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Many Will Love You for Who You Are, Others Will Envy You

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By Ravinder MannPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
Many Will Love You for Who You Are, Others Will Envy You
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The irony of life is that, for what you are, some people will sincerely love and respect you, while others for the same reason will hate you. Envy in its worst forms, unfortunately, exists in our world and you will have to deal with it. In the same way as with the fact that they are often envious because you have achieved something.

There is no greater misfortune for a person with a black soul than your success and a happy smile. And the fact that you are not afraid to be yourself, unlike him, an envious person will not be able to "forgive".

Just as you cannot love absolutely everyone in the world, it is impossible to please everyone. You will have to accept: very often the light you emit is irritating and arouses envy in some people.

When you are loved, you begin to shine

The true guardian angels are those people who appear at some point in your life and bring light, which makes you shine.

In doing so, they help you get rid of the doubts and barriers that have kept you from being yourself - the way you are. And this gives a man wings - he gets better, he flies higher, he can cope with any height and achievements.

These people don't necessarily say anything special or even say anything at all. It is important what they do, what they look like, how they support and inspire with invisible power. It infects you with some special magic.

And suddenly you start to realize that, in reality, they are unique and capable of many things. And this is already when they seem to have stopped believing in themselves and even dreaming of changing their lives.

After all, every person inside has a "light bulb" that makes you special and unique, one that can give the world something new and improve it. One problem: you have to "turn the switch" to turn it on. Because with this simple task, at first glance, few people can cope.

Therefore, people who love you support you - they are very much needed. They "turn on" this light

interior even with their presence. And it changes you immediately: you are not afraid to be yourself, you are not afraid to dream, to make plans, and to conquer peaks. At the same time, you discover in yourself extraordinary talents and abilities. Look at the number of people in your life who love.

However, there will be completely different people on your way - those who want to turn off this light. The thought that you have allowed yourself to be special, unique is intolerable to them. Sometimes they will get upset and upset, but only you will decide if you will allow it or not.

The demon of envy

Envy sometimes occurs in good, kind people. The difference is that they immediately get rid of such thoughts. Therefore, this feeling cannot be called murderous or characterized by a person as evil. It's often the other way around - it motivates you to get better, to achieve the same success as others. Thus, it becomes almost a "magic blow".

But often envy reveals all the darkness and evil to a person. And not only that

it improve, but it also tries to stop others. In addition, it shows this in a variety of forms: it directly harms, it sows doubt, it casts a word at random, and so on. His job is to turn off the light in your soul.

Such people hurt themselves primarily because they ultimately undermine their self-esteem. Envious people fall into the trap of constantly comparing themselves to others, and often even worse - they simply become obsessed with stopping the object of "admiration" at all costs and stopping it from the beginning.

The talent, the perseverance in achieving the goal, the success, and the glory of other people - all this turns into a real trigger, which provokes the only desire - to harm, to prevent, to stop.

How to protect yourself from the envy of others? The harm that envious people can do can be minimized, if not neutralized, by positive beliefs. You have to believe in yourself and then no one's words or actions can lead you or get lost.

You also need to remember that the more successful you are, the more envious people are "looking around." And that shouldn't overshadow your life. This is human nature - it is typical for her to compare herself to others.

Each person is unique and beautiful. And envy is a poison that poisons the envious person in the first place.

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