Forget the people who don't like you

In this world, there are always people you don't like, and there are always people who don't like you. This is all very normal. And, no matter how good you are, and no matter how good the other person is, are harsh on each other not. Because, good is one thing, like it or not is another thing.

　　Deliberately to please people, broken, only the dignity of the self. Do not use countless times to bend the waist, in exchange for an indifferent low brow. The other side will only become more and more condescending and domineering in return. There is no equal, there is never reciprocity.

　　The actual fact is that you will not be able to get a good deal on the likes and dislikes of the good guys and bad guys. With an emotional tendency to see, it is inevitable to fall into small-mindedness. You can't say it's a bad dog if it bites. Dogs always have to bite, it is the nature and mission of dogs. That is to say, while staring at others, but also to see the defects and shortcomings of the self.

　　Of course, the ultimate fondness is more like a reunion between one self and another self in the light of day. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are willing to bloom for each other for no reason, and will be hopelessly devoted to each other, which is the ultimate like. The most profound liking is love, which is the adhesion and attraction within the life, which is the persistent adherence and affectionate look in the soul.

　　This is a secret and grand process of privatization. To be private means to be infinitely right, even if infinitely wrong. Sometimes, your countless glances back may not see a brush with each other. Sometimes, you take out the heart of an angel, not necessarily in exchange for the courtesy of an angel. If the other party does not like it, are too lazy to pretend to be an angel for you once. No one needs to make a show of it. Although, a moment of false feelings, can also soothe people intoxicated people, but will eventually leave the pain of prevarication, perfunctory injury.

　　So, the most foolish thing in this world is to run to the person you don't like and ask why. The most important thing is that you don't like it, you don't like it, there is no reason. Just like a gust of wind blowing by, all you have to do is to pat the dust on your body and turn around and walk away. Then, forget about the person who doesn't like you.

　　A person, dusty living in the world, to live for the people who like themselves. That is the best attitude. Don't lose your happiness with those who don't like you, and then forget about it with those who like you.

　　Do not chase things that you can't force. You are tired of this, perhaps the other party is also tired. You stop, you put down, will eventually find that the sky will not collapse, the world is always for all people dazzling clouds.

　　Who are in the mud of the world floundering. So, you have to allow others to have some worldly ideas and vision, just like, sometimes you can become so worldly once in a while. Go love life with people who like you. In the people who don't like you, to see the world. It's that simple.

　　Some people are born to love you, and some are destined to teach you lessons. What you painstakingly work for is what the other person does not think; what you bitterly hate is what the other person takes for granted. Between like and dislike, either a deadlock, or deadlock. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the business for a long time, and they've been in the business for a long time.

　　In the vast life, there will always be a or a few auspicious clouds for you to dazzle. Instead of struggling with people you don't like or who don't like you, why not take a happy walk under these auspicious clouds? There are not so many things to enjoy under the sky, just one, is enough.