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The driving force behind marriage sometimes is fear and not love
Whenever the word "marriage" comes to mind, we often dream about this happily ever after fantasy that starts with that joyful, happy wedding day, where all of our friends and family gather around to celebrate the coming together of two people they know and love. The fantasy usually ends with those people sitting somewhere, looking pretty old, staring at the sunset while holding hands, and reminiscing about all their life experiences. Marriage has always been a tradition throughout human history. It is a sacred ceremony that binds two people and unites them into one entity that someday would eventually become what we all know as a family. Now the definition of the word family has extended outside the marriage of two partners as relatives, best friends, and even associates can be considered part of a family. However, marriage itself has been deemed to be an achievement in a person's life. Every time someone asks questions regarding one's future successes, marriage is usually often mentioned. In addition to being one of life's most considered successes, it can signify that a person has found true love. However, what if love was not the true motivation for marriage. What if fear is the driving force behind the reason most people got down on one knee and popped the question?
By Spencer Jean-Mary4 years ago in Humans
Every person should get Covid-19 vaccination.
If you do not receive the Pfizer Moderna or Janssen Johnson & Johnson COVID-19 vaccine, there may be an acute allergic reaction (anaphylaxis) in part of the vaccine. If you have such a history, it is a good idea to talk to your doctor about whether or not you should get a vaccine before you get it. Some people who have been vaccinated and have Covid-19 experience a strong immune response to the first two vaccines against Pfizer's Moderna vaccine.
By Rosan Pandey4 years ago in Humans
Fucked up
Today I was sitting here working and texting a friend, like any other night. Tonight, he asked me if it made it easier to accept my life when I wrote it out to tell my story; but honestly it doesn’t, honestly it has made me deny my life a little bit more.
By Hidden secrets4 years ago in Humans
Substance Abuse and Addiction Treatment
Livermore California is one of the best places in the country to find quality substance abuse and addiction treatment. Livermore is also home to a number of world-class treatment centers, which have been certified by the A.D.C. The facilities provided by these treatment centers are the best in the nation and many patients who complete their stay at these facilities are able to lead productive lives. Unfortunately, many people do not seek help until they are too late. Substance abuse and addiction can often be difficult to spot, unless there is an addiction to a controlled substance such as alcohol or drugs.
By Lyla W4 years ago in Humans
Love At Face Value Pt.1
The hardest thing to learn about in a broken relationship is that you were never loved in the first place. You were maybe cared about but never genuinely loved.
By Leslie Oviedo4 years ago in Humans
Becoming a digital nomad pt.2: 8 important hard skills and potential job titles
Please keep in mind that this list is not exhaustive, but it will give you a clear picture of how you can make a decent amount of money to keep your digital nomad dreams alive and well. With the right skill set and knowledge, all else you need is a proper WiFi connection to create a steady income flow.
By Daniel Negrijn4 years ago in Humans
The 'Secret' To Amazing Relationships
It's a no-brainer how important relationships are to your happiness. Relationships are connected to some of our strongest emotions,” says Thomas Oppong, founder of Alltopstartups. He goes on to say that when relationships are positive, we feel happy, content, and calm. If these relationships are negative, as in if they bring out the worst in us or are non-existent, we tend to, “feel, anxious, depressed, and lonely,” Oppong says.
By Francis Sereva4 years ago in Humans
The art of getting what you want
I have decided to share with you what I have done to help you achieve your dreams and get you where you want to be this season. Sorry for bragging for a moment, but when I was 23, I was just pulled out of my underpants, living the life I had always dreamed of. I live in one of the most expensive cities in the world, I work in my dream job and I travel for free - I have achieved all the goals I set for myself in January 2017 and I am proud of them.
By Munu Khadka4 years ago in Humans
The Power Of Saying No... To KNOW Yourself
People don’t like to hear the word “no”. Even at a young age, rebellion wells up in our hearts as temper tantrums echo through the isles of the grocery store when mama says, “no cookies today”. It’s a natural reaction for us because our sinful nature is natural for us to indulge in. Because of the negative reaction people have to the word no, people pleasers and those with dreadfully low self-esteem tend to always say “yes” even when it drains the very life out of them day after day, decision after decision. I was one of those people. My answers to questions were never truly my own, they were always what I perceived was expected from me. I wanted to be who people wanted me to be; I was a chameleon who adapted to my environment and the personalities around me instead of discovering my own. Some things were good, but they weren’t ME. This blanketed my entire life: preferences, beliefs, responses, and actions. So here I am at 30 years old, not knowing who I am, what I want, or where I want to go in life. Well, at least I was….
By Meg Sarai4 years ago in Humans
Where Do You Land
Are you optimistic, pessimistic, neutralistic? Is the world abundant, scarce, or three bears just right? Is your view of the world about how you perceive the truth, your disposition, and your experiences? I can find myself feeling ‘hell-in-a-handbasket’ like my father, my grandfather, and I am sure on occasion, my grandchildren or I can deliberately expect and demand a different perspective from myself and different results from the world. My tendencies are a matter of wiring, and if I don’t want to continue wallowing in self-pity, I can undertake to rewire my brain to observe the magic, beauty, and mystery alongside the tragedy, hatred, and vitriol.
By Bob McInnis4 years ago in Humans
4 Eye-Opening Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Throw In The Towel
Quitting isn't always a bad thing. And in certain circumstances, it's also not a good thing either. The line between throwing in the towel or putting more effort into it can be fuzzy. Hazy even. And when we add in the fickleness of our moods and what the day brought or didn't bring, then that place becomes even more challenging to find.
By Rick Martinez4 years ago in Humans
The most effective method to Change Your Convictions and Adhere to Your Objectives for Great
The fundamental reason is if you can manage your drawn-out conduct. You might be tricking yourself, going to the rec center, or eating a solid eating routine, more than once, yet as you progress and change, and your general character changes, it's difficult to keep you over the long haul change.
By Ramesh KC4 years ago in Humans