8 Habits of the Most Charming People in the World

Making an excellent first impression of new knowledge is quite simple. To do this, you just need to follow the formula highlighted over the centuries: smile, look into the other person's eyes, talk to him, and do not interrupt.

But the first impression quickly loses its freshness and relevance, especially if there is nothing significant behind a bright smile.

But to remain a pleasant person for others and after the meeting is much more difficult. To create and maintain good relationships by positively influencing people, you need to do some pretty simple things that most people don't do.

Here are:

1. Think about what you can offer, not what you receive

When you help other people, you never do it in the hope of receiving something in return. A selfless gift is the only way to create a strong, lasting bond with another person.

If you constantly think about what you can get from that person, you will make it clear that the only person who is important to you is yourself.

2. Praise other people when you have what it takes

Everyone likes it when they are praised. And this means that one of the easiest and most reliable ways to please other people is to praise them for their accomplishments.

People not only like to hear a compliment, but they also appreciate the fact that they do not lose sight of what they are doing. This makes them feel more successful and more important, and they look more favorably on those who helped them experience these feelings.

3. Listen to others three times more than you speak

Ask questions. Look people in the eye. Smile. Shake head. Answer - and not just verbally, but non-verbally. This is enough to show the other person that it is very important to you.

During the conversation, do not advise unless you have been asked about it. If you just listen carefully to a person, it will show them that you care about them. Because when you give advice, in most cases you start talking not about the person you're talking to, but about yourself.

4. Try to hear everything - not just what you want to hear

Some people - and most likely you know some of them - simply can't hear what people are saying because they think they're "smaller" than they are.

Truly charismatic and charming people listen carefully to each of their interlocutors, inspiring us to feel as if we have much in common with them.

5. Don't act like you're the most important person in the world…

The only people who can be impressed by the arrogance, the pretensions, the false importance are the same people, pretentious.

Other people are not at all impressed by this.

6. Think about what you are saying and choose your words carefully

What you say and what you say can have a very serious impact on other people.

We all want our social circle to be happy, enthusiastic, and well-known. The words you choose in communication are quite capable of helping others feel better.

7. Never discuss other people's faults…

Yes, sometimes everyone likes to listen to fresh gossip and "spicy" details.

Don't laugh at other people. Because this is wrong, first of all, and secondly, those you laugh with now start to wonder if you are not going to laugh at them.

 8. But he easily accepts his own mistakes

To be truly charismatic, you have to be yourself, not hide behind a mask.

Yes, you shouldn't laugh at other people, but sometimes you should laugh at yourself.

Believe me, that's why they'll love you even more - and they'll want to be with you more often.