advice
Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Preferences & Blessings
I know you’re thinking I’m about to tell you that you need to let your standards go and just throw your “list” out the window. On the contrary, I think standards are necessary, but I do believe we [human beings] are prone to getting in our own way by standing behind our “preferences.”
By Charles Hayes IV6 years ago in Humans
The 'C' Word
On January 22, the seemingly-unthinkable happened: my partner of two-and-a-half years asked me to marry him. Apparently, he's come to the silly conclusion that, despite my daily ridiculousness, he loves me enough to hang around for the next four-to-five decades. His loss? Who can say, but I'm not about to look a gift horse in the proverbial mouth.
By Gracie Delaney6 years ago in Humans
Why You Don't Trust
Trust! That is a loaded word if you have been through the ringer of events with people you thought would never break you down. Hearing that your family talked bad about you at an event is never fun. Or having a spouse cheat on you is not the best thing to wake up to the next day. What happens if you never trust someone again? Will that feeling of untrusting go away? How can you have love if you don't have trust with anyone?
By Salina Lehn6 years ago in Humans
How to Help the Heart-Broken
Sitting around the lunch room table at work, the usual banter and lighthearted chatter ensued. It consisted mainly of complaining about the workload, whining about this manager or that manager and ribbing each other for the foibles we have or the various mishaps that occur at work — all friendly, of course. Politics and religion aren’t discussed.
By Dan Foster6 years ago in Humans
Always Ending up in Fight? Set These Relationship Goals for a Better Personal Life
A relationship is not always red roses; it has its sharp thorns that might pierce you inside out. Before it rips your heart, set some healthy goals in your relationship to keep the boat upright.
By Anitha Sankaran6 years ago in Humans
Why Courting and Dating is Important
How long does it really take to get to know someone? A week? A Month? Six? What's your time line? So quickly people fall in like with the idea of a person. What we see on social media, what we see in our dreams and even what people want us to see.
By Tanaine Jenkins6 years ago in Humans
Loving My Dark Skin
“You’re ugly.” That’s the main thing that most people would say about me for absolutely no reason. In fact, I’ve been hearing that for almost all my life. It’s sad that the ones who despise dark skinned people is other dark skinned people. It’s like black people like myself are always the butt of all jokes when it comes to our skin tone. That we’re unattractive and aren’t able to find someone to love us. I never understood the whole light skin versus dark skin debate. It’s ridiculous and dumb, in my opinion. Rappers tend to talk down to dark skinned women and it’s sad. Last month, black cosplayers celebrated 29 Days of Black Cosplay. It’s where they share a pic of their cosplay for each day of that month. I’m going to share some experiences of the colorism I’ve dealt with so far in life.
By Mark Wesley Pritchard 6 years ago in Humans
Who's The Victim here?
Have you ever been in a relationship or met someone that for every accusation made towards them, some horrible thing happened to them that it takes the blame away or justifies it? You tell your boyfriend or girlfriend, "I'm very upset that you stood me up and did not say anything till hours later?" and they respond, "You know what, I work my ass off and am tired why can't you understand that?!" And you're left feeling like, what the hell just happened... Or you tell them that they did something wrong and somehow it leads back to something tragic happening to them making it look like you are the bad guy. Believe me, I have dealt with that way too many times.
By Gaia’s Way6 years ago in Humans
What is Love?
Love... a simple word with 4 letters with an enormous sense behind it. What does that mean? Well, it’s personal for everyone but, for me, it’s the feeling when you are with someone who loves you the way you love them and that every time you’re with them, you feel at peace. However, love isn’t always as bright as it should actually be. Effectively, some relationships aren’t all unicorns and princesses. If you want some advices with your relationship, you are at the good place!
By Jina lenetti6 years ago in Humans
