Five Red Flags To Catch Any Cheater
As time progresses and more time is spent it is sometimes hard to think about the little red flags we unintentionally ignore or the things we ignore with every intention of simply being happy. It is such a beautiful feeling to be a part of another person's world. It makes you feel appreciated and most importantly so loved. Sometimes though, things aren't always as they seem.
The most beautiful part of starting a brand new relationship is the hopefulness that lingers between two perfect strangers. As time progresses and more time is spent it is sometimes hard to think about the little red flags we unintentionally ignore or the things we ignore with every intention of simply being happy. It is such a beautiful feeling to be a part of another person's world. It makes you feel appreciated and most importantly so loved.
Sometimes though, things aren't always as they seem. People have become very good at hiding who they truly are from their partner. Some get a thrill from it while others simply just want to have their cake and eat it too. Their are a few small red flags that could lead to you finding out disheartening information. Though as disappointing as it may seem it is always better to find out the truth before you are in too deep.
Here are some easily missed red flags you can't ignore when treading through the journey of love:
Red Flag #1: Secrecy In The Cell Department
Nowadays people definitely have become more and more attached to their phones in general. However, if your partner is taking their phone into the bathroom when they go or even take it with them for something as simple as getting a snack out of the kitchen I'm going to go ahead and say that's shady. Of course people are super protective over their possession but are they really going to the kitchen to get cheese and crackers or are they sneak texting Penelope in the pantry
Red Flag #2: You've Become Nonexistent On Social Media
Most people show the exclusivity of their relationships through many different forms of social media. People post pictures, videos, statuses and much more to express their love. If you find yourself in a situation where your partner is un-tagging themselves, ignoring tagged posts, or never posting about you something is most likely up. Some people don't like people in their business. But there is a fine line between being lowkey and being a dirty little secret.
Red Flag #3: Intimacy Has Come To A Halt
Do you remember the days when you and your partner used to ride the sweet waves of pleasure town? No Maybe because your partner is too busy dipping their toe into new waters. Relationships go through dry spells for sure but if the drought is sudden you might want to look deeper into the issue.
Red Flag #4: Their Entire Demeanor Has Changed
Maybe the seem angrier toward you, maybe even cold, impatient. Does it feel like you cant possibly do anything right? Maybe their demeanor has changed because they have found a new light in someone else. Often times when people cheat they begin to bicker with their main squeeze. Especially when their are real feelings involved with who they have been cheating with.
Red Flag #5: They Won't Answer The Phone In Front Of You
Now that is a true red flag. If your partner refuses to answer their phone or even open a text message in front of you most likely something is going on. Transparency is something every cheater lacks and this for sure in itself is one of the most notice but discreet red flag there really is.
You have to learn to protect yourself in a world where cheating is second nature. There are plenty of people in this world faithful enough to pull off beautiful relationships. However, it is way smarter to protect yourself from the truth before you fall far to deep into something your emotions won't let you get out of. The last thing you want to do is condone cheating because in the end once a cheater always a cheater. The second they get away with it the first time 9/10 there will be a second.
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