breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
The False Peace of Deferral
Full retreat simply to “keep the peace” is not resolution. It is deferment. Nothing is solved; it is merely pushed down the line to explode later in greater form. This is not peace, but rather an escape born of fear. It is not courage, nor bravery, nor wisdom. It is cowardice—immaturity disguised as civility.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast3 months ago in Humans
Breakup Recovery Blueprint: Science-Backed Ways to Heal Your Heart (Without Losing Yourself)
Have you ever felt like a grand piano fell on your chest during a breakup? You are human, not dramatic. Your personality, your routines, and even your sleep can be disrupted by romantic endings. The good news is that there is no guesswork involved in mending.
By Milan Milic3 months ago in Humans
“The Words I Never Said”
By Murad Ali Shah She sat two desks away, always with a cup of coffee and a small, worn-out notebook. Every morning at 8:30 sharp, she’d walk into the office with her hair slightly damp from the shower, earbuds tucked in, and the faintest smile that seemed to hold a whole world behind it.
By Murad Ali Shah3 months ago in Humans
The day I stopped Fighting To Be Chosen
I used to beg to be loved. Not out loud but in every text I overthought, every silence I tried to fill, every version of myself I reshaped just to keep someone around. It was exhausting, pretending I didn’t notice when people slowly stopped choosing me.
By Ayesha Writes3 months ago in Humans
The Brighter Mind: Unlocking the Power of Positive Human Psychology
The Brighter Mind: A Story of Resilience and Connection In a small village nestled between green hills and a winding river, lived a young boy named Ayan. Though his village had little in terms of wealth, it overflowed with stories, kindness, and the quiet strength of people who had learned how to be happy with what they had. Ayan was curious—about people, about the world, and most of all, about what made some people smile through pain while others struggled in the face of the same hardship. He would often sit under the giant banyan tree at the village’s center, asking questions to anyone who passed by. One afternoon, an old traveler named Mira arrived. Her face was wrinkled with time, but her eyes sparkled with joy. She had walked across countries, carrying only a small satchel and an open heart. Intrigued, Ayan asked her, “How do you stay so happy, even when life is hard?” Mira sat beside him, smiling. “Happiness doesn’t always come from what happens to us,” she said, “but from how we think about what happens.” She went on to explain the idea of positive psychology—the science of strengths, resilience, gratitude, and purpose. Ayan had never heard of such a thing. In school, he learned about survival and struggle, but not about flourishing. Mira told him that human beings are wired for connection, growth, and meaning. Even in pain, there can be purpose. That night, Ayan couldn’t sleep. He thought about the people in his village—how his mother always sang while she cooked, even when money was tight. How the old carpenter, who lost his wife years ago, still carved toys for the children every week. There was sadness in their lives, yes, but also incredible strength. Inspired, Ayan began talking more deeply with the people around him. He asked them what made them feel strong. He learned that his teacher found peace through journaling, that his friend Tariq stayed hopeful by helping others, and that the baker found joy in small acts of kindness. Each person, without knowing it, was practicing positive psychology. With Mira’s help, Ayan started a Wellbeing Circle. Every Sunday, people would gather under the banyan tree. They shared what they were grateful for, spoke about their challenges, and reminded each other of their strengths. They practiced mindfulness, told stories of resilience, and encouraged one another to focus not just on surviving, but thriving. Months passed. The village slowly changed—not because it became richer or easier, but because people saw each other differently. They listened more. They judged less. When a storm destroyed several homes, the community rebuilt together, singing as they worked. Years later, Ayan became a psychologist. He traveled to other villages, sharing what he had learned under that old tree. He taught that human psychology isn’t only about fixing what’s wrong, but also about building what’s strong. One day, he returned to his village with his own son. Together, they sat beneath the same banyan tree. His son asked, “Papa, why do people help each other even when they have so little?” Ayan smiled. “Because we’re wired to care. And when we care for others, we heal ourselves too.” His son looked up at the tree branches, where sunlight filtered through like golden threads. “I think this tree is magic,” he whispered. Ayan laughed. “Maybe it is. Or maybe the magic is in us—and we just needed a place to remember.” --- Moral of the Story: We all carry within us the seeds of hope, gratitude, and connection. Positive psychology teaches us not to ignore pain, but to rise above it by focusing on strengths, meaning, and relationships. Happiness is not a destination—it's a way of seeing the world, together.
By Muhammad Saad 3 months ago in Humans
What To Do When You Get Dumped And Feel Worthless
Breaking up is difficult enough, but being discarded and feeling useless can rip through the very fabric of our self-esteem. Rejection can strike unexpectedly, shattering our confidence, dimming our outlook, and questioning our worth. Even in the midst of tremendous devastation, there remains hope. There is healing, progress, and even empowerment. Let's stroll through it together.
By Relationship Guide3 months ago in Humans
just like i wanted
chapter6 just like i wanted "it isn't what you think!" i protest. it's obvious to me that Carter thinks i'm rejecting a part of him. and it makes sense that he would feel spurned and judged when i distance from his habit. honestly, there isn’t another way to interpret my dissociation from his perspective, but it is the intention and motive for my pushback that i wish to give my personal definition to.
By ⸘jason alan‽3 months ago in Humans
