Study: Bad-Mouthed People Are the Best Friends You Can Have
We all have at least one bad-mouthed friend
Have you ever wondered if you are a good friend? After all, does anyone know what it means to be a good friend? In theory, a true friend is always there for you, especially when it's hard for you.
A true friend helps you, loves you unconditionally, gives you the best advice, and tells you only the truth, doesn't he? We would all like such a friend, without a doubt!
According to a study, the best friend is the one who does not filter his thoughts when he talks to you, he is the one who does not censor himself. In short, the true friend is the one who swears like a tent door in your presence.
Why would a man who loves and respects you do that? You might be wondering. Precisely because you have a very close friendship and it feels comfortable in your presence. That's exactly what you should do! Unleash your imagination and don't hold back when you're with a true friend.
He will not judge you. And in the end, swearing is healthy in a friendship. Find out below why!
Bad mouthing embarrasses educated and polite people, but studies show that people who speak badly are smarter than you think. And they are very creative.
So if you are one of those people who are used to throwing a word that repulses society, don't worry, science will defend you.
You are not at all what your critics think you are. One study found that people who often say insulting words have a much richer and more creative vocabulary than those who prefer to be polite. It sounds paradoxical and bizarre, but as with any study, it makes sense.
Why people who speak so badly are the best friends you can have
1. They will always tell you the truth. Sometimes you find yourself simply swearing involuntarily. Often, such ugly words escape only in very emotional moments.
The study claims that a person who swears is much more sincere, precisely because he does not feel the need or obligation to censor his words. After all, we all need a friend to tell us what we need to hear, not what we want!
Well, only a friend who swears will always tell us the truth. Those who are not able to swear at us are sure to hide other things.
2. They give wise counsel. According to the same study, swearing people give the wisest advice. Although we may think that those who speak worse are less intelligent, it seems that things are completely different!
The more fluent a person is in a language, the more effectively they will use swear words to express themselves. Surely the vocabulary of a person who has a habit of cursing is very diverse! Otherwise, you would know so many swear words.
3. You can trust them. You can't swear at a friend if you're not very close to him! Otherwise, you could risk upsetting him. There must be a certain level of trust between the two of you to have such open discussions.
Case studies show that the teams that work best together are the ones that joke, swear and everyone is relaxed and uncensored.
4. Swearing is good for us. According to one study, several volunteers were asked to put their hands in ice-cold water twice. For the first time, they were allowed to swear - whatever they wanted and how they wanted.
The second time, they were not allowed to use ugly words, but neutral words. Participants were able to endure more pain when they were allowed to swear. So the next time you hit your little toe on the edge of the bed, allow yourself to swear as much as you need to!
It's healthy! You get rid of negative thoughts and reduce pain in one way or another.
The same thing happens with emotional pain or emotional pain. Releasing our frustrations is beneficial for the proper functioning of our bodies.

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