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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Cutting out the Negativity!
Negativity is nothing but a thief... it only steals your happiness. Negativity can come from both internal and external sources. In this particular instance, we're looking for those external forces that cause such an impact—more specifically speaking, certain individuals in your life.
By Kayla Leah8 years ago in Humans
5 Strong Relationship Habits that Sometimes Appear Toxic
Relationships are a complicated creature to understand. We hear all about it from family and friends all the time: you fight, yell at each other, someone's crying and then suddenly your emotions are all over the place and you're not sure about your relationship, let alone what you're going to make for dinner. Then a few days later, you're holding hands walking down the street all over again, laughing about some stupid meme you saw the other day. Some couples can go on following this pattern for years and still maintain a strong bond throughout all the turmoil of disagreements and screaming matches, while others might be more adamant about solving all their relationship problems right away to avoid conflict may not last as long as long term as others.
By Delilah Jayde8 years ago in Humans
Ultimate Guide to Romantic Gift Giving for Mother’s Day. Top Story - April 2018.
Mother’s Day is a holiday that makes most men with children a little bit nervous. When you’re a child, it’s easy to come up with gifts for your own mother, but for the mother of your children, it is a bit more challenging. There are a lot of spoken and unspoken rules about romantic gift giving for Mother’s Day—and it’s all too easy to mess things up.
By [ENCLOSED]8 years ago in Humans
Advice With Rene.io!
To the person who does not know how to NOT be in the spotlight and how to give it to other people, I totally get what it feels like for everyone to think that you are selfish or vain. But sometimes you can't help it; you are just full of yourself. That is not necessarily a bad thing. Not at all. I believe that if you find yourself beautiful, FLAUNT IT. If you think you are the best actor or actress, FLAUNT IT. But I think your problem is that you do not know how or when to flaunt it. That is probably why you messaged me, and you have come to the right place.
By noel .8 years ago in Humans
When to Bite Your Tongue and Swallow Your Words
This article is just for us GUYS!!! Ladies, PLEASEdo something else. We love you, but you simply cannot stay here as we guys examine some important issues. This is some secret advice FOR GUYS ONLY!!!
By Maurice Bernier8 years ago in Humans
Relationships
Don’t get it twisted. I’m no relationship expert and I don’t expect everyone to understand or accept this, whatever it is. But I know one thing. We are human beings, so we have to do and be better.
By C.S.York8 years ago in Humans
Building Healthy Relationships (Pt. 7)
With the recent passing of former first lady, Barbara Bush, I am reminded of my romanticized ideas of what family should be. As articulated by Barbara Bush,
By denise knight8 years ago in Humans
Casanova vs. Don Juan: Do You Actually Know the Difference?
After an early morning power walk through the old neighborhood in Mexico City where I live, my exercise partner and I sat down to a cup of coffee in Joselo, a small cozy coffee shop across from Parque Lincoln. Mornings in the Polanco neighborhood, before cars begin to crowd the narrow streets, when it's only locals, their dogs, and elderly men reading paper and drinking strong coffee, is by far the most peaceful time of day. On one hand, Polanco feels very much like a village; easily walkable, charming old buildings, outdoor markets, and unassuming dog friendly cafes; on the other hand, there is a large concentration of trendy hotspots, drawing crowds from the suburbs nights and weekends, a bevy of high end luxury stores, and new, modern construction going up everywhere. The contrast of old and new, however, gives it a special flavor that not many areas can boast.
By Leslie Sharp8 years ago in Humans
Love Hurts
When we talk about domestic abuse, we miss one of the most important factors—love. We frame the argument in more rational terms, e.g. when we believe the victim only stays for practical reasons. We feel it must be because of lack of resources, or isolation, or logistics. At worst, they might remain through fear, compliance, or learned helplessness. But that’s only part of the problem. All of these reasons are valid ones, but by concentrating only on the practical, we’re only seeing part of the picture, and we’re letting survivors down.
By Katy Preen8 years ago in Humans
Advice I Wish I Had
The other day I was scrolling through Facebook just passing time. I came across a post from a girl that I don't really know and never have really talked to. She was saying how she was upset and felt worthless. Even though I've never talked to her before, I wanted to message her and make sure she was OK. When she finally responded, she said that her boyfriend had recently broken up with her. Now, we have all been through a breakup before. This was the one that hurt. She told me how she felt worthless and that she was never going to find anyone and why go on with life. I gave her advice. At first, it was the advice I've always been given; the "oh, you're not going to be alone forever" advice—then I realised it's all fake. I told her my advice, the advice I wish I would've been given. I told her I understood what she was going through. I know that kind of relationship because I had it. It was that relationship where you love him so much that it hurts, but it hurts even more when you can't love him anymore. I told her how I cried myself to sleep for months, how I thought it was all pointless, how living life without him would be pointless.
By Alyssa Smith8 years ago in Humans
Tips on What to Do and Places You Can Go on Your First Date
Planning for your first date is always nerve-wracking. You worry a lot, and overthink a lot. Relax. Instead of worrying of what disasters might or could happen, think of the best ways to impress your girl.
By Kissy Anne8 years ago in Humans
A College Girl's Guide to Friends With Benefits
In this day and age, having a friend (or friends) with benefits is more common than not. Older generations may frown upon casual sex, but there is nothing wrong with having someone to relieve stress or just have fun with. This can actually be healthy. Just like hugs and/or drugs, sex can increase the dopamine levels in your brain. Especially if you're doing the dirty deed with someone who knows how to make your toes curl.
By Samantha White8 years ago in Humans