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Set goals not resolutions
I think we can all agree that we are happy that 2020 is over and that 2021 is finally here. I felt this year while it had it's ups and downs, just felt so long. I at one point felt like it was never going to end. Every new years I think everyone makes their resolutions for the new year. But 80% of resolutions fail. And if you were like me I usually made the sale resolutions every year telling myself that this year would be different, that I would make it happen and this would be my year. Only to at some point get discouraged and lose my focus. I know that if you keep doing the same thing and hoping for a different resolute that you will get nowhere and that is insane. So I am determined to do something different and hope for a better resolute. If you don't like your life then it is up to you to change it. There is no magic fairy that is going to come and change it for you. You have to do it and you have to make it happen. So this year I am setting goals and intentions for my year. The main difference for me between goals and resolutions is that goals should be measurable and specific.
By Talara Nolan5 years ago in Humans
Confessions of a Tarot Reader
Searching for your soul mate? Have a romanticized vision in your head of what it will be like? Living happily ever after and never having a harsh word pass between you? Is this what you have come to believe your soul mate is all about?
By Bridget J. DeFalco5 years ago in Humans
7 Reasons Why 6 Life Hacks Are 5 Too Many
You have to love those clickbait headlines. The kinds that leverage our insatiable need to quell the angst of FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) with our succumbing to grind culture’s maxim of saving time to do more. Although, to be fair, I really am super curious about the single decision that ended the trajectory of Julia Stiles’ brilliant career. And confession time: after months of wondering, I finally found out how one injury dashed the Olympic dreams of an extremely attractive pole vaulter. We men can be such predictably sexist neanderthals.
By Ogun Holder5 years ago in Humans
Today!
Today is special, it's the first day of the rest of your life. Ohh is that all? I hear you ask. Yes, that is all but it is incredibly important as well, after all if that wasn't the case then there would be no pont being awake now would there? You wouldn't be able yo go for that cup of coffee or slice of cake. You would be stuck with no ability to taste, or feel. That stroke of skin or fur of a loved one wouldn't happen and would mean absolutely nothing to you, because 'you' wouldn't be here.
By David Milne5 years ago in Humans
Secrets From a Tarot Reader's Notebook
He Left His Wife! Now What? Ok, you had been in the midst of a fairly serious affair with this married man. You survived all of the mayhem as discussed in my blog Cheating and Affairs and now you think you’re troubles are over.
By Bridget J. DeFalco5 years ago in Humans
In A Tough World, Be Kind
It is no secret, our world today is full of chaos and fear. We are in the middle of a pandemic and social injustice movements. As a Social Studies teacher, I can tell you this is going to be a difficult chapter to get through in the 2040 textbook. When the country shut down in March, my school bulldozed right into Remote Learning. We had 3 days to get our curriculum together and off we went. We did not know how long remote learning would last and how to even give a lesson online. The emotional part was I never was able to truly say goodbye to my students. March 13th I said “Bye Guys! Have a good weekend and I’ll see you Monday!” Then I never saw them in person again.
By The Mindful Educator5 years ago in Humans
