Do You Believe in Soul Mates?

From a young age you learn, either through the power of observation or through the advice from a vast life experience from the elders, that love is a pure feeling and that it is very important to never stop on your way in search of your soul mate. 

In their support come the ideal love stories promoted by the well-known fairy tales, poems or stories to put children to sleep, who planted in you the seed of love, but without giving you instructions for using this feeling: for example, how to administer to tick the section "only once in a lifetime", to the benefits "offers a permanent state of happiness and satisfaction" and as contraindications "not to take on an empty stomach"; and as side effects that you may experience, such as jealousy, mistrust, possessiveness, be warned, "If you experience any side effects, please stop taking them immediately!".

It is very important, in search of the soul mate, to find that person who will fulfill you from all points of view, who will support you even when you want to do something that does not cover his area of ​​understanding, that person who will offer the freedom you need and inspire the courage to be yourself without fear, to smile and kiss you when you scold her, to fight for your happiness more than for her / his.

And you grow up with that desire to find that person. And maybe like many others, you will get lost somewhere along the way, either because you didn't have enough patience, or because you were overwhelmed by some superficial and ephemeral desires, or because of some disappointments that you have, you are dedicated.

Regardless of these plausible explanations, the fact remains that you lose confidence in this desire to continue the search for your soul mate.

And it is sad when you give up such a beautiful and pure desire when you stop believing. It is true that along this path you will stumble upon all sorts of people, to whom you will say with an open heart: "You are what I have been looking for all my life, you are what I have always wanted !!", but time can't wait to prove you wrong.

But that shouldn't stop you from looking for a soul mate, even if you give each of these people a piece of you, but on the contrary, it should make you want to move on because it's probably not long until the end of the road. which you have to go through on your own.

And also, you don't have to stop next to a person whose needs are not in line with yours, because the situation is similar to the one in which you go alone on the road in search of your soul mate, only in this case do you stagnate.

No sense in telling you now - I don't wanna ruin the surprise. to be ideal, because maybe that's the only way you can realize how beautiful what is happening to you is, that you are on YOUR path, and it is actually what you need, never more, never less!

And in the end, to be in search of a soul mate means, in a broad sense, not to avoid your destiny for some ephemeral moments, but to walk confidently towards it, no matter how difficult and blurry it may seem.

You don't have to be an incurable romantic, a dreamer, an idealist to believe in a desire that has blossomed in you since childhood.

Remeber: It is very important, in search of the soul mate, to find that person who will fulfill you from all points of view, who will support you even when you want to do something that does not cover his area of understanding, that person who to give you the freedom you need and to inspire you the courage to be yourself without fear