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Being Independent is Difficult
Oftentimes this is done in a manner that is not overt, but it is there, under the surface. Relationships with abusive partners that cause no physical pain but maintain control Fellow humans on Twitter who comment on your picture and make you feel two centimetres tall Parents who are unaware that focusing on what their child can't do is damaging.
By Ben Shelley4 years ago in Humans
Ignorance Is Turmoil
It’s Monday morning. You wake up feeling freshly sober from the relaxing high of the weekend past. You have little expectation for the coming week, a blank slate. Yet, as you get out of bed, you stub your toe, or step on a child’s toy, or even a dog toy, immediately associating your first impression of the day with pain and negativity. You find that the same culprit of your first interaction with the day has had an accident that requires your immediate attention and your routine is already running behind. It doesn’t have to be these exact occurrences but any series of unfortunate events that can deter you from beginning your day in a positive manner. You’re ultimately late for work and you end up chastised for it by your supervisor. Knowing it wasn’t your fault, it’s hard not to feel like the universe is conspiring against you today and even harder keeping it from showing in your language (verbal and body).
By James Lassiter4 years ago in Humans
Why I Changed My Mind And Opted To Fight
His death was the final straw. After my dad and sister passed, God calling back my lover, friend and yes the first real man I would have submitted to once I healed from the hurt; it was definitely time for a change. Had I known that impulsive decision would have caused a domino effect I would have stayed my ass in Colorado, living in my childhood home, working at my dream hospital job, riding out my remaining years of multiple streams of income till reserves were tapped. However, I made the impulsive decision to move with no real plan in place during a pandemic no less. Well at the time I didn't know a pandemic was going to happen because had I known that I wouldn't have compromised my health no matter if I had been for the most part in remission (a significant amount of time with no major lupus symptoms) other than my normal aches and pains that were managed by my pain meds. No sir looking back had I known a pandemic was going to happen and the domino effect of being homeless, not getting medical care for my chronic illness, not being able to get meds, having to work 3 jobs 7 days a week, Arizona threatening to take my daughter because i didn't have anyone to watch her while I was sick in the hospital; yes I would have stayed in Colorado where I had established care, my meds were available to me monthly like clockwork, one job that paid all my bills, a home and most importantly I knew the laws and my daughter wouldn't be taken by CPS if I didn't have anyone to watch her while I was sick in hospital because I knew my docs and they let her stay or if not I had a village in Colorado.
By Kimmie Hite4 years ago in Humans
Ways to communicate with family friends colleagues and strangers
Building great associations with others can lessen pressure and nervousness in your life. For instance, being near loved ones is a significant piece of social help. Connections in different aspects of your life, like adore and family, can emphatically affect you, for example, understanding individuals you know and sharing your inclinations and interests.
By Cs Sapkota4 years ago in Humans
7 situations you can turn around with Anchors
How did Milton Erickson solve it? When Milton Erickson worked with patients with intense trauma, or chronic physical conditions he used his wonderful Trance Inductions to create lasting changes in those patients. He always used an anchor for them to easily access the altered mind-state in real life.
By Ridhima Dua4 years ago in Humans
