Is It Necessary to Talk About the Advantages of Fidelity in the Couple?

Shouldn't fidelity be a constant of any couple, be self-evident? But nowadays, unfortunately, the biggest problem that couples face is infidelity!

Why is a man unfaithful to his partner? Maybe out of boredom, maybe out of control, maybe he just finds another person much more attractive than his partner… But infidelity hurts both the unfaithful and the partner, and the benefits of fidelity in a stable couple are undeniable.

This article will not distinguish between the infidelity of a man and that of a woman. They both cheat and they both do the same thing by cheating. But a saying from the elders said, "God made the woman so that she was sown with one seed.

But the man did it in such a way that he felt the need to spread his seed everywhere "! Indeed, if we consider the cases of infidelity accepted - as in the case of Muslims or Mormons, the man seems to be the one who cheats more often…

But, going back to the first of the benefits of fidelity: avoid emotional confusion! What does this thing mean? The fact that the man, regardless of whether he is a man or a woman, needs a partner with whom he has an intense, emotional connection, with whom he can share his feelings and thoughts.

Having multiple partners with whom to have this emotional connection can create emotional and emotional confusion. The partner is a safe and constant landmark, but if the alternative transition from one partner to another is made, the human mind becomes confused.

One of the reasons Mormons recently gave up polygamy is that men find it too difficult to have a relationship with more women, find it difficult to communicate with more than one partner and find it even more difficult to communicate with children they had them with each partner. Not to mention another essential aspect: financial inconveniences!

The second of the advantages of fidelity: by being faithful you prove to yourself and your partner that you have value! Being faithful in a relationship means that you are faithful to yourself and that you are honest with yourself and your partner.

And sincerity is the equivalent of respect, respect for yourself and the other. In a relationship in which one of the partners cheats, one can no longer talk about respect! A partner who plots sneaks out of the house secretly has hidden thoughts and sneaks through "discreet" places so as not to be seen cannot be considered a man with too much self-respect! If his relationship doesn't offer him enough, isn't it more sincere and respectful to end it?

One of the most obvious advantages of loyalty: avoid a monster scandal most likely imminent! Maybe you think you know how to lie, that you have cover for your secret meetings, that your partner can't figure it out. But, that being said, we live in a small world!

No matter how hard you try to find discreet places to take your girlfriend/girlfriend, motels in remote neighborhoods, there are so many chances that someone you know will see you: a friend of yours or your partner, a colleague a neighbor, a neighbor, a relative, etc.

And once a person sees you, you can be sure that slowly, the cordless phone will work flawlessly and reach your partner. Therefore, this is the most logical of the advantages of fidelity!

Even if you are sure that no one will see you, you underestimate your partner! In a serious relationship, the partners know each other, and not only do they know each other, but after some time, they end up looking extremely good in their ways of thinking and reacting. Interinfluence is all the stronger the older the couple.

So, do you think that your partner will not realize that something is wrong? Maybe it will work for a while, but not for long… Even if you don't know exactly what it is, it will smell like something is wrong with you, you talk, you smell, you behave… Anything will be able to give you away, and then it would be good to be prepared for a scandal of proportions!

Few couples recover from infidelity and even if they get over it, the trust will be forever fragile and ready to crumble. Is it worth it? You know better!

The last of the benefits of loyalty, an important one: your reputation! If you end a relationship because it just doesn't work out, then you can go out quietly with other people until you find a suitable partner, but if you are unfaithful first because you are afraid/lazy to end the relationship or you are confused, and then the relationship it ends because of your infidelity, be sure that your ex-partner will take care to find out!

And everyone will find out. You know the saying, "once a cheater, always a cheater!" You may think that potential future partners will not know this because, of course, you will not tell them, but if you have a long-term relationship, he/she will know your friends, and one of them will be kind enough. to bring to their attention this little detail of your past!

So these would be some of the benefits of loyalty… your job is to compare them to the benefits of infidelity! Anyway, before you cheat, think about why you're doing this! If your relationship does not satisfy you, try to change it for the better or you just have to have the strength to end it!