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If You Want True Happiness, Stop Giving Energy to Negative People

It's important not to waste your energy

By Brenda FigueroaPublished 4 years ago 4 min read
If You Want True Happiness, Stop Giving Energy to Negative People
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Why are you lucky with some people in life, and with others only failures and failures? What is the reason? And it is not necessary to look for a reason for a long time - it is precisely in the quality of your environment.

Because to each of these people you give a piece of your energy, that is, in essence - yourself…

It is certain that you recharge other people with energy and it is good if you talk about positive people - then they only help you to succeed and become happy. What if they are evil and vile? Then you simply steal your energy, responding to the good with envy and evil deeds.

If you want to be truly happy, you need to stop sharing your energy with toxic and bad people.

And the sooner you realize how destructive these people are to your well-being, the better. If you notice that they are not revealing everything that is best in you, but on the contrary, the darkest sides, these people are the ones who stand in your way and prevent you from finding happiness. Which means they should be removed immediately.

To be truly happy does not mean to be surrounded by a lot of acquaintances and lesser-known ones. It means being close to those who make you think in a new way, who always support and inspire, who do not give up hard times.

If the people around you make you feel like nobody and nothing, it will have consequences sooner or later. You will feel with almost every fiber of your soul that you are unbearably sick, namely right next to them. So escaping from such an environment is a matter of survival. You just don't have a spare life left.

Unfortunately, the negative people who steal your energy are not necessarily acquaintances, colleagues, or friends. They can even be among family members and close people. This is the whole difficulty: since you have the greatest confidence in them, you do not suspect anything bad until they cause significant damage.

So your task is to take off the masks of the people who feed on your energy and prevent you from living a full happy life as soon as possible. And the sooner you do this, the more long-term problems you can avoid. But be careful, because such people will try their best to look like "innocent lambs" and will continue to control you.

Break away from them without hesitation and doubt. Only when you get rid of such a "friendship" can you become the person you always wanted to be.

This is your life and you are responsible for it. And, therefore, you have every right to choose who can and must remain in it and who can find a way out.

Of course, at first it will be awkward for you to say goodbye to these people, but as soon as it is over, you will realize how right the decision was. The truth is that no matter what you are, decent, good, kind, and well-intentioned, it is impossible to change a toxic person. It's a fact that you have to deal with.

Understand that if someone in your environment is constantly gossiping and talking bad things about other people, then they will talk about you behind the scenes. Pay attention to this moment. Toxic people often disguise their true intentions, but that can't stop them from saying bad things to anyone. If you notice such "inclinations", prepare the way for "escape".

If it's unbearable for you next to someone, if you just choke sitting next to it, it's not just. Even if you still can't fully understand the reason and blame yourself for everything, don't hesitate to throw such a person out of your life, without even explaining the reasons. He still won't understand, but in the end he will offend you and hurt you even worse. Therefore, it is most reasonable to go elegantly and in English.

If these people are not pathological abusers, narcissists and so on, then in time they themselves will understand why they lost you. By the way, this experience may help them to change their lifestyle, which is already good. But even if you don't guess, it's not your problem.

Life is not eternal and you have to make the most of every moment, every day, while you are here on earth. Don't let toxic people poison your life, don't let them steal your happiness and joy. Let them look for other "fun".

There are many good and good people in this world. Share your energy with them and they will respond in the same way. Together - you can run mountains!

Being happy is not that difficult. When you know what you want, when you dream and realize your plan, when you don't give up and just go ahead, you automatically stop giving energy to negative people. You need something completely different - happiness, joy and good people!

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