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A man, Detached...
A man, Detached Finding the extraordinary in the mundane has become the skill he values most. His initial journey was one set on fulfillment and seeking to obtain more, but just like most things, it evolved and grew into more. It now became a journey of spiritualization once believed to be unobtainable through contemporary means. With each passing day, the distance expands between him and the collective conscience. The collective conscience in this case is society and its structures. These same structures, which used to appear as boundaries for safety, now appear as bars for imprisonment.
By The Omnipotent Deity3 years ago in Humans
Virgo 17 August 2022 Horoscope
Here is the horoscope of 17 August 2022 . You can follow this horoscope without any hesitation. Read this horoscope in morning so that your day will be great. What awaits you this month? This month, Virgo, you can expect plenty of good things to come your way. First off, your career is likely to take a turn for the better. If you’ve been working hard towards a promotion or a raise, you’re likely to see some positive results this month. Things will also be going well in your personal life. If you’ve been hoping to meet someone special, you may just find them this month. Be sure to enjoy all the good things that come your way this month, Virgo! Your monthly horoscope for Virgo. August is a month when you’ll be able to put your positive attitude and hard work to good use, Virgo. You’ll be able to accomplish a lot this month and you’ll feel proud of your achievements. Your social life will also be busy this month. You’ll have many opportunities to meet new people and make new friends. There may even be a romantic interest in your life. Overall, August is a month when things will be going well for you, Virgo. You’ll be able to accomplish a lot and you’ll enjoy your social life. Make the most of it! Your love and romance prospects. Your love life will be excellent in this month. You will see very exciting changes in your love life Either way, you can expect some exciting developments in your love life. You may also find yourself attracted to someone who is very different from your usual type. August is also a good time to spice up your love life with some new activities or experiences. If things have been feeling a bit stagnant, this is the month to shake things up. Be creative and have fun! Your career. You will be determined to achieve your goals and will put in the hard work to make them happen. Your positive attitude and dedication will pay off, and you will make progress in your career. Keep up the good work and don’t let anything stand in your way of success. Your family life The month of August is a good time to focus on your family life, Virgo. You may find that you have more energy to spend time with your loved ones. You may also find yourself wanting to improve your home life in some way. This could be anything from decluttering to renovating. Whatever you do, make sure you involve your family in the process. This is a great time to bond and create lasting memories together. You may also find that you come up with some great ideas for improving your home life together. Overall, August is a great month to focus on your family life, Virgo. Make the most of it and enjoy spending time with your loved ones. Your health This month, you should focus on your health. You may also want to consider getting a check-up from your doctor. Taking care of your health now will help you stay healthy in the future. The stars prediction The stars predict that Virgo will have a month full of positive energy. You will feel confident and optimistic, and your good mood will be contagious. This is a great time to take on new projects and put your best foot forward. You may find yourself taking on more responsibility at work or in your personal life. Embrace this change and use it as an opportunity to grow. This month, you'll have a lively social life. as you will have many invitations to different events. Make the most of this by meeting new people and networking. Relax and recharge so that you can keep up your positive energy all month long.
By Ayesha Amjad3 years ago in Humans
Overwhelmed by Debt?
Have debt got you down? If so, you're not alone. It seems like everyone has a little bit of debt to deal with these days. Have debt got you down? If so, you're not alone. It seems like everyone has a little bit of debt to deal with these days.
By Christian Nissi3 years ago in Humans
My Experience Quitting Zoloft Cold Turkey.
