After falling in love with my girlfriend and husband, I was kicked out of the siege by my husband. I regret it now

My girlfriends and my junior high school classmates, my husband's high school classmates, and the three of us after graduating from college, all chose to return to the growing city to find a job. During this period, both my husband and my girlfriend were admitted as civil servants, while I worked in a private company.

Because I look beautiful, I have always been very lucky. I finally chose to marry my husband because I think the comprehensive conditions of my husband are pretty good.

One year after my husband and I were married, my best friend was also married, and my best friend married a man in business.

After that, because the two families often gather together, and found that in terms of spending money, my girlfriends are much more refreshing than me.

Gradually, my mentality began to get out of balance: why can my girlfriends live a life of lavish money but not as good-looking as me?

Under such circumstances, my complaints about my husband are increasing.

Once, when my best friend went to a meeting outside, I contacted her husband on a single line. It was also that day, I became the lover of my girlfriend's husband.

This incident was quickly noticed by my husband, so my husband asked me for a divorce.

At that time, I was focused on finding a rich man, so when my husband mentioned divorce, I did not apologize for the derailment, nor did I make any reservations about this marriage.

After the divorce from my husband, the first thing I thought of was to instigate the divorce between my best friend and husband. What I didn't expect was that my best friend took the initiative to inform my best friend of the matter between me and him. The result in exchange was: the best friend forgave her husband, but turned against me from now on.

I am very disappointed and angry at this result.

However, this is already the case, I can only calmly end up like this.

After that, I also met some so-called rich people, but I didn't meet anyone who treated me sincerely.

Now, I am still single, and my husband has been married and reorganized.

I admit that in many lonely nights, I always think of the many little things that I have with my husband, which makes me regret it, but my husband and I will never go back to the past.

With the increase of age, in fact, I am terrified about the reorganization of marriage.

Perhaps, it was an extremely stupid decision to cheat on her girlfriend's husband.

Muzili sentiment analysis:

There are some truths, everyone still has to understand:

1) Men often like the appearance of their lover, but they look down on the lover’s heart. In the stereotype of a man, all women who are willing to be their lover when they have a family are very frivolous. Such a woman, Also only worthy of being a lover;

2) A man's sweet talk during the relationship between his wife and his lover, or even bad words about his wife, is a lie and absolutely cannot be believed, because once an extramarital affair is exposed, a man usually chooses to return to his wife. The reason why some cheating men will eventually lead to a divorce marriage is not because they want to divorce, but because his wife thinks he is dirty and doesn't want him anymore;

3) When you need to choose between a man who has money but treats you as a doll and a man who treats you sincerely if the financial situation is not that bad, please do not hesitate to choose the latter, because the former What can be given to you is only a brief pocket money, and the latter is willing to give all his for you;

4) If you want to rely on good looks, it is also possible. During this process, you must clearly understand: how much wealth the other party has is not important, but the amount of money the other party is willing to invest in you is the most important.

At the beginning, you cheated on your girlfriend's husband. Wasn't it the result of psychological distortion under the comparison mentality?

After that, you have also met a few rich men, but no one treats you sincerely.

So, sometimes, your behavior will determine your weight in others' hearts.

Choosing to marry your husband at the beginning may be the first step you took the wrong way. Because you love money so much, you should find yourself a rich husband at all.

There is also a saying: "If you come, you will be safe." Since you are married to your husband, and your husband is not bad, so you should take out the so-called duty and live with your husband at ease, but you have humiliated the sacredness of marriage by cheating.

I don't worry about you being able to reorganize the marriage, but it will be more difficult to find a rich man who is sincere to you.

In the future, you need to think about yourself again: do you insist on finding a rich man who is sincere to you, or just marry someone who is confused?

You have to know: Finding a marriage partner is not about the number of boyfriends you have, but the quality of the man who will eventually marry you.

Advice to you:

1) Don't meet rich people, just go up;

2) A man with a family should never touch it;

3) Don't lose your principle just because the other party has money. Take a look at the other party's character under a little reserved state.