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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Counting, is the beginning of trouble
An elder told this story. There was a man who was very lucky to get a large and beautiful pearl, but he was not satisfied because there was a small spot on the pearl. He thought that if he could remove this small spot, then it would become the most precious treasure in the world. So, he cut away the surface layer of the pearl, but the spot was still there; he cut away another layer and another layer, until finally, the spot was gone, and the pearl no longer existed.
By cheri dawson5 years ago in Humans
The Lemon Dress
My mother will tell you I always had my own taste in fashion. I would wear dance costumes to the library. I would wear plaid vests with mixed print clothes, tights, and sneakers. She always let me dress myself and never tried to stop me. There were one or two times in my teen years where she drew the line and said 'no,' and looking back on it, it was for the best and I am grateful for it. My mother and father have beautiful, classic, timeless taste. As I got older, I learned to adhere to a lot of those classic rules: white shoes belong on brides and babies, your shoes should be darker than your legs, look at yourself before you leave in your outfit and take off one accessory, and it never hurts to look your best. No, they did not invent those rules, but they are great rules to live by.
By Tinka Boudit She/Her5 years ago in Humans
Would you ever be someone’s mistress?
It was a hot, hot, hot poor summer. I had recently shaved my head into a mohawk and in cut offs, wore a cut off shirt I made myself, hot pink bra and karate shoes and then I was off with my friends. Stoned out of our minds, we biked up and down the shore of the beach for miles, faster and faster until it was too much. We stripped to our underwear and got in the water.
By Natalie LeRoy5 years ago in Humans
A Trope
Oh- Yes! I've been waiting to get around to this one. I've been digging my heels in and thinking about the stereotypes/ tropes I hate the most in books and why. I've looked them all up, turned them over in mind a million times, made pros-cons lists and then hesitated before I made the final decision of what's the most cringe worthy and what's not-so-cringing.
By J. L. Cross5 years ago in Humans
After falling in love with my girlfriend and husband, I was kicked out of the siege by my husband. I regret it now
My girlfriends and my junior high school classmates, my husband's high school classmates, and the three of us after graduating from college, all chose to return to the growing city to find a job. During this period, both my husband and my girlfriend were admitted as civil servants, while I worked in a private company.
By Jay Johnson5 years ago in Humans
The way to a woman’s heart, you can go for a lifetime if you choose the right one
01 The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, nor is it standing in front of you without knowing that I love you, but I have chosen countless paths, but in the end I still failed to reach your heart.
By Kimberly Smith5 years ago in Humans
Who Am I?
My grandfather used to tell me that Leadership wasn’t a title, it was a characteristic or trait you were either born with or you developed. In his teachings about the need for our family to overcome our own biases, he taught me that serving others did not mean to not serve yourself. I learned early in life what it meant to embrace who I was and where I came from, and the importance of growth outside of my comfort zone or outside of what I knew within my immediate eco system. I was determined to not only be the first in my family to attend college, but I want to learn how to develop continuously throughout my life to serve others.
By Marisol Martinez5 years ago in Humans
