondered what made them different? Do these questions bring a specific someone to mind? As this was me growing up, I do not want this to be my sons fate, which is why I am writing this. I know in todays "Age of Information" and the World Wide Web, many questions can be answered in the blink of an eye just by saying, "Hey Google" or "Hey Siri..." But not always these questions, nor several others, I mean you can add in the oddities to a search and I'm sure it would pull up something on some site or other.
By Niecee May3 years ago in Humans
