Secrets You Probably Didn’t Know About a Successful First Date

It is said that the first impression matters the most and besides it, the first meetings are the ones that lay the foundations of a relationship. But how do we behave in the first meetings?

We are casual, we falsify our reactions or we are as sincere as possible, although the person next to us does not seem exactly a gender that fits our qualities and defects. What do we have to do to make the first dates a memory of a future relationship and not just a few past encounters? As a starting point, we must be aware that the first dates with a man are the image we sell in front of him, therefore you must show nonchalance and impeccability.

Tips for the first meetings to go well on their own

If after the first meeting you are upset and you do not know what was the result of the collision of your stars, you better calm down and let go of the uncertainty, because in the end, you will still find out.

Avoid suspense because it leads to a disastrous ending. If he talks to you on the first date about too many former relationships that have gone well or not, it doesn't mean that he wants a serious relationship with you too, keep calm, anyone who likes challenges, so be one. If your college classmate or coworker catches your eye, don't rush to invite him to town.

Usually, men pay attention to the opposite sex just out of play, just out of a desire to satisfy their pride and simply because they feel good. So he doesn't necessarily look at you. If at the first meeting he is a bit reserved, then maybe he has some frustrations, it's not your fault, to solve them and then he will see how lucky he is that you got in his way.

If he makes the sensible, don't believe him. After the first meeting, any man wants to fulfill his goal, namely to take you to bed, convincing you with various roles that he can play perfectly, but it depends on you whether or not you fall into the trap.

Never give too much from the beginning, you better let him want, ask and never imagine a lasting relationship with him, no matter how charming he is on the first dates. If you suffer because of the illusions you make of yourself, you will only be able to keep lying.

If you've only met a few times and he calls you for his birthday, don't bring him a bow tie, it seems like a desperate gesture, you better tell him amused that you want to invite him somewhere after he gets rid of his friends.

Women's mistakes on first dates:

• I'm talking about personal development books and happy ending syrupy movies

• I'm talking about ex-boyfriends and previous relationships
• He dresses either too vulgarly or too conservatively
• I talk about how accomplished they are and how well they do professionally with the high salary they have and this scares them and drives men away.
• They overdo it with alcohol and become far too emotional
• I'm talking about holy things: marriage, family, and children
• They send confusing signals: if they don't like the individual, they continue to flirt, if they like it they become shy

Mistakes of men before and during the first meeting:

• I lie about the stature, age, and possible marriage, not even the physical appearance is exactly the one presented
• They are far too blurry, hasty, misleading, especially since a woman needs to know who she is dating, but they are far too elusive.
• I think a simple promise to have a date is a promise to have sex
• Men are either too brave, annoyingly impertinent, or too shy and take no steps
• Sometimes they get drunk and become far too daring and are unable to complete the meeting.
• I'm talking about the phenomenal future that a woman would have if she were with him

They give perfect men even though they know clearly that no one is perfect

If you have already started an idyll and you notice that it has not matured at all, most likely it will not do so soon and it does not give you hope that it will make a change just because it knew you.

Once the idyll is started, although he doesn't realize that you are more concerned with the deadlines at work than with cooking, if you know how to prepare something as simple as possible, you can waste 15 minutes of your precious time to satisfy a whim.

Try to appreciate him and give him that much-needed impulse to make the man feel at home, it matters a lot for a relationship to work.