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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

GENUINE BODY LANGUAGE SIGNS HE SECRETLY LIKES YOU.
I bet you were all once interested in body language signs of a man who shows he loves you secretly, right? If a man finds you attractive, you expect a man to say this directly to you or to show it directly to you. The least you foresee is that he will ask you.
By Lena Jhonson6 years ago in Humans
Five Perfect and Unique Gifts for the Person Who Has Everything
Is Christmas or a loved one's birthday coming up and you're drawing a blank on the perfect gift? Finding something for a friend or family member can be a challenge if you feel like they already have everything. If you need a few unique ideas, here are five perfect gifts for the person in your life who has it all.
By Carlos Fox6 years ago in Humans
Knowing When To Let It Go
Easier sang than done, learning to “let it go” is something that many people never completely figure out. The burden of holding on is almost as painful as the emotions that undoubtedly come with the release; and even if you end up liberated, the freedom is bittersweet. The truth is this: the more you invest of yourself into something that doesn’t serve you, whether that is a friendship, a partnership, relationship, or occupation, the more you weigh yourself down. You worry about the impact letting go will have on your life and theirs, along with the influence the decision will have on everyone and everything around you.
By Valerie Taylor6 years ago in Humans
For the Ones Who are "Too Much"
Let’s start this off by stating the obvious: You are a strong bitch. I do not give a fuck what anyone else says. You are alive and you are strong. No one - absolutely fucking no one - who knows your story can say anything differently. You went through what people have nightmares. But you didn’t get to wake up to make them stop. You grew up around people who had no idea what it felt like. And you were surrounded by people who all had an opinion on how you should be handling it, with none of them being how you were. You are allowed to feel things! The people that love you, really love you, will stay even when you are sad. If you being sad is too much for someone, let them leave. It is not worth it to make yourself smaller just so they can be comfortable. You should not have to pretend you are not hurting because you’re scared of how they will feel. And no matter what they say, they would not handle it better than you. That’s the thing; the people who tell you they’d handle your trauma better than you, are the people who have the privilege of never going through your trauma. They have absolutely no idea how it feels, and I promise if they did, it would hurt them just as bad as it hurt you.
By Stormy Robertson6 years ago in Humans
Five Red Flags To Catch Any Cheater
The most beautiful part of starting a brand new relationship is the hopefulness that lingers between two perfect strangers. As time progresses and more time is spent it is sometimes hard to think about the little red flags we unintentionally ignore or the things we ignore with every intention of simply being happy. It is such a beautiful feeling to be a part of another person's world. It makes you feel appreciated and most importantly so loved.
By The Darkest Sunrise6 years ago in Humans
Bad poly friend
So I have to say this before I tell my story I am not naming names and I'm not giving the people involved fake names, I can't get sued that way. Also names are not important. I am telling this story not to harm the parties involved but to help others and to call out this behavior. I have told part of this story before but I wanted to tell the full story now. For legal reasons I have to say this story is true but it is also told to the best of my knowledge and memory. Let's get to the story.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Humans
Husband And Wife Live As Neighbors In The Living Space. Who Is To Blame And What To Do?
BY RESIDUAL PRINCIPLE At different stages of the relationship between a man and a woman, difficulties are different. At the very beginning, we try to impress, arouse sympathy. Then, when meeting, it is better to get to know another person. Cohabitation involves the stage of "grinding". Having a baby also causes difficulties that must be overcome. That is life.
By Konstantin Kalushniy6 years ago in Humans
5 Ways to Make Your Home Always Romantic, Have You Done Number 3?
Every couple would want a complete household. A harmonious and comfortable household. Not just living together under one roof, but able to work together, complement each other, and complement each other.
By Moera Ruqiya6 years ago in Humans
10 Simple Things You Can Do to Surprise Your Wife
Making your wife happy should be the goal for every married man. That is a great goal to aim for because as many married men have found out if your wife is happy, you are happy. It is one of the basic rules of life, and there is just no way around it.
By Martin Bagel-Brown6 years ago in Humans
You Are Always ONLY 50% Right
If you find yourself in an altercation with anyone, there is no need to wonder whether you are right or not. You are always right! Yes, that is what I said, YOU are always right when recalling details for argumentative purposes. At least that is what I have learned in my recent studies. scientists say the human brain will only retain that which it deems necessary to retain, and that is about fifty percent of what "actually happened". Yes, only % therefore you ARE right when it comes to the % you retained. Your mind keeps what it believes is valid to you and the person you are attempting to have this discussion with, will do the same. To clear this all up for you, an argument will not reach a point of resolution when two people stand firmly in THEIR version. Suggested by a variety of therapists and gurus' I have been studying, it is wise to simply hear it all, pluck out the facts and simply focus on them.
By RachelAnn6 years ago in Humans
When It's Time to Leave
,It was September and I was living in San Diego, CA, with my 7 year old son and an Italian man named Marco. Marco and I had not had a very good relationship as he was abusive, both physically and psychologically. He used to make me write lettters to his old girlfriends since his handwriting was not the best, and threaten me with his fists if I didn't do it. He was abusive to my young son and I usually took the brunt of that by standing in front of my son when he went after him, and refusing to let him hit the child who was scared out of his mind. Then I would be the one to get in trouble but that was better than having my son get hit.
By Denise Willis6 years ago in Humans
Truths
A new Month, a new a new Year, a new Cycle. You know the saying, “life is what you make it”. We all seem to understand this, although I have realised and expanded my vision to its meaning. We are all divine and powerful creators. What we have accepted as our truths to the core will literally construct our whole experience. My philosophy is that every way is the way, every truth is as valid as the next. So when we look at the outside world 🌍 we are looking at the truths which we have accepted and are holding on to. So when it comes wanting to changing those truths, we can tend to focus on what we believe is possible, so we compare our vision to what exists in our present reality. From here our new truth will seem impossible or deluded in some way, because it doesn’t match the vibration of what we have accepted to be possible. To instil a new reality, let go of comparison and shift the focus on your new truth, for as long as you are focused on the old, you leave no space for the new Lego piece to fit your design, for you are creating that the space is already filled.
By Alan Vill6 years ago in Humans