About last summer, when I had just gotten an apartment and began living on my own and everything was great I was feeling so much better and more productive and then I was like… I don’t need my Zoloft, I am perfectly fine without it. I had already been taking it for nearly a year at this point and had just pulled myself out of another very long depressive episode and things were going amazingly. I’ll just continue doing the things I'm supposed to do, and I'll be okay. I clearly don't need it because I'm already starting to feel better. At the time I didn’t realize that, I was feeling better BECAUSE of the Zoloft. My brain was unable to create the chemical “serotonin” on its own, it needed help. But at the time I didn’t see it that way, I saw it as a fault, as something was wrong with me… everyone else's brain was able to produce the chemical that couldn't mine. When I was on it, I was so happy I woke up and no matter what was happening in my life I looked forward to the next day. I was even going to the gym, eating healthy, keeping my room clean, starting projects that make me happy. BUT me being the silly naïve person I was… I STOPPED TAKING IT, cold turkey… without consulting anyone, my therapist or my doctor. The first week was alright, I realize now after lots of research that it was leaving my body and the process takes awhile, even though I was still feeling okay I had noticed that the intrusive thoughts were coming back. So… slowly I started retreating into the old version of myself that I hated, the one I had avoided for so long, the one that could destroy everything good in the blink of an eye. The brain zaps started coming back, but I just fought through it the best I could because I didn't want to admit to myself that the symptoms were returning. In my head at that time I wanted to be off the stuff, I didn't want to depend on anything to make me happy and focused I wanted to be stubborn and do it on my own. But hey, every young person makes stupid decisions sometimes. Somethings you have to go through in order to learn that specific lesson in hopes you DON'T DO IT AGAIN. So yeah, the intrusive thoughts started coming back, I started isolating and not speaking to anyone again, I was sleeping ALOT and nothing that needed to be done was getting done. Like not taking care of myself, and putting off chores and things that needed to get done. The clutter returned and I found myself back in the same situation that I tried to dig myself out of. I started taking the Zoloft again, and at this point a lot of damage had been done. I stopped writing, I stopped doing the things I enjoyed like photography and going for walks and spending time with the people I love and care about. Also, living alone didn't work. I had a plan after I had left my old job and it just didn't work out so I had no income. This was when Covid was at like its third or fourth peak, so things were shutting down again. I had moved back in with the people I was living with before. It was me, and all the things that I had collected over the twenty-seven years of life, and withdrawal symptoms. There was so much clutter, I’d begin working on it slowly but I would get overwhelmed and leave it for weeks or months at a time. I felt too much shame and guilt to ask for help. It was something I had to do on my own. I hated asking for assistance with anything. If people wanted to help me, I would. Cautiously, and I didnt let them do EVERYTHING for me. If I was physically capable of doing something myself I would make sure I would do it. Just in case they turned their back on me and tried to throw in my face every nice thing or say they did everything for me. I hadn't even renewed that medication anyway, because I couldn't afford it. I didn't tell people how much pain I was in, I just kept going like nothing was wrong because I didn't want people to see me at my most vulnerable. I was always the strong one, I was afraid of showing weakness as I was used to being told “get over it” “that's life for ya” every time I tried to share my emotions. So I stayed to myself, quietly so as not to disturb anyone. Then I came to the conclusion that I was quickly going back to old patterns that I had fought so hard to stay away from. Because of the lack of the chemical my body and mind needed to function I was confused, frustrated with myself, scared because I didn't want people to see me that way. It's not where I wanted to be but now I look back it's definitely where I needed to be. Because now I know that when you stop taking something suddenly you basically relapse and the older you get, the worse it could potentially become. But now I know that so when I start feeling better again I wont allow myself to suddenly STOP taking it because I don't want to EVER be back in that place. Eventually in like a year or two when I am finally at a very good healthy place in my life and have more tools to help me function I would like to begin tapering off of it but until then if I want to be okay I need to do what I need to do in order to get to that point. Mental illnesses are just as important to treat as a physical illness is.
By Sabrina Cartwright3 years ago in Humans
His Eyes Will Start Wandering if You Don't Lose Some Weight
As women we're used to unsolicited commentary about inappropriate things all the time from both family, friends and even strangers. Comments about everything from the clothes we wear, to the careers we opt for, to how we decide to raise kids. But without a doubt, I find that certain cultural backgrounds carry a little more judgement within their core, especially for standards of beauty. I'm not saying that my personal experience speaks for all Eastern Europeans, or that I even had it that bad. I am quite aware of the inequalities that many women experience across the globe every single day. This piece merely hopes to outline the experience of one girl (me), growing up in Canada where we were constantly taught about acceptance and inclusiveness, and yet when I came back home or to my cultural community it seemed to be a completely different story.
By Hester Bach3 years ago in Humans
Advice for Wiccans. Love spells
Let's face it. We as wiccans would love to be able to perform spells that more experienced wiccans tell us not to perform. Spells such as getting our ex back, making someone we have a crush on fall in love with us, and even spells to scare away new lovers in their lives. But no matter the reason for why you would want to do these types of spells you must remember as a wiccan the law harm none. This does also imply manipulating others to do your will, including falling in love with you. Many people want their exes back. But once a relationship is over and our exes have made up their minds, it's best to accept it as it is.
By Danielle Mosley3 years ago in Humans
